Newbie's questions

Sara2001

Angelina it is very hard for me to think about something that hurts me a lot and that has to be done so that my father accepts it 🙁

Long time loosing privileges.
Early curfew, No own Money, no making Appointments on your own, almost no time with Camry. All of this for very long durations, like months or so.

Vanessa

Sara2001 This relationship is by far the most valuable thing I have.

Same for me and Emilie.

Angelina that's why i will soon talk to my dad about the fact that i am really interested in having a marriage with camryn (when we are old enough)

He doesn't know you have talked about it?

Sara2001 Long time loosing privileges.
Early curfew, No own Money, no making Appointments on your own, almost no time with Camry. All of this for very long durations, like months or so.

"Good" ideas.I would add losing the "chain privilege",for her thighbands,using only a lock again.No TV or no cell phone is very hard,too.

Angelina

Sara2001 Long time loosing privileges.
Early curfew, No own Money, no making Appointments on your own, almost no time with Camry. All of this for very long durations, like months or so.

it would be good ideas, i'll think about it 😉

Vanessa He doesn't know you have talked about it?

I don't think he really believed it yet but I'll talk to him about it over the next few days

Vanessa .I would add losing the "chain privilege",for her thighbands,using only a lock again.

that's the first thing I lose with most punishments anyway 🙁

Ines

Vanessa I would add losing the "chain privilege",for her thighbands,using only a lock again.

It sounds right now almost prophetical... For me is so cruel. If I would was mom of a daughter as Angelina, with her heels phobia, I think that a grounding will start with with wear outside home only heel shoes. At least, learn to wear them is useful for us!
Wear a padlock... It is not 😟

Vanessa

Angelina it would be good ideas, i'll think about it 😉

Not easy ones,but easier than having to break-up.

Angelina I don't think he really believed it yet but I'll talk to him about it over the next few days

Good idea.You dhouls be sure he understand that trelationship is very seriious,and making you break-up with her shoudl nto be a punishment.

Angelina that's the first thing I lose with most punishments anyway 🙁

Not surprising,he knows it sui possibel to deal with it,and was a recent privileges.

Ines

Yes,we talked about it here soon before she get a severe punishment...I'm not unused to the "lock" punishment,as my parents use something similar;I always wear these with a lock,but I may have to spend much more time in thigh bands(including during the night)as a punishment.

I like your idea of "high heels punishment"!🙂

Ines

Vanessa I like your idea of "high heels punishment"!

At first, just heels! 😂. Do not be cruel! For a woman, specially a future professional, wear correctly a pair of heels is far more useful than 100 essays!

Valadar

Vanessa I like your idea of "high heels punishment"!🙂

Lol I know of a device that allows a women's high heels to be literally locked on... I think the novelty of this idea may probably wear off if locked in high heels for a long length of time won't your feet get sore in a few hours? 😉

Vanessa

Ines

Even if not totally necessary,I think it is better to be used to wear heels,yes.

Ines

Vanessa
At the end, I think that is image, as when men wear necklaces.
Heels give professional image too, I think that to know how walk with heels is useful for us (for me is not nice these women that instead walk with them, hit the ground with their shoes... They seem horses! And sometimes are little heels).

Vanessa

Ines Heels give professional image too

I agree.I think in some jobs,or for some receptions,a woman should wear heels.Even if she not like it and not wear it often,except in such situation,she should be able to wear heels if needed.

Natescage

I get spanked and put in the corner too,but I would feel more disturbing to have shoes locked on me...

Ines And I think that "lock" heels are far of have a firm hand in order a girl wear them.
For me is same for boys, parents must teach them to dress correctly.

I agree.

Ines I think that is far easier, less with exceptions as Angelina that hates heels, in general girls like them (even if sometimes hate them at same time 😆).
All of us know the effect that produce a pair of shoes in a woman image, so, in general all have heels, at least for special occasions.

Right!

Natescage she should practice in then it will help her later.

We tried to convince her,with no success...

Ines

Valadar
I think this conversation is becoming a bit freaky...

Natescage

Valadar yes it could be used as a punishment as would be uncomfortable. And I understand it's weird Ines but is it more freaky then Sara talking about getting spanked by her dad and made to stand in a corner? Just saying .Akeing someone were heals that are locked on there feet (or making a firm wear them to get used to them) is not as crazy as what happens in her family. I get that she is happy bit why is her situation not freaky when locking he's are?

Ines

Natescage but is it more freaky then Sara talking about getting spanked by her dad and made to stand in a corner?

I wrote my opinion about this a lot of times. But for me is not freaky... just terrible.
And I think that "lock" heels are far of have a firm hand in order a girl wear them.
For me is same for boys, parents must teach them to dress correctly.
I googled about Valadar consideration, and mostly (or almost all) content is fetishism.
I respect all, but is not my cup of tea.

Natescage

Ines yes I know it was something I had thought of. But yes can just be strict and send the girt to school in heels, especially if she doesn't have sports that day. Could always send shoes for the sports to and tell her to wear the heel's. She might not like it at first but in my experience girls who were heals young get attention from boys. They walk more feminine and look more attractive because if it. Then just need a belt then to make sure no nonsense with the boy's.
😀

Ines

Natescage
I think that is far easier, less with exceptions as Angelina that hates heels, in general girls like them (even if sometimes hate them at same time 😆).
All of us know the effect that produce a pair of shoes in a woman image, so, in general all have heels, at least for special occasions.
But, if I would have "a exception" with my daughter, for sure I will do she learn to wear them, because is a thing that is necessary and with some age she would be grateful.

Natescage more feminine

And make feel us more secure of ourselves. Wear heels is as go hairdressing saloon. Balsamic 😂

Natescage

Ines couldn't agree more.i didnt know @Angelina doesn't like heals but she should practice in then it will help her later.

Natescage

Vanessa I admit the shoes thing was featuring I saw them on internet but learning to walk in heals is good I'm currently persuade my friend at school to do it so she looks good for internships. An hour a day walking in them is enough.

Ines

Natescage
If a girl refuses to learn to walk or stay elegantly with heels, that girl is closing doors in her life.
In life and work, a elegant and powerful woman usually wears heels and skirt.
Do you think in an attorney, for example, first image in your heads... For sure is not wearing a jeans and a top.

Vanessa

Natescage learning to walk in heals is good

I agree,but she should not be forced to by wearing such locked shoes.Or she would hate it a lot and would never wear it as soon as she lives on her own.

Ines If a girl refuses to learn to walk or stay elegantly with heels, that girl is closing doors in her life.
In life and work, a elegant and powerful woman usually wears heels and skirt.

I agree too.I guess,even if a woman doesn't like it,she should be able to,if it is needed.

Natescage

Ines or sneakers or uggs or flip flops or Crocs or anything else really.

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