I agree.But as you're willing to learn how to do it better,no problem!😉
Totally normal.
I would suggest to start the training with her My-Steel,more adapted to her than a cheap belt.
Katies-Mom-Melanie if properly fitted she should be able to wiggle wire to side for bathroom.
Right.
Be careful;the bra is very hard emotionally,and the thigh bands very restrictive.
I agree.
Katies-Mom-Melanie My main question is, can the wire allow her to use bathroom while it’s on?
Yes,she could pull it a bit to the side,and she should use wet wipes to swipe.
Almost.It could be very painful for a man,and maybe even injure him,I think.
Laura
Right.
Why not?
Start slowly and increase it step by step.
Yes.
Katies-Mom-Melanie So should I continue with her getting used to this one 2 hours a day or wait until the mysteel arrives? Im really concerned she will ditch work to go to her boyfriends.
You should wait for the My-Steel one.However,she would not like it,but you could use the cheap belt until she get her My-Steel to prevent her to have sex.No belt when she's at home,but,if she had possibilities to meet her boyfriend,she should wear the cheap belt.This way,she would not be able to have sex(your purpose),while she would not have to wear a chap belt too much(which is better).
It would be better than not letting her meet him.But she would still want to try to have some time alone with him.
a_father What if she and her boyfriend want more at some point.
She has already answered it.
Katies-Mom-Melanie
I think you should take more into account the opinion of the women presently wearing chastity bra and thigh bands.
A chastity bra would be very hard emotionally for her,especially if she still struggles to manage her chastity belt.And thigh bands are very restrictive and using these as punishment would make her hates these even more.
Katies-Mom-Melanie I plan to use the belt as a tool to correct behavior and turn her into a respectful young woman.
It's not the true purpose of it...
Does he like this idea or only agree?
Ines in you opinion avoid that a girl makes some exercise is a good punishment 😳
It has surprised me too...
HHelen Keep in mind only Neosteel can serve an abstinence belt since sex with her boyfriend is your main concern now.
Right.
HHelen I tried my daughter's belt on myself. Of course it didn't fit, but I have an imagination how it works now.
When your own belt should be delivered?😉
HHelen She will not lose her virginity this way.
And she may easily not be able to reach orgasm this way.Not every woman can do it.
A belt without secondary shield when she's not with her boyfriend,it would allow her to masturbate,with the belt still on.
Katies-Mom-Melanie
It seems a not too bad agreement for both of you,and for her boyfriend.
But why do you want to prevent her to masturbate too?
Renita Every boy talking to girl's mother would say the same.
I think so,too!
Laura
And always with the secondary shield on(which would be the case with My-Steel,anyway).
Katie
At least once a month,even if very low,would help you to manage it.
HHelen
And you're right.
Katies-Mom-Melanie
I'm totally forbidden to have sex and masturbate,and it is awful.Several wearers here are allowed to do it sometimes,and I think it can helps her to relieve her urges a bit.She seems to be a good student,so being allowed to get an orgasm alone sometimes won't do any bad to her,nor to her studies.
It would limit your choice of clothes,too.
