Ines No, not everyone... There is a small galian village...
Well Ines you must know that there is a Gallic (me) from the small village of Roman Gaul (Vesontio) who hopes to change your mind about it.
Here is his argument of the moment:
When you were younger, I suppose you did not necessarily want to taste the set of dishes that your mother could be asked to offer you.
Simply because just by their appearance physic some foods could seem repulsive.
And I can also assume that, like all parents, your mother then tells you:
"At least taste my darling and if you really do not like it, I will not force you to eat it again"
It is a classic that everyone has known during his life. No ?
Well, you see Ines, you should have exactly the same approach to masturbation.
Indeed you seem a priori somehow disgusted by the first aspect (losing your rank as a respectable and well educated girl).
But in reality, you are unaware of the subtlety and deep well-being behind this NOBLE and SAFE practice for health.
And as long as we have not yet tasted something, it can be pretentious to say that this thing is bad? No ?
On the other hand, have you ever thought of asking your younger sister for his opinion on the issue.
Do you at least know if she takes advantage of her absence of a belt to discover the pleasures offered by Mother Nature?
Maybe she would be able to open your mind to other subtleties?
And it would also be an opportunity for you to strengthen your complicity with her.
Rather than urge her to raise her level of morality (about the belt) why not lower your degree of requirement in order to find a middle ground between her and you?
If I have to admit that I am very appreciative of your behavior of wanting to preserve you sexually until your marriage, however I totally disagree with the fact that you do not explore all the possibilities that are offered to you by Lady Nature.
For my part, I find that such a blocking principle is to make you drift in mode ... Small Taliban 😁
Ines, you are VERY smart and probably very curious girl. Therefore I will invite you to go to the end of your curiosity.
So here's what I suggest you :
Take advantage of the day of your majority (18th birthday) to ask your mother for a belt dispensation in full transparency regarding your attentions.
Make your exploratory discoverie that night.
And then come on this forum to give us an account of your feelings about your experience.
I think that doing so will only bring you more credibility since you will be able to give your opinion on "the thing" while having the experience of "the thing"
We could even consider doing a poll on this subject:
According to you, must Ines discover "the thing" (orgasm) on the day of her 18th birthday?
I hope that the little Gallic of Vesontio will have convinced you.