Fooling around with boys

Angelina

Vanessa Maybe I would not have told them I date someone right after the first date,but I would not have kept it secret for weeks.

exactly, if it had been like that with me i would not have said it immediately, but at the latest when the relationship would have been serious and official 🙂

Vanessa I'm not sure either the chastity belt affect my relationship with my parents.I was pretty close to them even before wearing it,and I don't think I'm closer to them now.

i would say that this creates a new connection, but i also want to say that this connection is not necessarily positive, but it is definitely a new (and very deep) connection

Vanessa

Angelina exactly, if it had been like that with me i would not have said it immediately, but at the latest when the relationship would have been serious and official 🙂

It seems logical.Not too soon,but not waiting too long too.

Angelina i would say that this creates a new connection, but i also want to say that this connection is not necessarily positive, but it is definitely a new (and very deep) connection

Maybe.It affects the relationship a bit,sure,but I don't think it would impact it a lot.I was close to my parents,and,even if I don't like at all their decision about using a chastity belt on me,I'm still close to them.

But,by reading again @Sarah's answer,and especially

Sarah increases responsibility and attentiveness on the.part.of the parent as well as the girl

I think it can be the case;not a lot more,but at least a bit.

Angelina i don't understand your answer

I don't understand her answer either...

HHelen

Angelina normally it should not be a secret

She might not even understand what's going on.

Angelina

HHelen

???

i meant that in a good mother-daughter relationship a boyfriend should not be a secret, i don't understand your answer

HHelen

Angelina i meant that in a good mother-daughter relationship a boyfriend should not be a secret, i don't understand your answer

She doesn't understand what kind of relationship she is involved to due the lack of expereince.

Angelina

Vanessa .I was close to my parents,and,even if I don't like at all their decision about using a chastity belt on me,I'm still close to them.

i have always been very close to my father but i do not mean that it changes this connection but that a new one is created

in addition to the connection parents and daughter now comes the connection chastity belt wearer and key holder

HHelen She doesn't understand what kind of relationship she is involved

how do you know what kind of relationship your daughter has if you do not even know the young man ?

Vanessa

HHelen She doesn't understand what kind of relationship she is involved to due the lack of expereince.

If it's her first relationship,it is understandable.She would need some time to understand her feelings better.

But,before being sure she doesn't understand it better than you think,you should meet them together.

Angelina i have always been very close to my father but i do not mean that it changes this connection but that a new one is created

in addition to the connection parents and daughter now comes the connection chastity belt wearer and key holder

However,it is not the major part of the relationship with our parents.More an add to it.

Angelina but you are judging both

I agree,she should meet them both.She can't know well a relationship by knowing only one of the two persons involved in it.

HHelen

Angelina how do you know what kind of relationship your daughter has if you do not even know the young man ?

I don't know him, but I know her.

Angelina

HHelen I don't know him, but I know her.

but you are judging both

Angelina

Vanessa However,it is not the major part of the relationship with our parents.More an add to it.

fortunately, if it is the main part of my relationship with my father, i would be very unhappy 🙁

Vanessa I agree,she should meet them both.She can't know well a relationship by knowing only one of the two persons involved in it.

exactly what I mean, first get to know and then judge 🙂

HHelen

Vanessa If it's her first relationship,it is understandable

It is the first and I wouldn't even call it relationship.

Vanessa

Angelina fortunately, if it is the main part of my relationship with my father, i would be very unhappy 🙁

Logical.It is the same for me.

Angelina

I agree.As long as she doesn't know him,and watch how they act when together,it is difficult for her to know if it is a true relationship or not that much.

Angelina

HHelen

How would you know, you don't even know the young man

HHelen

Angelina you don't even know the young man

Where did I say it?

Angelina

Vanessa

my point exactly

when i read something like that i get a little angry too. i am a person who looks at everyone in a different way, that's why i hate prejudices

Angelina

HHelen Where did I say it?

I thought you said you never met the guy in personally before?

Vanessa

Angelina

I think she said it,too.But it may have changed since it.

HHelen

Angelina I thought you said you never met the guy in personally before?

That's right, but it doesn't mean I don't know him.

Angelina

Vanessa

then she should tell us, otherwise there will be misunderstandings

Vanessa

Angelina

Right.

HHelen

You don't know him well enough,so.It's not that different.

Angelina it would also be the only situation in which I would lie 😂

Me too.I would say it is my choice,to close the matter quickly.

But I doubt many boyfriend/girlfriend would do it if their partner don't want them to,as it would very likely mean the end of the relationship.

Angelina

HHelen but it doesn't mean I don't know him.

I disagree, you can't really know someone you don't know personally

HHelen

Angelina I disagree, you can't really know someone you don't know personally

But enough to understand the level of relationship.

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