Move out to get free from chastity belt

Vanessa

Thank you.

Christine My case is different since I'm free to move out.

But you need some more money,right?

After moving out,would your decision to stop wearing it would impact your relationship with your mother?Not damaging the relationship with our parents is often one of the reason we plan to obey their decision and wear it until married.

Angelina

Vanessa Not damaging the relationship with our parents is often one of the reason we plan to obey their decision and wear it until married.

to be honest it wouldn't change for me either if I moved out 🙁

Christine

Vanessa After moving out,would your decision to stop wearing it would impact your relationship with your mother?

She will not be able to hold the keys if I move out.

Vanessa

Angelina

Same,and for this reason too.

Angelina

Vanessa

the difference that there would be is whether i would continue to receive financial support

when i will study, i could move out and live with camryn. but as long as we are not married yet i still have to wear my equipment to get everything financed by my father

Renita

Christine And yes, she said the secondary shield will stay on.

I told you.

Christine She will not be able to hold the keys if I move out.

I don't see any reason she will not able to especially since you plan to move to "next door".

Vanessa

Christine She will not be able to hold the keys if I move out.

So,you would be free of the belt?Even if still unmarried?

Angelina

Even without the need of financial support,I think I would obey the rule about wearing it until mariage;I would be able to say stop,and live on my own(or with Emilie),but I don't want to break the relationship with my parents(even if it probably would not last after I marry,they would probably accept me again after it).

Christine

Vanessa So,you would be free of the belt?Even if still unmarried?

It will be my choice only if she can't rule me anymore.

Renita I don't see any reason she will not able to especially since you plan to move to "next door".

Unlike you I wanna get rid of the belt ASAP.

Angelina

Vanessa

i think the same, i probably wouldn't do it if i were financially independent either, the relationship with my father is too important

but since i will probably get married during my studies, the question is currently irrelevant for me 😉

Christine

Vanessa So,you would be free of the belt?Even if still unmarried?

I think so. I wouldn't depend on her anymore.

Vanessa

Angelina but since i will probably get married during my studies, the question is currently irrelevant for me 😉

Yes,in your case,you would not have to do this choice,sure.

Angelina

Vanessa

exactly, at the moment it looks like that I will still be dependent on financial support after my wedding, so first comes my liberation and then my financial independence 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

Are you ok to not be financially independant after being married?

Christine

It may not take too long before you get free again,so!🙂

Renita and Angelina

She would be able to say "no".

Renita

Christine If she is happy with current situation she might ask you to keep wearing it after.

Angelina

Renita

I also think, otherwise the principle of a chastity belt would not make sense for her

Angelina

Vanessa Are you ok to not be financially independant after being married?

yes it is ok for me, during my studies i might be able to support my father at work for a few hours a week and earn some money. i know what i am doing it for and i also know that i will have enough money for it later 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

I would prefer to be financially independant and have our own apartment with Emilie when we'll marry,but if you're happy with how it'll be,it's the more important.

Not surprising to not have your own home when still a student,and it's good you'll get some money for the work with your father.

Angelina

Vanessa Not surprising to not have your own home when still a student,

as soon as i am married, i will live with camryn in my own apartment even if i am still studying, my father has already agreed that he would rent us an apartment as a wedding present

Vanessa

Angelina

Very good wedding gift!🙂

It is better to live alone together after being married.

Angelina

Vanessa

that's right 😉

i think we would live together for some time before (with my dad or her parents) but after the wedding we want to have our own home 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

I want to try it with Emilie too,but we both want to live alone together before the wedding,too,not with my(or her)parents.It would be more close to the way we would live after being married.

Angelina

Vanessa

that's true, but my father only wants to finance an apartment for us together when we are married