Introductions

Sandy

Hi, I’m bobs daughter. I’ll be 13 so it was suggested that I join to look around and although not in any chastity now maybe someday. I’m smart but impulsive and that’s what daddy worried about. I will be in high school in the falls and we have a disagreement on how I should handle my womanhood.

Angelina

Sandy

even though i have already answered you in some topics (because i always read and answer from bottom to top) again officially: welcome to the forum 🙂

Joh

Sandy
Welcome to the forum.
I hope we can help with your situation that your father and you will find a solution which fits for both.
If you have questions feel free to ask. If the topic is appropriate for your I will answer.

Vanessa

MaximeJourennes Merci Vanessa ! Yes, that's the thing. I know here since early middle school, we were friends for like 10 years. I always had a lot of feeling for her, and it's hard to imagine my life without her. That's why I accept so much things and I want to avoid conflicts at the maximum. But maybe my patience will eventually run out at some point...

I understand you,but you should tell it to her,and be sure she understands.If she loves you as much as you love her,she should understand that it makes you unhappy,firstly,and so not continue it,and secondly,that it should make you break-up with her,if she doesn't change her mind...

Saintprudence

Right.

Angelina I think you should talk seriously about your relationship, if she is the leader, she is also responsible for your happiness.

Right too.

MaximeJourennes She doesn't want to take it off, even for a cleaning break or anything. She chose a model with holes on it, so she says I don't need clean breakes because water can go through (which is technically true but...) And I have it since something like 2 weeks now.

Even with holes,it is very dangerous to not clean with it off!

She seems to like this idea but haven't taken the needed time to understand what it is to lead a relationship,or how to use chastity devices,about safety and hygiene...

MaximeJourennes I agree, but I don't know what to say her. If I say that I don't want to wear the cage anymore, she'll doesn't care or she will get angry, or she will say like "it's your fault" or "it's for you own good" etc. She doesn't really care about my opinion (I guess just like your dad)

You should not let her decide;if she does not give you the key,tell her then you would go to a locksmith or to the firemen and have it off anyway.

Agoria

Welcome!

Even if I don't share your opinion!😉

And you should buy your own one,on your measures,if you want to wear it permanently.

Bryan

Welcome!🙂

Don't worry,there is several men discussing here,too!😉

Agoria

"taille belt" =waist style belt or waist belt.

It should not hurt you!

Sandy

Hi,second account of @Bob! 🤣

Sandy

Vanessa Hi,second account of @Bob! 🤣

If daddy lets me use my laptop tomorrow would you believe me then?

Angelina

Vanessa Hi,second account of @Bob! 🤣

🤣

Sandy

Angelina not Angila 😉 and yes i do this because i take a leap of faith in you, but i also understand the administrators problem, but you are still here and i am happy to keep writing with you 🙂

Tobbe but this is a forum where YOU are invited by the admin to participate and no right to join.

so i registered here and was not invited by anyone, i don't know how you got here 😂

Tobbe

Sandy Hi Sandy!
You have to understand that there are many who just want a "fun" moment and tell a false story, to perhaps make their own boring life a little more exciting. Here has been several new members with incredible stories about chastity belts. Then their son / daughter also comes here and wants to somehow prove that what has been said, is completely true. After a few weeks, they disappear completely. 😕
Therefore, members and admin become critical, when another similar story emerges.

Vanessa

Sandy

No more.It would not prove anything.You can be @Bob(what I think)and use your phone or your laptop by switching between several accounts(two accounts in this case).

Tobbe Therefore, members and admin become critical, when another similar story emerges.

And some other classical things trolls do.

Angelina i registered here and was not invited by anyone, i don't know how you got here 😂

But you can't post right after registering,your account must be approved first.Even,if,as far as I know,no one had his/her account not approved.

Saintprudence I thought about making my own account but I really don't expect to be talking that much.

It's quick and would be interesting!🙂

Saintprudence And the corporal discipline seems to work just fine for us both.

Oh,you use it too? As strict as in @Sara2001's case or less?

Saintprudence Especially with the "trolls" coming along

Don't worry,we keep a look on them,and we've a lot of tools,from editing post to ban an account,so,we can act quickly and firmly if needed.

Saintprudence I worry

I guess it is already the case,but you should have talks with her about your worries

Saintprudence I like masturbation way too much to give it up longer than a day!

I understand you!🤣

Even if not much choice,in my case...

