WriterAlexis You have a true point on there being outdated rolemodels, especially when it comes to the expectation of the sacrification of the husbands health, wealth and time for the sake of spoiling his wife. It's not easy to find the right partner to sgare ones life with, the one who doesn't see you as an investment. But maybe it's just my own experience and the recent break up is speaking from me, but meseems that most women only want to date you if you have a good job. And if you happen to be wealthy anyone wants to date you for the sake of spending the money you worked for.
To me, the general expectation by society of this bing normal speaks in facor of a matriachy.