Maintenance and punishment

Sara2001

Vanessa You always have a painful bottom the Sunday?

Yes, it's how things are in our home and I accepted it. It's still much easier than a punishment, so most probably it really helps me to stay a good daughter.

I think the corner time is even harder than the spanking itself. It's so boring and all you can focus on is your burning behind and the question how long you will have to stand in the corner.

Vanessa

Sara2001 Do you think it is working?

How yes,I hated being put in the corner,especially when they only told me I've to stay here until they tell me it's over...And the worse is when it is on my knee(but generally,it lasts less long)!

Sara2001

Vanessa How yes,I hated being put in the corner,especially when they only told me I've to stay here until they tell me it's over...And the worse is when it is on my knee(but generally,it lasts less long)!

Yes, I sadly have to say that I think it works.

I normally never know how long it will be and I never know how much time already passed until I'm allowed to leave. I don't have to knee but I always have to stand. Sometimes with hands on my head, mostly with hands on my side only. It's almost impossible to hold your hand on your head for an hour or more, so hands on the side means it can be a long time waiting.

Sara2001

Vanessa I got it at bedtime,however,my father think it is better to think about what I've done and how I've been punished for it while in bed,and as it hurts me the Monday morning,when sitting during the lessons.

I think the idea behind it is more or less the same. It hurts me the whole Sunday and we often do family activities on Sunday. He says they are good for an additional reminder.

Vanessa

Sara2001 It doesn't disturb you too much during the activities?Still able to enjoy it fully?

Sara2001

Vanessa

Vanessa It doesn't disturb you too much during the activities?Still able to enjoy it fully?

It does disturb. That's the idea behind it. I think it's better than disturbing my studies.

Vanessa

Sara2001 You may be right,but leisure time is valuable too.

Vanessa

At least,you avoid more severe punishment spanking!Is it always done with the hand?

Yes,hands on head is difficult to keep too long.Standing is boring,but less painful than kneeling.But generally longer...So difficult to say what is the worse.

Sara2001

Vanessa Is it always done with the hand?

It is done with a big wooden spoon you can buy at IKEA. It is made for serving salad I think, so much more stable then a wooden spoon for cooking.

I can still enjoy the time with the family, we have a good time and a lot of fun together. It helps to know that your mother and sister feel the same and we support each other.

Vanessa

Sara2001 I get the spoon too,and,even if it is the one for cooking,I fear it,it is painful.

Maintenace was often done with hand or hairbrush in my case.Punishments are done with the spoon too?

Good you can still enjoy it.I know this kind of support,it is the case for me and my twin too.

Angelina

Vanessa

so I have yes as you know also no simple life with my father, but physical punishment or in shameful position in the corner to be put is already very hard, just because you are already of age.

I will be punished at most with house arrest more but not either

James

Angelina This the question most girls have to answer:

Do they prefer to be belted (and effectively in your case kept from doing anything) or be punished in exchange for time out of the belt for any unhallowed touching?

Most girls I know much prefer to be punished than belted 24/7 so severely they can't effectively have a life - and instead just have to sit and think how badly they want the belt off.

Laura

James A belt

James

Laura Not sure what you mean.

Laura

James I mean I prefer to be belted.

James

Sure, but tell me this. You may prefer to be belted. Would you still say the same for belt AND thigh bands, or belt AND thigh bands AND metal bra?

Laura

James I got punished already by wearing the belt 24/7. I'm also fine with a chastity bra. I would start arguing in case of thigbands, basically what's a reason of them, because they restrict movements. If I get a reasonable answer, for example, to prevent me wearing jeans, I would agree with such punishment.

Sara2001

James Sure, but tell me this. You may prefer to be belted. Would you still say the same for belt AND thigh bands, or belt AND thigh bands AND metal bra?

Sorry, but I have to say this. I think these questions make no sense other then giving you sexual arousement.

As far as I understand no one here can choose between anything. If a chastity belt is part of your family routine, you will be belted, if spanking and punishment is part of your family routine, you will be spanked.

For me it's in addition. I have to wear my belt 24/7, I have to wear my tight bands from dinner to the next morning and I will receive my weekly maintenance spanking in less than 4 hours. It's not that I ever had a choice or will have until I meet Mr. Right.

If anything goes as I expected, I can make ONE descision about this in my life. The descision how I want to live my married life. As a good submissive woman or as a free woman in a marriage based on equality. If the first option is true, it's again not about me to define when, how or why I get punished or belted, if it is the second option, I will never have to present my body for punishment or a chastity belt ever again.

Thinking if I would prefer chastity devices or punishments will lead to nothing. It is not my choice and will never be.

James

Sara2001 Sara, I'm sorry you see it that way, but what I am saying is that while some parents (yours) might not negotiate, some in fact, will do so. It is not question if they will be allowed to touch, but with the limits are.

As Laura said, she'd want to draw a limit at thigh bands. Plus, take the example of a girl who is physically active (which is a good thing). While she may be able to work with a belt, with bands and a bra she is basically unable to move and would not be able to do much, if any, physical activity.

Vanessa

Sara2001 A short message to tell you I hope it wasn't too bad and you're ok today!

It seems there is not much people here like us,wearing a chastity belt and who can be spanked.