Chastity bra

Angelina

Max9 oh wow, congratulations.😊😊🍾🍾🍾
Are we all invited? 😄🤔

thank you 🙂
you will laugh, but we had to shorten our guest list because at one point I said: "if we invite them, I theoretically have to invite the Unwed Forum as well". 😂

Max9 instead of buying textile ones again and again?

maybe as long as i have the keys haha 😂
although normal bras are also more comfortable

Kaja Every bra is torturing device to me. FREE BOOBS FOREVER!

but your breasts become "saggy tits" sooner 😉

Max9

Angelina I theoretically have to invite the Unwed Forum as well

I would come ✌🏼For most the others it'd probably be a way too far distance

Avery

bdsamm Then you should be safe for 3 or 4 hours.

One more off-topic post. With 25 seconds left in regulation in a rather humdrum 3-3 tie the Jets punt to the Pats and Marcus Jones returns it 84 yards for the win. 5 seconds left when he crossed the goal line.

Good luck to the Chiefs.

bdsamm

Avery The Chiefs won. Pretty exciting right down to the end.

Avery

bdsamm The Chiefs won. Pretty exciting right down to the end.

Good. It was on too late for me in my part of the country.

Angelina

Max9 I would come ✌🏼For most the others it'd probably be a way too far distance

that's very nice and sometimes a pity, but for protection reasons i can't do that, even if i would like to have some of you on my wedding 🙂

Joh

Angelina I am also not far away from you and would come. You could wear a paperback over your head and to prevent us from recognising you. 🤣

youdontknowme

Joh A paperback? Talk about facebook!

So, when and where is the NRW Unwedchastity meetup 2023 taking place? Do we need to bring anything other than our chastity device? No keys allowed, I guess - surrender your home and car keys at the door just to make sure nothing on your keychain can open a chastity belt.

Angelina

Joh

youdontknowme

you guys are really awesome haha. if i decide to celebrate the wedding in a darkroom you will get an invitation 😂 , otherwise the risk is too high for me unfortunately.

Joh

youdontknowme Talk about facebook

Who is on facebook?

youdontknowme A paperback?

Sorry, I meant paper bag. 😅

Max9

youdontknowme when and where is the NRW Unwedchastity meetup 2023 taking place?

How about a mask ball next summer

youdontknowme

Joh Who is on facebook?

I meant the act of covering your face with a book. Which I definitely prefer over the social network run by Meta.

bdsamm

Avery If you are serious about the collar or cuffs, I would highly recommend my old friend Danny "Leather by Danny". He makes quality stuff and is pretty close to you. New Hampshire so maybe not close but still. If you see anything, let me know and I will see if he will give a discount.

Avery

bdsamm If you are serious about the collar or cuffs, I would highly recommend my old friend Danny "Leather by Danny". He makes quality stuff and is pretty close to you. New Hampshire so maybe not close but still. If you see anything, let me know and I will see if he will give a discount.

Thank you. He has an interesting website. I already have a collar. I stay away from wrist and ankle cuffs because I have no place to store them. I don't hide things from my father at home and he wouldn't countenance me having them, but I'll bookmark the site. The first item he shows is the grip cuffs which are for suspension type stuff and they have a built in grip you can hold on to to support your weight so you aren't just hanging. Helps prevent nerve damage. Those are really good.

youdontknowme

Max9 How about a mask ball next summer

A masquerade definitely seems like the way to go. Very hesitant to show my face or provide identifying information to internet strangers, especially those who know my more niche interests. Hence the name.

Kaja

curious Why you are so obcessed with it? Why you every time push somebody to cb (ideally to 24/7).

I think that it is not OK. Do you compenzate your live there or so?

Sorry if it sounds unpolite, but I didnt know better how to say it..

curious

Kaja
You are actually the one constantly pushing everyone against any use of a cb which is not just for sex play and loudly proclaiming that everything that does not fit into your system of values is "wrong" and "no, no, no" etc.

