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Angelina

Christine Unfortunately she thinks I'm still a little girl.

if this is the only reason why you should wear the belt, you have to prove to her that you are an adult woman 😉 (by character)

Renita

Angelina you have to prove to her that you are an adult woman

It's true you are not in touch with your mom, otherwise you would know what's wrong in this statement 😃

Angelina

Renita

I confess I don't know.

please explain 😉

Laura

Angelina You always remain a child for you mom

Renita

Angelina please explain

Laura has explained already. That's pretty much it.

Angelina

Laura

hmm i actually thought it was the other way around and that girls always stay children for their fathers

Natescage

Angelina it's the parent who usually does the "emotional support role" comforting you when you cry and talking you down when you are angery. Usually in most home this is the mother's job, so she sees the kids as little angels and children. For Angelina it's your dad because your mom is not around so he sees you this way. Fr someone like Sara, since her dad makes the decisions, but her mom is the emotional support, her dad treat's her more like an adult (minus the belt and equipment) because her mom does her emotional support role without being able to make decisions. So..It depends on what roles the "key holder" does.

Vanessa

Christine The life experience is different, an older girl doesn't need much protection.

But it seems your mother doesn't agree at all...

Laura I agree and don't understand why I still have to wear a chastity belt

Don't your parents think sex is only allowed after marriage?If yes,the reason is pretty clear.

Angelina he said that any form of sexual pleasure is reserved for a married woman in a marriage

Same for me,but it is a bit old-fashioned...

Angelina

It may be right,yes.

Talking often help.

Christine Even if I go to university the belt will stay in place.

If she wants to prevent you to have sex,it is not illogical,it is a place which often allow sexual encounters,including one-night stands.

Natescage

Not sure it works this way,but it could be the case.

It depends on each family,anyway.

Angelina

Natescage

i would say with me it's both. when it comes to my future my father treats me like an adult, but he can also talk to me emotionally sensitive because he knows that i need it as a daughter

otherwise I agree with you

Laura They could rely on my conscientiousness rather than chastity belt.

but they have more control over the chastity belt 😉

Laura

Vanessa Don't your parents think sex is only allowed after marriage?If yes,the reason is pretty clear.

They could rely on my conscientiousness rather than chastity belt.

Renita

Laura They could rely on my conscientiousness rather than chastity belt.

Therefore they don't trust you in it.

Saintprudence

Laura but conscientiousness is flexible. One can be completely certain virtue is maintained with a belt.

Vanessa

Laura

Rarely the case if they tend to think a chastity belt is useful.Difficult to convince them it is not the case.

Angelina but they have more control over the chastity belt 😉

Right.

Saintprudence One can be completely certain virtue is maintained with a belt.

Yes,it is very effective!

Laura Less worry for them when they know the belt is on me

Logical.It is not your decision anymore to have sex when unmarried or not.

Saintprudence And every so often I start thinking like my parents and believe all adults should be locked until marriage.

actually, that’s not even my parents talking, but my wife. Her interval justification for belting me is that a woman’s orgasms belong to her spouse, and so belting before marriage is essential to preserving that “virtue.” And after marriage your spouse has the right to keep them safe!

I don't agree at all with this!😉

Saintprudence

It would still be very hard,but I think knowing more people have to wear it could be a bit helpful.Less fearing it is discovered if more common,more people to talk with,and easier to get advices.

Saintprudence I could ask my wife to wear a belt 🙂. She’d get a good laugh out of it and stand me in the corner while she plays video games, just for suggesting it!

However,it would be more fair.And if "a woman’s orgasms belong to her spouse",her orgasms should belong to you!😉

Rick I do believe that each spouse's orgasms "belong" to the other spouse in some sense, and to "steal" them can be an offense. I personally would feel uncomfortable, and sometimes guilty, if I self-pleasured instead of waiting for the right time to share with my wife. Secret masturbation can be a turn-on if it comes up, but it can also be a betrayal.

It is not unusual to still masturbate alone,even if married.And it can be healthy for the relationship too.But doing it secretly,while hiding it,can be different.

Rick Just tell your wife that Rick thinks she should wear a chastity belt if she can't control herself. I'm sure we're all interested in hearing how that conversation goes.

it would be interesting,yes!🙂

Angelina i don't know how much she has read, if she has only read a few posts, i can understand why she thinks so

And if she participates,she would know us better.

Angelina but it's only fun if your wife participates 😂

And accept to follow the results!😉

Laura

Angelina but they have more control over the chastity belt

Less worry for them when they know the belt is on me

Saintprudence One can be completely certain virtue is maintained with a belt.

And that's about my parents 😂

Saintprudence

Laura I’m always torn between responding how I really feel and how my parents made me feel, haha. I see nothing wrong with masturbation, but since my own relationship with the concept was so damaged, I have no choice but to remain locked to save my sanity. And every so often I start thinking like my parents and believe all adults should be locked until marriage.

actually, that’s not even my parents talking, but my wife. Her interval justification for belting me is that a woman’s orgasms belong to her spouse, and so belting before marriage is essential to preserving that “virtue.” And after marriage your spouse has the right to keep them safe!

Angelina

Laura Less worry for them when they know the belt is on me

at least they have less control that chastity or abstinence is enforced

Laura

Saintprudence and believe all adults should be locked until marriage.

I agree and that's why I don't protest too much

Saintprudence

Laura indeed, you seem eager to recruit new members to the chastity-belted tribe!

Saintprudence

I feel like I should start a new poll: "would being locked feel less horrible if many more people wore the belt?", haha.

Laura

Saintprudence The answer is obvious 😂

Angelina

Saintprudence I feel like I should start a new poll: "would being locked feel less horrible if many more people wore the belt?", haha.

it wouldn't be much more pleasant but it would be a little better because then i know more people with whom i can talk about this topic 😉

Saintprudence I could ask my wife to wear a belt 🙂. She’d get a good laugh out of it and stand me in the corner while she plays video games, just for suggesting it!

then you'd best stay away from it 😉

Saintprudence

Laura I’m actually torn! I feel like I’m in some kind of denial purgatory but I don’t know if it would be easier if everyone else was, too.

I could ask my wife to wear a belt 🙂. She’d get a good laugh out of it and stand me in the corner while she plays video games, just for suggesting it!

Rick

Saintprudence I could ask my wife to wear a belt 🙂. She’d get a good laugh out of it and stand me in the corner while she plays video games, just for suggesting it!

Surely her orgasms belong to you. You have every reason to expect her not to masturbate without your permission. The suggestion that there might be a lack of trust would be a little disturbing, but if your suggestion were serious trust would need to be re-established through discussion, not denial.

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