Belted siblings

Renita

Sara2001 My brother will ABSOLUTELY never be belted or spanked. Even if he would have sex with another girl each day while he is drunken at school.

I think it's right approach.

Angelina

Renita

that a boy can do anything without being punished ? no, definitely not

Vanessa

Sara2001

No other punishments either?

Don't you feel it too unfair?

Nor bad for him,in the long run,to never risk consequences if he acts badly?

Angelina

Similar for us.My twin is more free and have less restrictions than me(including not having to wear a chastity device permanently),but he's spanked too when he misbehaves,and he may have to wear his chastity cage if he's punished this way.

Angelina

I agree with you.It is totally unfair.

Sara2001

Vanessa No other punishments either?

When he was younger he was grounded but just for one week and without lines or something.

Sometimes he has an earlier curfew or he gets less money for my father.

He often has to do his homework by himself for a while instead of we doing it for him.

Vanessa Don't you feel it too unfair?

I don't know it any other way. Of course it is not fair but my father never said it has to be fair.

Angelina

Sara2001

sorry but this gives him a free ticket for bad behaviour, he must be punished for misconduct, and if your father does not want to punish you immediately, the punishment should be different but at least as bad, otherwise he will not learn good behaviour

Vanessa

Sara2001

"Good" he's still punished if he misbehaves.It is unpleasant for him,but I think it is important to not be free of consequences.

Angelina he must be punished for misconduct, and if your father does not want to punish you immediately, the punishment should be different but at least as bad, otherwise he will not learn good behaviour

I agree.

Sara2001 I think it is in the same amount then in most families nowadays.

Probably,yes.Even if I think grounding is still pretty common.

Angelina

It is essential.Very important to understand bad behavior means bad consequences to not act this way when older.

Sara2001

Angelina sorry but this gives him a free ticket for bad behaviour, he must be punished for misconduct, and if your father does not want to punish you immediately, the punishment should be different but at least as bad, otherwise he will not learn good behaviour

As I said he is punished. I think it is in the same amount then in most families nowadays.

Angelina

Sara2001 I think it is in the same amount then in most families nowadays.

which unfortunately means that it is less than with you girls 🙁

Sara2001

Angelina which unfortunately means that it is less than with you girls 🙁

Yes, but you can not say that he can do what he wants without consequences and that he so can not learn good behaviour.

Angelina

Sara2001

not my educational philosophy but it is ok if he is also punished for his mistakes

Angelina

Vanessa It is essential.Very important to understand bad behavior means bad consequences to not act this way when older.

that is exactly what i think, it is the basic principle of good education, acting has consequences whether good or bad. bad behaviour must be punished, good behaviour must be rewarded

Vanessa

Angelina

I think too.It seems necessary to have consequences,to learn to act wisely when older.

Angelina

Vanessa

exactly, even if it always sounds very hard, consequences do not always have to be negative, if I do something well I get a reward for it 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

It is better to do it that way.Even if not always the case,good behavior can mean rewards for me too(for example,improved privileges;as a bit later curfew if I was on time recently).

What are the typical rewards for you?

Sara2001

My sister is now in her chastity bra. It's in place since the end of her maintenance session. I've only seen it under her clothes, because when it was put in place I had to to my own corner time for maintenance. I am very curious how it is looking.

She didn't fought but started crying immediately. I felt very bad for her. But there are good news for her, too. My father said he will not lower the rules for anything sexual, her respect and obedience to him or her daily tasks, but beside this he will reduce the strictness of her rules, the longer he is in a relationship with his boyfriend, to learn how it is to make own descisions.

Maybe in a few months she has more freedom than I have 😂

Zoe

Sara2001 My sister is now in her chastity bra.

:o why?

Vanessa

Sara2001

Very sorry for her.Not surprising she started to cry as soon as it was put on....But surprising she didn't try to fight,at least a bit.She hadn't show you after you both have finished your cornertime?

Good the longer she stays with him,the less strict the rules would be.However,I guess he should not hope to get her chastity belt's keys until their wedding day,even if he seems to not be dominant,nor wanting to have a man led relationship,right?

I guess it is possible she'll have more freedom than you,yes.

Angelina mostly i get a little present from my father, something i have wished for a long time 😃

sometimes we make trips together but it depends on how my father has to work

Good rewards too!🙂

Angelina i hope you see more soon, maybe when you are both alone, you can get better impressions yourself as it will be for you soon

It would be helpful for @Sara2001,yes.

Sara2001 Now she is allowed to meet her boyfriend.

I guess she's very happy about it!And he would be able to help her manage it,if she can spend time with him.

Angelina

@Vanessa

mostly i get a little present from my father, something i have wished for a long time 😃

sometimes we make trips together but it depends on how my father has to work

@Sara2001

first my condolences to your sister 🙁
does she have to wear the bra 24/7?

i hope you see more soon, maybe when you are both alone, you can get better impressions yourself as it will be for you soon

the rules are very good for your sister 😉 are there any concrete ideas yet?

may your sister now meet her friends again

since your sister will have a completely different relationship than you, it is clear that she will have more freedom 😉

Sara2001

Angelina does she have to wear the bra 24/7?

Yes, she will wear it 24/7.

Angelina the rules are very good for your sister 😉 are there any concrete ideas yet?

Nothing concrete for now.

Angelina may your sister now meet her friends again

Now she is allowed to meet her boyfriend. She was (with permission) always allowed to meet friends.

Angelina since your sister will have a completely different relationship than you, it is clear that she will have more freedom 😉

Yes, if the relationship continues, it looks like she will have more freedom then me.

Angelina

Sara2001 Now she is allowed to meet her boyfriend. She was (with permission) always allowed to meet friends.

sorry small mistake by my translator, i forgot to correct it 😂

anyway, I hope that your sister is doing well anyway and I am glad that she can meet her boyfriend again 🙂 also I hope that you can make good experiences for yourself 😉

Sara2001

Vanessa Very sorry for her.Not surprising she started to cry as soon as it was put on....But surprising she didn't try to fight,at least a bit.She hadn't show you after you both have finished your cornertime?

Not directly after corner time because we had a long list of tasks last Sunday but in the evening. It's more or less like it was said here. She said it feels like they almost not exist.

Vanessa However,I guess he should not hope to get her chastity belt's keys until their wedding day,even if he seems to not be dominant,nor wanting to have a man led relationship,right?

The belt will stay in place until marriage, but maybe her boyfriend will get access to the key of her bra once she turns 18. But this is pure speculation.

Vanessa I guess it is possible she'll have more freedom than you,yes.

It's extremely likely that this will be the case, soon.

Vanessa It would be helpful for @Sara2001,yes.

Yes, it's extremely interesting for me.

Vanessa I guess she's very happy about it!And he would be able to help her manage it,if she can spend time with him.

At least that's what I would expect. It looks like the for the relationship is not damaged because of her restrictions.

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