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Angelina

yes, it's not easy, is she of age by now? then unfortunately you can't do anything legally, but you can give her the feeling of always being there for her. it's difficult with unsolicited advice, let her come to you when she needs help. 🙂

Mr-TM

@hanna_anders No, my granddaughter is not an accident. My daughter decided together with her partner to have a child.

@Angelina My daughter is of age and will be 19 in January. That I can do nothing legally is clear. But what should I have done? She has always had her own head, but apparently does not know what to do at the moment.
Of course I am there for her. But she doesn't ask me for "help." I guess her partner took care of that. On the other hand, she also complains that I don't support her.

After all, she has been writing to me again since yesterday and probably wants to eliminate the problems we keep encountering.

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Jen

Mr-TM Hey Mr-TM so send her money, send her nice messages, like - similar age to me and a mum already! Sounds difficult - make things easier for her. Visit - babysit?

Angelina

Mr-TM On the other hand, she also complains that I don't support her.

then she should say clearly what she expects, then you can talk about it, i agree, all very difficult

Mr-TM Unfortunately, sending money is not possible. She gets social welfare, which means it would be deducted directly from her again.

then shock her with an envelope by mail, or drive to her place. damn it, she is your daughter and I can do 500 kilometres in less than 5 hours, if you have time off or holidays just do it.

Mr-TM

Unfortunately, sending money is not possible. She gets social welfare, which means it would be deducted directly from her again.
And baby-sitting is also out of the question. She lives about 500 km away.

Info from today: Baby 2 is on the way.

hanna_anders

Mr-TM so she has to manage on her own with her bf, I can see thats frustrating for you, but you can't do much about it other than worry. All you can do is offer support and let her know you're there if she needs you - with a second child on the way she may need you more, depending on how her relationship with the father goes. Hopefully they are a good match 🙂

Mr-TM

I am happy too. But I know from experience where the difference between imagination and reality is.
I never had the choice. She has probably done better.

hanna_anders

Mr-TM But I know from experience where the difference between imagination and reality is.

yes I agree, there is a big difference. But it sounds like she is doing her best to make it work.

Mr-TM

Yes, it seems so. When she really wants something, she goes through with it (at least that's how it used to be). In any case, she gets it done much better than her own mother.

Mr-TM

Angelina then she should say clearly what she expects

That is exactly the problem. I think she doesn't know herself what she actually expects.

Angelina I can do 500 kilometres in less than 5 hours, if you have time off or holidays just do it.

I brought this up a few days ago. So far, she has not responded. I see that now as a good sign; at least she didn't say no.

toad

Mr-TM When it comes to child custody it's the same in the USA men don't have a chance

Angelina

Mr-TM That is exactly the problem. I think she doesn't know herself what she actually expects.

then she needs orientation which you could give her, well i think the point will come after the birth of the second child at the latest. 😉

Mr-TM I brought this up a few days ago. So far, she has not responded. I see that now as a good sign; at least she didn't say no.

i hope it works, even if it's just for a weekend or so 🙂

Mr-TM

Yes, I hope so too

Angelina

Mr-TM

it's all going to be fine, i firmly believe that, blood is thicker than water 🙂

Kaja

CharInChastity Hello and welcome :-)

Laura

CharInChastity HI, I'm Charlotte but my friends call me Char.

Nothing to do with @Kinkycharlotte ?

CharInChastity

Laura who is that? I haven't browsed the forum to long so I don't know anyone here. But to clarify, NO, i do not know that user.

Laura

CharInChastity Same name, same ISP, similar story

Kaja

CharInChastity Tell us more about you :-).

When you start wearing it? Why (just carefulness or where you got caught, ...)?

Do you wear one 24/7? Breakes? Supervised showers?

Do you have siblings? Do they wear one? And what you mother?

Avery

CharInChastity My mother is in chastity too but I did not know until I got my belt.

Wow. By "in chastity" you mean your mother wears a belt? And you did not notice until you were belted yourself at 11 or 12?

Kaja

CharInChastity Im sorry for you!

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