Vanessa
i agree with you, but i must add that i think it is absolutely wrong that the job is sometimes still linked to sexual orientation in this day and age. of course, men can also look after children in kindergarten, i.e. do a sensitive job, but be more dominant at home. that is not a contradiction but perhaps a balance for some men. (the same for woman)
Sara2001
that's right, i don't think that's ok either, if someone like you has chosen to do it voluntarily it should be ok, but the problem is that we can't distinguish it. we can't see if the woman agrees or if she feels abused by her husband
Joh My opinion is if you have a dispute you should handle it in private independent on the relation type you have.
i think so too, i would never argue with my girlfriend in public, that is simply none of strangers' business.