Angelina Sorry after reading a little more up I see where your reaction came from. My initial response was in the topic question not as reply to you maybe that explains part of our confusion. But I will clarify my view on this in the next paragraphs
I personally don't think maintenance spankings are the path to achieve some of the goals discussed in this forum. I Still think there has to be a form of communication to prevent this from becoming abuse. In addition to this although not my main concern is that the law in most eu countries requires some form of concent about these activities.
About giving concent this can quickly become a minefield with the view on some of the topics discussed on this forum. The main 2 risks are that underaged people cannot give concent until a certaint age. Also concent may also be invalidated if there is an unequal power balance which is the case with a parent to child relation in addition concent may allways be retracted at any moment.
Most importantly in my opinion is how you as a person feel about it and what you think about it.
Do you willingly accept and participate with spanking and/or chastity or are they accepted because you sort of have to in your household that is what primarly mean with there has to be clear communication and freewill. The small nuances in these matter make the difference.
With all the above in mind I stand with my earlier made statement
"I think free choice and communication are key in the whole story. There has to be some form of free will in it."
