Forum feedbacks, suggestions and notices

Joh

Sin What constitutes serious use? Is it the non-consent part? Virginity preservation?

A serious use is only a matter of choice but not an evaluation criterion.
I just find it intolerable when one or other use is devalued or labelled as illegitimate.

Angelina

curious

Valadar should let off steam in his own little world for all I care, frankly his posts weren't that bad in the beginning but became so over time.
But the big problem is that we no longer welcome everyone, I don't mean trolls but people who simply want to write about their experiences, far too much moralising and far too much theory. I think many have noticed that we discuss a lot of things in theory, that used to be different, it was about normal everyday life with belts, what is real happend.
i have written several times that we should bring people together and not divide them

Sin @"Laura"#p26341My friends are running some anti-BLM campaign ...
Laura I'm also anti-BLM, considering the BLM as terrorists and criminals.
Laura you are free to support BLM, and even fall to your knees.

wait... because @Laura doesn't like BLM she supports Nazi propaganda? wow, I really have to tell my black friend that I'm a Nazi because I think BLM is an extremist movement, I bet she didn't know that yet. No seriously, you can't be serious

Tonyand03

Angelina But the big problem is that we no longer welcome everyone, I don't mean trolls but people who simply want to write about their experiences, far too much moralising and far too much theory.

Totally agree

Jenna

Angelina But the big problem is that we no longer welcome everyone, I don't mean trolls but people who simply want to write about their experiences, far too much moralising and far too much theory. I think many have noticed that we discuss a lot of things in theory, that used to be different, it was about normal everyday life with belts, what is real happend.
i have written several times that we should bring people together and not divide them

Angelina, this is your best post ever. We need to be honest that chastity belt wearing is a taboo topic that cannot be discussed openly in society. This is a private decision that we can all agree on must be consensual. When a girl makes a decision to wear a belt, for whatever reason, they need to be able to come here and get honest dialogue from those that have already been down this road. Unfortunately conversation is stifled by some people who constantly interject their views. Sadly we have already lost at least 3 people in the last week @curious @dorothea and @Dakshina.

@curious is a painful loss because he was a disciplined proponent of responsible belt wearing. He is someone I aligned with because we shared many of the same views. He was beaten into submission here because his views ran afoul of the moralizers, and the Forum is a worse place because of it. The other 2 girls, I can only speculate why they don't post here anymore. It's sad though because I know wearing a belt can be scary at the beginning. There are girls who have lots of fears and concerns and who better to address them than people who know all about it?

This needs to be a welcoming environment for all. The Forum would be a better place if we were all more welcoming.

WriterAlexis

Angelina

@Angelina droppin' the ol' "I have a Black friend" defense! 🤣

Renita

Jenna The other 2 girls, I can only speculate why they don't post here anymore

Because my this Renita post?

Angelina

Jenna When a girl makes a decision to wear a belt, for whatever reason, they need to be able to come here and get honest dialogue from those that have already been down this road.

right, the exchange of experiences is the most valuable thing here and the mutual support. exceptions of course for trolls but i think if you exchange experiences you will quickly recognise them 😉

WriterAlexis @Angelina droppin' the ol' "I have a Black friend" defense! 🤣

i also have a communist friend 😉

Arno

To be honest, I became a silent reader from time to time. And written contributions mainly is in "Neosteel" thread:
https://unwedchastity.org/d/738-neosteel-general-discussions/228

Generally, I'd like to contribute more, but to be honest, I unfortunately do not have much to report w. r. t. the original purpose of this forum (primarily / mainly experience sharing from chastity belt wearers). Examples from the recent past:

At present I am an online keyholder for a young woman using a different forum (she was looking for a keyholder)
In another forum I am in an intensive chat contact with a young woman about chastity / chastity belts, since she denotes herself a cb fetishist
Moreover, I guided / advised a guy into chastity belts, met him personnally showing him my two female My-Steel belts. The reason is, his girlfriend wants to kept chaste (by him). Now she is wearing a "chinese belt" to get used to it since quite some time, with the purpose, wearing a Neosteel one later on.

Sometimes I'd like to get in (direct) touch with the one or the other user. But I am afraid what would interest me might be e. g. a bit inappropriate to ask, etc.

Beside that, I just could think of contributing in technical ways if that would be an option at all.

My forum feedback in brief:

For me it is a very valuable forum!
All my respect and admiration to the forum founders / admins who invest such a huge amount of (free) time to keep it up and running!!
What I occasionally miss is a bit of a - let's say - user-centric view

Milord

@Laura

Is it possible to be able to look at posts for users from oldest to newest?

It’s very difficult without to go through thousands posts. I check when the user appeared first time and then check the date on the introduction post. Not easy at all

Laura

Milord Is it possible to be able to look at posts for users from oldest to newest?

Not sure. Will check

Angelina

Milord Is it possible to be able to look at posts for users from oldest to newest?

a good idea, i also wish this was possible, especially to learn more about the initial story from experienced users

Milord honestly for some users I just give up.

for some reason i think i'm one of them 😂

Laura Not sure if everyone will like it

the posts exist (if they have not been deleted) and can be found anyway, it just saves a lot of effort if there is this possibility

Mr-TM

I have already mentioned something like that. It would be enough if you could scroll through the users' posts just like in the rest of the forum and not always have to press the button before you get to older posts.

Milord

Mr-TM honestly for some users I just give up.

Milord

Laura thank you

Laura

Milord It doesn't seem flarum has such feature. I can only change it for everyone in the code

Joh

Laura Would you do it? It would be a Grat Help to See what was posted already and WE need Not to ask again.

Laura

Joh Not sure if everyone will like it

Joh

Laura We Had this request several Times and Nobody was against it. So I don't See a Problem. All Posting are available but needs some efgort. If you Change IT No additional information would be available.

Mr-TM

Why?

Laura

Joh Most people prefer to see last posts first

Milord

Laura
Best will be to be able to chose. Most websites with lists allow sort it from newest or oldest

Mr-TM

Laura Most people prefer to see last posts first

Does that mean there is only either or? The user himself cannot switch it?
Is it possible to remove the "Load More" button so that you can scroll through all posts, as in the individual discussions?

Laura

Milord Flarum doesn't have such feature. Neither extensions

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