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Milord

dorothea doesn’t know about yours or hers? Also pretty strange that your mother and your aunt are both belted but not from their mother. I bet it’s an interesting story

Joh

dorothea It would be nice if you could share with us how it came it to wear the belt with your mother and your aunt.

dorothea

Susan Please tell us how things are going

So today is the first day without a relaxing break. But there was already a cleaning break 😉 Everything is well at the moment, of course some other demands are increasing now, but I expected that.

Sara Don't be afraid to let your mom know when things don't feel right and don't be pushed into doing things you aren't comfortable with.

I can talk to my mum really openly about it and she definitely has no interest in forcing me to do anything. Rather, she wants to make things as comfortable as possible for me because she would also like me to continue wearing the belt after the 3 months.

again about the bands. Of course the first impression was very intense. These also have a really intense effect.

I've already worn them again. And now I have them on too. I just have to get used to the fact that some movements are no longer so easy or are sometimes not possible. The second time it was much better 😉

Joh It would be nice if you could share with us how it came it to wear the belt with your mother and your aunt.

Sorry, but no. If you would like to tell your story, then you are welcome to come here, but otherwise I don't want to tell you about other people, or only as little as necessary, that's their private matter 😉

Sara

dorothea Good luck! I know that you must have a lot of anxiety over your three month test period.

It sounds like your mom has been slowly acclimatizing you to the belt so hopefully it will be easier for you than others, but it won't be easy.

Don't be afraid to let your mom know when things don't feel right and don't be pushed into doing things you aren't comfortable with. For instance I know you were going to try out thigh bands and were initially unsure of them. It's ok to say that you can't handle them, let your mom know why, and just firmly refuse to wear them.

Anyway, good luck, you are very strong to go through with this, and I hope that you will continue to share.

Susan

Sara so right Sara. This takes time, don't rush it. Remember what you are giving up and why. Make sure you are OK with it. Even though it gets easier over time, it is never easy. Don't be so quick to accept thigh bands 😀

Angelina

dorothea Yes, that's how I would define it, no orgasms 24/7 and only breaks for cleaning, control and all that. No breaks to relax or anything like that.

therefore, from my point of view, the 3-month test has already begun and i wish you every success in keeping it up and hope that your experiences are either positive or that you manage to pull the emergency brake 😉

dorothea According to my mum, my grandmother doesn't know about the belt.

when did she start wearing the belt? if your grandmother was not the key holder, but your father was, then your situation is very different from hers

Susan

Angelina therefore, from my point of view, the 3-month test has already begun and i wish you every success in keeping it up and hope that your experiences are either positive or that you manage to pull the emergency brake 😉

Please tell us how things are going @dorothea. We want to help

Susan

dorothea So today is the first day without a relaxing break. But there was already a cleaning break 😉 Everything is well at the moment, of course some other demands are increasing now, but I expected that.

I am glad to hear that. Are the "other demands" wanting to touch?

dorothea Rather, she wants to make things as comfortable as possible for me because she would also like me to continue wearing the belt after the 3 months.

My aunt is the same way, once she got it in her mind that this was the right thing to do, she made sure that I would not use comfort as a reason not to wear it. She bought several belts, which I still have and use, and I have been in for adjustments a few times too. I have been wearing for a year and a half now.

Angelina

dorothea

thanks for your update. i think it's an important point that they try to make you as comfortable as possible, unnecessary restrictions would lead to a loss of acceptance. i'm curious to see how it affects you psychologically after a month, in my experience that's the phase where it gets the hardest, good luck

Joh

dorothea Sorry, but no. If you would like to tell your story, then you are welcome to come here, but otherwise I don't want to tell you about other people, or only as little as necessary, that's their private matter

It would be nice if you could ask them if they would like to participate here. We are very interested in their point of view. They are free to say what they feel comfortable with.

dorothea

Susan Are the "other demands" wanting to touch?

Exactly that, but it was also foreseeable that this would sometimes be more, sometimes less so. It will probably never be completely gone.

Sasha

dorothea Going to depend what your drive was to begin with and what you do to redirect that energy.
But you can certainly get to where it’s there but manageable

dorothea

dorothea I'm sure you're absolutely right 😉 This redirection of energy is still a bit of a matter of getting used to, or I still have to learn it a bit 😉

Susan

dorothea agreed, it never goes completely away.

Susan

Sasha That is what AJ always says, redirect those feelings to something more positive. Over time it does become more managable.

Dianahey

dorothea How was the training period of wearing?

dorothea

Dianahey A mix of strange, expected, a lot of time and so on, but what exactly do you mean by that?

dorothea

Angelina i'm curious to see how it affects you psychologically after a month, in my experience that's the phase where it gets the hardest, good luck

Do you mean after a few weeks, a month or so, it will get a little easier? Or do you get used to everything a little more?

Today was definitely the most difficult day ever. I was actually home alone all day. I had a few fights with the belt today. Of course I had no chance, but I tried a few times.
My mum also said earlier that she could see that.

She also suggested that I might use the bands. A bit similar to what @Jenna probably did to @Susan
She said it might help me fight the belt less. I can think about whether I want to have the bands or whether I would rather try it that way.

Joh

dorothea If you have the Option to use the Bands on your own then Test it If it helps you. Than you know and Cane decide If it better in your current situation or you can manage it without.

Milord

dorothea something is not clear. If I can ask, of course feel free to ignore me
1) what benefits will you receive in exchange for wearing a chastity belt?
2) what happens if you decide that you don’t want to wear it after the 3 months of training?
3) what are the conditions to get out? Complete Study, marriage? Getting out of home?

Thank you

Susan

dorothea She also suggested that I might use the bands. A bit similar to what @Jenna probably did to @Susan
She said it might help me fight the belt less. I can think about whether I want to have the bands or whether I would rather try it that way

She did use the bands a couple of times, but only if I said it was OK. I found them very restrictive and have not worn them since. They certainly made it hard to fight the belt 😃

Angelina

dorothea Do you mean after a few weeks, a month or so, it will get a little easier? Or do you get used to everything a little more?

i think that after a few weeks, i.e. about 1 to 2 months, you will reach the high phase of frustration. your last orgasm was not so long ago that you psychologically want to do without it and you haven't had one for a long time. after that it gets better again and there are waves, so sometimes the arousal increases, sometimes it decreases. at least that's my experience

dorothea This will be discussed in detail before the end of the three months if the belt remains worn. There is still no fixed goal.

it should be discussed immediately, actually it should have been discussed before a belt is ordered, it must always be very clear what the goal is

dorothea

Milord 1) what benefits will you receive in exchange for wearing a chastity belt?

At the moment only things like that I don't have time to come home and can move around more freely, so to speak.

Milord 2) what happens if you decide that you don’t want to wear it after the 3 months of training?

Other than my parents definitely being disappointed, there would be no consequences

Milord 3) what are the conditions to get out? Complete Study, marriage? Getting out of home?

This will be discussed in detail before the end of the three months if the belt remains worn. There is still no fixed goal.

Milord

dorothea

Thank you for answering. Appreciated

Susan

dorothea Other than my parents definitely being disappointed, there would be no consequences

Same for me. @Jenna wants me to wear the belt and will be very disappointed if I stop, but she says that other than sadness there will be no consequences and I take her at her word.

Joh

dorothea Did you ask or will you ask your mother and/or aunt if they would participate at the forum?

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