Chastity bra

Rafael

my daughter has one, and it's a very good belt, very secure.

Maija

Rafael do your GIRLS (EDITED) wear chastity bras? If not, maybe you should consider them as they shouldn't have free access to their breasts

Sara2001

Kaja Angelina I masturbate and my bf masturbate. It is normal. We cant se each other every day.

He needs masturbation/sex everyday. I need it ussualy 2 to 4 times per week.

So i think that he will continue faping even we will live together. No problem there. Why?

I think that's a very usual way of handeling this topic. Obviously I haven't masturbated for years and it looks like I never will, but I can completely understand you and don't think that anything is wrong with female masturbation. My husband is masturbating, too when I am unable to serve him.

Kaja I'm not his whore to hold him whenever he wants. He has his own hands

I would definitely not use the word whore, but I am definitely there to serve him whenever he wants.

Maija do your GIRLS (EDITED) wear chastity bras? If not, maybe you should consider them as they shouldn't have free access to their breasts

I had, but I don't wear it anymore for reasons that have nothing to do with the chastity bra itself or the security it provides. I don't want to go into more details. I am still not allowed to play with my breasts. I can clearly see the benefits of a chastity bra when it comes to female chastity..

Rafael

Maija

At first I was very reluctant, but after reading testimonials from credible girls I have relaxed my position.
I think that if necessary, they could use it, although not constantly 24/7, but rather when they needed extra security for some reason or as a consequence of bad behavior.
But at the moment only @Barbara accepts it well, so I still have to think and talk a lot before I make that decision.

@Maija, the three women in your house use it? Do you use it permanently? Do you accept it willingly?

I thank you for the most detailed answer possible, since they are arguments for or against

Angelina

Maija do your GIRLS (EDITED) wear chastity bras? If not, maybe you should consider them as they shouldn't have free access to their breasts

as long as the girls can't get an orgasm by rubbing their breasts there is no reason for a bra. on the contrary, the girls "punish" themselves if they get frustrated by it.

Sara2001 My husband is masturbating, too when I am unable to serve him.

No, I really don't like that, I think it's disrespectful in a marriage, but that's just my opinion.

Rafael But at the moment only @Barbara accepts it well, so I still have to think and talk a lot before I make that decision.

since when does @Barbara wear a chastity bra, did I miss something? 🤔

Avery This troubles me some. It would mean if the mother wears a device the children must wear it too. I'm not in favor of the children being forced to wear stuff.

I don't either, but the other way round this rule could apply 😉

Raquel

Angelina since when does @Barbara wear a chastity bra, did I miss something?

No... but she will have... and mom... and me...

Rafael I still have to think and talk a lot before I make that decision.

I´m not so sure.

Maija If not, maybe you should consider them as they shouldn't have free access to their breasts

Maija it is only wise to make sure that all those measures do not go to waste because of the girl can touch her breasts

These ideas sounds well known.

Maija

Rafael @Maija, the three women in your house use it?

Yes, my sister and my mother. The only way it can be fair is if all women have to wear one.

Rafael Do you use it permanently?

Yes, except for every-two-weeks hygiene breaks.

Rafael Do you accept it willingly?

I know its benefits and fully embrace wearing it as a whole, but sometimes wearing it can be tiring. It needs to be carefully adjusted to be tight enough but not hamper breathing too much - a little is inevitable but hardly a problem.

In some ways I even prefer the chastity bra compared to a normal one, it gives much more support and I don't need to worry about putting it on or taking it off. However, you might want to consider having a rule for wearing a normal bra over the chastity bra to hide it a little better under the clothes.

I think about the bra as @Ines thinks about thighbands - it's very beneficial to cut all attempts as short as possible and not allow any stimulation. If one is already taking measures to prevent orgasms, in my opinion it is only wise to make sure that all those measures do not go to waste because of the girl can touch her breasts.

What comes to hygiene, it's surprisingly manageable. During our cleaning breaks, there's not even much to clean, which means that it's definitely possible and practical to wear a chastity bra in normal life.

Please, ask away if you have any questions!