Megan Yes Laura does a good job of starving odd people of attention

I agree!🙂

Foxies My own reasons for wishing to wear my belt are far different most others anyway

It's good to have people in different situation with the chastity devices!🙂

Sandy

I'm not even in a belt yet. So not sure what incredible stories your talking about. I'm on my laptop now. (admin should be able to comfirm) Not sure what that proves. Daddy said I cant go on this site when he is not watching. So its still supervised like on his phone. I didn't come on her until I was asked to come on her. The Angila girl asked me to come on here. But whatever. Nothing I have said seems to extreme. Out of control sex drive, isnt that why chastity was invented? a head 1 grade in school...more rare but not un common. Do you not think im almost 13 because i dont use slang, emoticons or abbreviations aside from lol? O yea and i dont have pink text becuase all 12-13 year old girls use pink text. Spell check on phone and pc helps a lot. my texting is horrendous. so are you saying if im still here in a few weeks you'd start trusting me? Have you ever thought that people leave not because they are lieing but because they dont want to put up with the bs?

So aside fromt he fact of if you all trust me or not, I still have the problem of getting myself under controll so my dad trust me enough to go to the engineering highschool.
-sandy

Tobbe

Sandy I never believe anything! Most often solves it in any way within a month or two, if the person is a troll or really are a person who wants to get something useful to be a member. Probably someone has also been scared away, but this is a forum where YOU are invited by the admin to participate and no right to join.

Maybe a chastity belt make your father calmer, but do you really think that's the solution to the "problem"? A glimpse of the waistband during a lesson or break, would result in a lot of questions, which I do not think you want to answer.

Do you really want this education, it is better to give your father a form of contract there you promise not to be with any boy. If you do it anyway, you will have to stop the education and that is, I think, enough for you to sharpen up and not get your father worry.

Megan

Saintprudence Especially with the "trolls" coming along with even more alarming fantasies.

Yes Laura does a good job of starving odd people of attention and they go to sexual websites...

Sandy Do you not think im almost 13 because i dont use slang, emoticons or abbreviations aside from lol? O yea and i dont have pink text becuase all 12-13 year old girls use pink text.

IDK what you want to do in your life Sandy, please be sure you ask advice about what other people do and do not post sexual or sensitive information about yourself. Follow Lauras rules written at the start of the chat room and you will be fine.
There are several strangers who pass by who talk about abuse or sexual crimes and that isn't acceptable in a community about abstinence and chastity...
That is why people are immediately bothered by you, please try to understand how they feel.

Tobbe

Angelina Can be a little petites, but this forum is entirely on the admin's discretion and not a right that anyone can claim to be accepted and put forward their views.

Saintprudence

Prudence's wife here on our shared computer. I thought about making my own account but I really don't expect to be talking that much. Since I started posting, i figure I should probably at least introduce myself. Pru and I have been together for close to a decade, and I've been her key holder on and off for about three years. Right around the time quarantine started, it got really serious and I've been paying closer attention ever since. I suppose you could call me her dominant, since I'm the relationship leader. (It was all her idea, I swear! I just discovered that my bossy streak really came out when she volunteered for it. And the corporal discipline seems to work just fine for us both.)
I won't lie, I have a lot of worries about this forum. I browse every so often just to keep up with what she's reading. And lately I've been very tempted to invoke dominant status and forbid her from coming back here. Especially with the "trolls" coming along with even more alarming fantasies. At least, I hope they're fantasies because this is disturbing stuff. On the one hand, I appreciate that there's someplace serious to read. Even if everyone here is faking it, the conversation at least focuses on realistic questions and not the crazy fantasies of every other chastity forum out there. But I'm also concerned that this "normalizes" things for her. She and I were both raised by abusive parents and dealt with it a lot differently. She was raised as a man and lived with a ton of guilt, and I was a tomboy who had all her pants thrown out when I was a teenager because I wasn't being girly enough for them. My mom and I have come to terms with it, more or less, but I wouldn't call us close. It bugs me a little bit to see Pru angling for the same treatment I received, but she and Mom are both adults and that's up to them. I'm glad it gives them some resolution but the more I read on this forum, the more I see about Stockholm Syndrome and people normalizing some shocking behavior, the more I'm concerned that maybe she's internalizing the wrong ideas. Sometimes I worry that even I am just by being exposed to this stuff. It took a while to get used to giving spankings and locking her up and now I wonder if I like it too much. I don't know yet.
Okay, I'm rambling. I'll just end by saying there's no chastity belt in my future. Those things are way too cumbersome to wear unless you're a fetishist (which Pru definitely is) and I like masturbation way too much to give it up longer than a day!