Yes, I do think mutually exchanging keys is actually a much stronger statement in regards to "I am your`s" than just a symbolic act that has no consequences in the end. What is wrong with that statement? Unlike you, I am not claiming everything else than my opinion is wrong, I just exercise the right to express my opinion and again unlike you I do it in a respectful way and don't tell people how wrong they are if they live their life according to values I do not share.

Avery

curious Yes, I do think mutually exchanging keys is actually a much stronger statement in regards to "I am your`s" than just a symbolic act that has no consequences in the end. What is wrong with that statement?

It's wrong, that's what's wrong with it. The stronger statement is at your wedding you stand up in front of friends and family (and God, if you are so inclined) and pledge to forsake all others and then you just do it, as the Nike people say. You don't need some artificial device to help you keep your vow. If you do what is the use of making a vow?

Kaja

curious I respect everybody who is wearing it. I respect that SOMEBODY wants to stay virgin or not masturbate.
But it is only his/per personal think - parents, friends, partners have no right to influence it.

I will never respect ANYBODY who will push somebody other to the belt.
And Im sorry that on the forum is too much involuntary weares...

Kaja

curious And you did not answer my question 😀.

curious

Avery
You are aware that more than half of those people making that pledge end up in a divorce in the US?
So much for the value of words and pledges.
But that was not the point. If you are in a belt, the person having the key has control over your sexuality., I think that much is beyond dispute.
Having control over something means to a degree it is 'yours'.
And all I did was comparing having a situation where there is a mutual control over each other's sexuality (by exchanging keys) compared to only presenting the key as a symbol but without actual real life consequences. And comparing these two things, how am I wrong when I state that something that goes way beyond symbolism is a stronger statement than symbolism alone?

Avery

curious presenting the key as a symbol but without actual real life consequences

If you break the vow there are consequences. Do you really represent that if you say you won't cheat and you do the other person will say well, you only said you wouldn't so it's OK.

curious how am I wrong when I state that something that goes way beyond symbolism is a stronger statement than symbolism alone?

I just explained that. It's a stronger statement to say you will do something and then just do it than if you are forced to do it. If you're forced then doing it means little. The girls here who are forced into a belt are not practicing chastity, they are prisoners. They get no credit for not having sex, though they do deserve compassion.

Angelina

youdontknowme

well, it should only be a side effect, the important thing is that i am finally married to the woman of my dreams 🥰

curious So much for the value of words and pledges.

of course things can always go wrong, but i come from circles where words still have meaning and when i say "i love you, i want to marry you and i will do everything to make it work for the rest of our lives", i mean it that way.

bdsamm With the way some of the girls Fathers are, I am a little surprised that there are not some wearers on here and maybe there are. It would be totsl control.

so electric shocks are just torture, but a belt with gps my father would buy. But Fancysteel is out of the question for us because my father thinks the belts are unsafe.

bdsamm

Avery You are very logical and that is correct but not sure how many see it that way in todays world.

curious

Avery
only that nobody is forced if there is a decision to actually give each other the key. It is something both sides can or should do freely without pressure.

curious

Avery Do you really represent that if you say you won't cheat and you do the other person will say well, you only said you wouldn't so it's OK.

I did not say it is about cheating and consequences for that.
It is about giving up control over what many consider to be their most private part that they might share with a partner but still it is theirs and handing that control to the partner.
In many relationships for example if there are times of tension between partners, they pull back emotionally and sexually. Rather than having the shared experience of having s3x together they just might opt for masturbation in such times. Other people might have different feelings about that, I find it kind of adds to the emotional distance in such a situation, if that part that is usually very intimate and binding is then replaced by individual pursuit of orgasms.
Exchanging keys could (depending how they are used) actually deny any form of sexual pleasure that is not achieved together with the partner and hence increase the emotional bond.
As I said, that is how I se it and others might have their own opinion. I do not claim that mine is right for everyone but I do ask, that this is respected just as I respect other opinions and values.

Avery

bdsamm You are very logical and that is correct but not sure how many see it that way in today's world.

Well I have perhaps a very small survey of my own little world but most of the girls I know want to fall in love, get married and have a little house with a white picket fence. Most of the guys just want to be able to earn a decent livin'.

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