Sara2001
It could be used but only as foreplay,not until orgasm,and then lead to some fun together!🙂
I would add,to @Angelina too,that it was something I did sometimes with some exs,and,generally,they liked it!🙂
Sara2001
I would not like the fact to have way less orgasm as a tool in my relationship,but I agree it can be romantic to give our partner an orgasm while knowing we won't get one soon(and it is a bit the case too,even if the reason is different,when I give an orgasm to Emilie).
sun
Not a good idea at all.You want her to express her choice more freely,and,when she does it,you tell her you'll decide it for her anyway...
Angelina
I agree.