Ines Not forced, and such stories are very old. Currently forum has another policies, as you can see reading other stories with similarities.
I think it depends on the definition of the word "forced". If it is used in the sense of, finally it wasn't our choice if we wear one or not, some members here are forced. It's not like someone used physical force to bring the belt in place. Before I was married, I have seen myself as a forced wearer, too. It was against my will and not my free decision.
CharInChastity I don't see the real difference between have to and forced. Have to with no consequences for not isn't really "have to".
That's how I see it, too. If I haven't had a choice, I am forced.
Ines Sorry, but put a belt in a kid is a not defensible act
It's child abuse, but that's not her fault. I believe from the parents perspective it can be done out of love, but it's a very sick perspective and still child abuse.
CharInChastity I'm pretty sure my Dad wanted me in it before I got distracted and have sexual urges
I can see the logic behind it, but it's wrong.
You think they should decide if you wear a chastity belt or not? Why? It's your life and your body.
CharInChastity You all seem to say my parents are horrible people because of something 5 years ago.
No, we say it because they did if for a duration of 5 years and still do it.
CharInChastity But if they did the same thing now it would be less of a big deal. I
No, it's still abusive.
CharInChastity Although I would do anything to get out of this belt and make those same mistakes, my parents are protecting me from my self.
This statement makes no sense for me. Sounds like you know the consequences and how to prevent them? It's not a mystery how you can get pregnant and the ways of preventing it are cheap and well known.
Kaja You will be suprised by sexual feelings at 11 yo? You were never a child?
My feelings definitely started around that age, but I got my belt years later. It's definitely to early. I personally think it's impossible to hide at this age, too.
CharInChastity So i guess my main question is, if a parent waits until 14 or 16 for chastity isn't that to late?
It's to early. The laws in almost all countries in the world are very clear about that. Against their will is never legal and 18 is the minimum age for consensual wearing in most countries. BTW, I had to wear it earlier, too. I don't hate my parents for this, for me it doesn't feel like abuse, but I know it is.
CharInChastity What if that boy didn't respect your daughter saying no? Im not on my parents side but I see their point. Luckily your daughter was not taken advantage of when she said no. ME, I'm not sure i would say no.
What if you get hit by a car when you leave the house? Wouldn't it be saver to chain you to the wall of your room to ensure you are save? It's the same invalid argument. The best way to prevent you from being in unwanted situations is to teach you how to use your brain.
