Doro's theme.

dorothea

Susan Are the "other demands" wanting to touch?

Exactly that, but it was also foreseeable that this would sometimes be more, sometimes less so. It will probably never be completely gone.

Sasha

dorothea Going to depend what your drive was to begin with and what you do to redirect that energy.
But you can certainly get to where it’s there but manageable

dorothea

dorothea I'm sure you're absolutely right 😉 This redirection of energy is still a bit of a matter of getting used to, or I still have to learn it a bit 😉

Susan

dorothea agreed, it never goes completely away.

Susan

Sasha That is what AJ always says, redirect those feelings to something more positive. Over time it does become more managable.

Dianahey

dorothea How was the training period of wearing?

dorothea

Dianahey A mix of strange, expected, a lot of time and so on, but what exactly do you mean by that?

Angelina

dorothea

thanks for your update. i think it's an important point that they try to make you as comfortable as possible, unnecessary restrictions would lead to a loss of acceptance. i'm curious to see how it affects you psychologically after a month, in my experience that's the phase where it gets the hardest, good luck

dorothea

Angelina i'm curious to see how it affects you psychologically after a month, in my experience that's the phase where it gets the hardest, good luck

Do you mean after a few weeks, a month or so, it will get a little easier? Or do you get used to everything a little more?

Today was definitely the most difficult day ever. I was actually home alone all day. I had a few fights with the belt today. Of course I had no chance, but I tried a few times.
My mum also said earlier that she could see that.

She also suggested that I might use the bands. A bit similar to what @Jenna probably did to @Susan
She said it might help me fight the belt less. I can think about whether I want to have the bands or whether I would rather try it that way.

Joh

dorothea Sorry, but no. If you would like to tell your story, then you are welcome to come here, but otherwise I don't want to tell you about other people, or only as little as necessary, that's their private matter

It would be nice if you could ask them if they would like to participate here. We are very interested in their point of view. They are free to say what they feel comfortable with.

Joh

dorothea If you have the Option to use the Bands on your own then Test it If it helps you. Than you know and Cane decide If it better in your current situation or you can manage it without.

Milord

dorothea something is not clear. If I can ask, of course feel free to ignore me
1) what benefits will you receive in exchange for wearing a chastity belt?
2) what happens if you decide that you don’t want to wear it after the 3 months of training?
3) what are the conditions to get out? Complete Study, marriage? Getting out of home?

Thank you

Susan

dorothea She also suggested that I might use the bands. A bit similar to what @Jenna probably did to @Susan
She said it might help me fight the belt less. I can think about whether I want to have the bands or whether I would rather try it that way

She did use the bands a couple of times, but only if I said it was OK. I found them very restrictive and have not worn them since. They certainly made it hard to fight the belt 😃

Angelina

dorothea Do you mean after a few weeks, a month or so, it will get a little easier? Or do you get used to everything a little more?

i think that after a few weeks, i.e. about 1 to 2 months, you will reach the high phase of frustration. your last orgasm was not so long ago that you psychologically want to do without it and you haven't had one for a long time. after that it gets better again and there are waves, so sometimes the arousal increases, sometimes it decreases. at least that's my experience

dorothea This will be discussed in detail before the end of the three months if the belt remains worn. There is still no fixed goal.

it should be discussed immediately, actually it should have been discussed before a belt is ordered, it must always be very clear what the goal is

dorothea

Milord 1) what benefits will you receive in exchange for wearing a chastity belt?

At the moment only things like that I don't have time to come home and can move around more freely, so to speak.

Milord 2) what happens if you decide that you don’t want to wear it after the 3 months of training?

Other than my parents definitely being disappointed, there would be no consequences

Milord 3) what are the conditions to get out? Complete Study, marriage? Getting out of home?

This will be discussed in detail before the end of the three months if the belt remains worn. There is still no fixed goal.

Milord

dorothea

Thank you for answering. Appreciated

Susan

dorothea Other than my parents definitely being disappointed, there would be no consequences

Same for me. @Jenna wants me to wear the belt and will be very disappointed if I stop, but she says that other than sadness there will be no consequences and I take her at her word.

Joh

dorothea Did you ask or will you ask your mother and/or aunt if they would participate at the forum?

dorothea

Susan but she says that other than sadness there will be no consequences and I take her at her word.

I think that's the most important thing! That's why I don't see the belt as abuse. My mom and my parents don't want anything bad to happen, they actually want something good to happen.

Susan She did use the bands a couple of times, but only if I said it was OK.

For my mum, the bands are a normal part of the belt. But she also gives me time to get used to it.

I wore them this afternoon and again this evening. I was home alone again for some time. They definitely prevent the fight a little or make me give up quicker.

dorothea

Joh Did you ask

No!

Joh or will you ask your mother and/or aunt if they would participate at the forum?

And No!

If you find the forum yourself and want to register, that's fine, but I also think it's good to have a place where I can talk to others absolutely freely about all the things that concern this topic, it's so much easier for me 😉

dorothea

Angelina it must always be very clear what the goal is

I agree with you. For us or me, that's exactly what the test phase is for, to get to grips with everything first. And to see if it will stay that way. If a goal was set before everything had started, then one party might have been too disappointed. So I think it's pretty good for us at first. But we'll talk about it in due course.

Joh

dorothea I wore them this afternoon and again this evening. I was home alone again for some time. They definitely prevent the fight a little or make me give up quicker.

How are the chain connected between the bands?

dorothea I agree with you. For us or me, that's exactly what the test phase is for, to get to grips with everything first. And to see if it will stay that way. If a goal was set before everything had started, then one party might have been too disappointed. So I think it's pretty good for us at first. But we'll talk about it in due course.

I am curious if you still see a benefit by wearing the CB and bands compared if you do not, for what you get and what you have to spend after the test period.

Angelina

dorothea If a goal was set before everything had started, then one party might have been too disappointed

i don't understand why? it's about the time after the test phase, i.e. what is expected if the chastity belt project is really to continue successfully, you should know your future. if the belt is the goal until the wedding, then you would be able to find out now in the 3 months whether you can actually imagine walking around with this device for so long

Joh

dorothea If you find the forum yourself and want to register, that's fine, but I also think it's good to have a place where I can talk to others absolutely freely about all the things that concern this topic, it's so much easier for me 😉

This makes sense and I can accept it.

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