Jen

Saintprudence Prudence's wife here on our shared computer. I thought about making my own account...

Thanks for the intro, shared accounts for couples are sweet. I don't think it's rambling - it's nice to have more normal voices here. How long have you been following? I thought the crazy's were really bad recently but I see in the old forgotten threads it's there too.

Saintprudence maybe she's internalizing the wrong ideas. Sometimes I worry that even I am just by being exposed to this stuff.

Um yeah me too. Like not worried but I guess wondering. But also I realise i'm one of the few here with basically a normal upbringing.

Laura

Saintprudence and I like masturbation way too much to give it up longer than a day!

One more reason to try a chastity belt

Angelina

Tobbe

I don't disagree, but being accepted by the administration is different from being invited.

Sandy

Megan There are several strangers who pass by who talk about abuse or sexual crimes and that isn't acceptable in a community about abstinence and chastity...
That is why people are immediately bothered by you, please try to understand how they feel.

I haven't talked about sexual abuse. i simply spoke about ways to control my sexual urges.

Foxies

Jen I thought the crazy's were really bad recently

My feelings certainly!
I am often at a loss to understand the values that are often expressed here and have no rational comments that might not appear rude or impolite. For this reason I prefer to just read and hold my tongue.
My own reasons for wishing to wear my belt are far different most others anyway, and a part of me wonders how many people here would vote me crazy in a poll 🤣

Saintprudence

Jen Pru's wife here. I've lurked on and off for about a year. I've been seriously reading for about three months.
The crazies worry me, a lot. I believe chastity should exist strictly between consenting adults. If the people here with wild stories about wanting to belt their kids are for real, they are absolutely committing a crime. Pru and I both had abusive parents like that, even if my mom doesn't like to hear about it, and it's unhealthy and sick to be that obsessed with teen chastity.
My biggest worry is that Pru internalizes some negative thoughts about herself. Some of the suggestions she's made for us are things I later saw came from this forum. And I'm okay with most of it, we're both consenting, but I worry about the overall tenor. She's dealing with her damage as best she can, but sometimes I wonder if it's like letting a recovering alcoholic hang out at the bar.

BikelockFugitive

Foxies Just post it mate, someone has to throw some reason at people.
Don't care about their feelings otherwise their bullshit manifests.

Saintprudence

Foxies Pru's wife here. I feel like you and I are some of the least crazy people here! Your reasons for wearing the belt are your own, and you've certainly earned the right to choose it. The worst people on the forum don't believe in choosing.

JonesMacGyver

Foxies I think our reasons for wearing a belt are similar.... So I can't vote for you being crazy unless I say the same thing about me... 🤣

Bob

Vanessa No more.It would not prove anything.You can be @Bob(what I think)and use your phone or your laptop by switching between several accounts(two accounts in this case).

So how do we prove ourselves then? Or are you gonna just keep thinking we’re trolls? Also I don’t remember any delay time before I could post.

Angelina

Vanessa But you can't post right after registering,your account must be approved first.Even,if,as far as I know,no one had his/her account not approved.

Right, I forgot, although it is also difficult not to approve an account.

Saintprudence

Vanessa Oh,you use it too? As strict as in @Sara2001's case or less?

PW: We use it, but nowhere near as heavily as people have implied their families are. It was started entirely at her request. It has worked out really well. We're both strong-willed when we really stand our ground. We love each other, but when we argue we get really shouty. We got written up by the apartment management once because the neighbors could hear us! When she asked to go to lifestyle-dominance, she wanted to use caning to settle the arguments. It was effective and it turns out to be less hurtful than words. Also I like that I can force her to be on time for stuff, evil laugh, because tardiness is a big pet peeve of mine! This lets her follow her natural submissiveness and just do what she's told, so I barely ever use the cane anymore.

Corner time was also 100 percent her idea and I'm 100 percent sure she got it from here. She only asked about it right around the time quarantine began. It's kind of worked out because our problem is our tempers get really heated. Putting her in the corner for a while shuts her up and I tend to just stay away, and by the time it's over we've both cooled down.

It took me some time to get used to, because it feels like I'm doing something wrong, but it makes her happy and settled a bunch of problems. So I roll with it.

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