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MissBlossom

Milord What is missing is a place where a female chastity in a relationship marriage-like is discussed.

Maybe a private BDSM section isn't really what's needed, but rather something like a private BeltedRomance section, which may sometimes touch on BDSM, but only as one potential part of life in a belted romance?

Milord

MissBlossom

Yes, exactly! I’m not interested in talking about bdsm here. But I can’t talk about ourself properly without bdsm, because it’s part of our relationship, and I don’t feel comfortable in sharing where I can offend someone

Ines

MissBlossom

It has more sense.

Angelina

Milord

why don't you make a poll or something, then we can vote, i only gave my personal opinion, i don't presume to speak for the whole forum and as i said before the final decision should be made by Laura and Ines

Joh A few years have passed since the forum was started. You are one of the examples that ended up in a steady relationship. You are now living in an equal marriage.

right, but that has nothing to do with the forum, only with my own story. Sara has always been one of those who have been very careful not to mix her somewhat special relationship with what this forum is about and Ines has so much experience with serious chastity that she is very valuable as a user (even if we have different ideas about how the forum should develop)

Milord

Angelina this is not my place. I'm a guest. Decision must be taken by forum responsible, I don't want to force their hand

Joh

Angelina right, but that has nothing to do with the forum, only with my own story.

Maybe I expressed it Not clearly. I think the ongoing different relationship is something which can be helpful for Others to know. Yourself is a other than Saras and Ines will be different as well.

Angelina

Milord

right and before we discuss too much further I'll ask directly what @Laura thinks about it

Angelina

Joh

all 3 of us have a similar history, we were or grew up in chastity in our youth and early adulthood, the belt can of course influence us differently and therefore we have different forms of relationships. but i am concerned with the basic course of the forum and there we are all 3 the same, we have experienced serious chastity, no games

Joh

Angelina I agree with you that wearing a CB doesn't imply a specific relationship. But you can Not disconnect your current life from before. I think it is helpful for Others If they can get information Out of First hands which different relationship exist, how they Work, what it means,which View the Partner have and other on this Kind of relationship. It will Help them to Develop.

Angelina

Joh

i think we are somehow arguing past each other. i agree with you 100%, especially the development of long-time users of the forum is certainly a core topic that is always interesting to follow. but exactly because i agree with you i have concerns about introducing a separate BDSM section, i think that doesn't do justice to the seriousness of the topic here

Laura

Had to block few IPs from Alibaba Cloud. They flooded the server with excessive number of requests

pestulens

Laura Any idea what they where about? I know that could be anything but I am curious.

Laura

Laura Had to do it again

Laura

pestulens They were trying to download the entire forum in many streams. Nothing unusual

Ines

Laura

Sincerely, the entire world under my user knowledge is awesome.

Joh

Angelina introducing a separate BDSM section,

Than name it different. It should be an closed topic only for members visible in which we can discuss open all parts of relationships.

Milord

Joh

Beltedmarriage?

Wedchastity?

Powex?

Angelina

Joh Than name it different. It should be an closed topic only for members visible in which we can discuss open all parts of relationships.

when I read that....

Joh

i see that we have no differences of opinion, i just think that what you describe is not quite what @Milord meant, at least originally

Ines

Belted marriage, is, if you are loyal to the tittle topic and do not become that in a fetishism thread, acceptable.
Adult tagged, of course.

Milord

Ines

Honestly I would prefer that it is hidden from general population too.
As for fetish, I don't know what is acceptable and what is not. My personal objective is to discuss, not to write porn novels.

pestulens

Ines

Milord
I imagine there will probably be several threads under the proposed tag, and each thread might receive some extra scrutiny to make sure it's topic is within acceptable bounds.

MissBlossom

Ines
I suggested Belted Romance so it could include romantic relationships other than marriage.

Ines

Milord

It is not necessary, and obviously I would hope to find there dynamics inside marriages.
It is acceptable.
If fetishism has some role, is legit discuss there, however to become that on a sadomasochistic dungeon would not be allowed.

Joh

Ines If fetishism has some role, is legit discuss there, however to become that on a sadomasochistic dungeon would not be allowed.

I think what will be enriching are contributions to the dynamics in relationships. In my experience, living together in a marriage is not a sure-fire success. Husbands and wives are too different in the way they approach things that there has to be a continuous exchange between the two. The expectations of the different types of relationships don't make it any easier. Sharing your own experiences and help with this can certainly help.

Any details about practices, I think, should not find a place here. If two people want to talk about it, they can do it another way, such as email.

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