Angelina what exactly were your problems, so why couldn't you stand it?
The placement of the shoulder "straps", if that's what you call them, and the feel again of the pieces around my sides holding it down. I don't normally wear a bra, except to run, so the feeling was really something I wasn't used to at all. Plus there was no need, in my situation, of a chastity bra so psychologically having to wear it bothered me. Also, unless it was really tight I could give myself a pretty good feel.