(And sorry @Ines , if was a language barrier issue. I thought "kid" is agnostic to the person's age)

Ines

Angelina since when does @Barbara wear a chastity bra, did I miss something? 🤔

No, he is talking about mere proposal.
For that he says:

Rafael so I still have to think and talk a lot before I make that decision.

Any bra here by the moment.

Avery

Maija The only way it can be fair is if all women have to wear one.

This troubles me some. It would mean if the mother wears a device the children must wear it too. I'm not in favor of the children being forced to wear stuff.

Avery

Maija in my opinion it is only wise to make sure that all those measures do not go to waste because of the girl can touch her breasts.

No where in here is the idea that you teach her that it is wrong to do it (I don't think it is, but) so she doesn't do it willingly. You force her not to do it.

Ines

Maija every-two-weeks hygiene breaks.

Maija What comes to hygiene, it's surprisingly manageable.

Here I must say that it seems to me that a break every two weeks is recklessly little.
@Foxies or @curious can correct me, but do not sanitize a part with so many folds for two weeks, it can be a breeding ground for bacteria and even fungi.
Normally there are bacteria on the skin, but keeping an area in the dark, closed, with poor perspiration, permanently humid, hot and dark, can lead to a proliferation of these organisms.
A daily break, at least, should be mandatory, as with the belt.

Ines

Avery It would mean if the mother wears a device the children must wear it too. I'm not in favor of the children being forced to wear stuff.

I do not think so.
I believe that if mother wears, it is, advisable daughters do it too, but not mandatory, of course.
But if the girls wear it, then, the mother has to wear it, mandatory.

Maija

Avery I agree that it should only go one way. After all, a mother has more responsibilities and should be an example

Sara2001

Angelina No, I really don't like that, I think it's disrespectful in a marriage, but that's just my opinion

I think it's normal. I don't care much. It just makes me a bit jealous,, but I know that my situation will not change.

As long as he thinks about me during it, I am happy.

Angelina

Ines No, he is talking about mere proposal.
For that he says:

yes, so you can certainly think about it, but he should not make the decision over the girls' heads. the girls should tell him how it feels when they deal with the breasts and how they think about it.

Sara2001 It just makes me a bit jealous,,

it shouldn't, if you did it would be just as wrong in my eyes 😉

Ines A daily break, at least, should be mandatory, as with the belt.

**I agree, we are talking about intimate places where bacteria can easily accumulate, both the belt and the bra should be removed once a day and the parts cleaned thoroughly.

Avery

is that the bra you have at home? well, i think it looks rather uncomfortable and not safe either.

Raquel No... but she will have... and mom... and me...

? so the decision is made? you all get a chastity bra now, don't you ? 🤔

Avery

Ines I believe that if mother wears, it is, advisable daughters do it too, but not mandatory, of course.
But if the girls wear it, then, the mother has to wear it, mandatory.

OK.

Maija

Ines I actually managed to mix up my writing, what I meant was two times a week

Joh

Maija I actually managed to mix up my writing, what I meant was two times a week

If I remember right you have now holes in your bra. Or do you have two bras. One for the summer and one for winter?

Maija

Joh yes, one for summer and one for winter.

Avery

My father has drilled them himself

Avery

If I remember right you have now holes in your bra.

Fancy Steel sells one which has plenty of breathing space. I can actually touch my nipples but I think I'm built funny.

https://fancysteel.com/collections/women/products/chastity-bra

youdontknowme

Avery I feel like that would somewhat defeat the purpose of a chastity bra as anything other than a rather provocative (especially in FancySteel's case) fashion accessory

Avery

youdontknowme I feel like that would somewhat defeat the purpose of a chastity bra as anything other than a rather provocative (especially in FancySteel's case) fashion accessory

True, but it's uncomfy. If you want a fashion accessory try the thigh bands. Beautiful. Like something you'd find in Tiffany's. And about the same price.

https://fancysteel.com/collections/chastity-extras/products/thigh-bands-set-of-2

bdsamm

Avery The Fancy Steel thigh bands are beautiful. Bet they do look great on you. I am not impressed with the Fancy Steel bras. They seem too "busy" and not really protective. The My Steel bras look better to me. Nice plain smooth cups. Great protection. No idea about comfort but many claim they are comfortable.

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