Waist vs. hips

Angelina

Christine And she can refuse, coz she considers the hips belt as a privilege.

sadly, it really is a privilege compared to the waist style belt

Christine She might change her mind at any time.

and that is exactly what you should prevent through prior discussions, so that there are clear guidelines.

Vanessa

Angelina and that is exactly what you should prevent through prior discussions, so that there are clear guidelines.

I agree,but not sure her mother would want to discuss it...

Christine

Angelina sadly, it really is a privilege compared to the waist style belt

U r right, we are talking about which belt to wear rather than not to wear it at all.

Angelina and that is exactly what you should prevent through prior discussions, so that there are clear guidelines.

It would not help much.

Vanessa I agree,but not sure her mother would want to discuss it...

She would discuss but not keep her word.

Ines If masturbation is not a issue, she should not wear bands.

But clothing restrictions.

Renita

Christine coz she considers the hips belt as a privilege

Thightbands is next?

Ines

Renita
If masturbation is not a issue, she should not wear bands.
I think they would not apply for her.

Angelina

Vanessa I agree,but not sure her mother would want to discuss it...

like many parents (unfortunately), it's the same mistake over and over again 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina like many parents (unfortunately)

I think so,too.

Christine we are talking about which belt to wear rather than not to wear it at all.

Yes...

Christine It would not help much.

She would not agree to something like "if the max temperature is equal or upper than X°,hip style one,if lower,waist style one"?

Christine not keep her word.

Not good,if she can't be trusted.

Christine But clothing restrictions.

I agree,it prevents to wear even more clothes...

Angelina we're beginning to resign ourselves to it.

But we've not much choice...

Renita

Ines If masturbation is not a issue, she should not wear bands.

It seems her mother likes to abuse her.

Ines

Renita
I believe the same, but in my opinion she likes abuses her in a more subtle way.

Angelina

Christine U r right, we are talking about which belt to wear rather than not to wear it at all.

that's right, and it worries me a little. we're beginning to resign ourselves to it.

Christine It would not help much.

why not ? clear guidelines usually help

Christine She would discuss but not keep her word.

But that is very irresponsible

Renita

Christine But clothing restrictions

Does she even know about it?

Christine

Renita Does she even know about it?

I hope not.

Vanessa She would not agree to something like "if the max temperature is equal or upper than X°,hip style one,if lower,waist style one"?

I guess this is not what she wants.

Angelina

Vanessa She would not agree to something like "if the max temperature is equal or upper than X°,hip style one,if lower,waist style one"?

I agree a clear boundary can help PS: at this point a contract would help 😉

Vanessa But we've not much choice...

This is exactly what I mean by resignation 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina I agree a clear boundary can help

Sure!

Angelina PS: at this point a contract would help 😉

🤣

Christine I guess this is not what she wants.

You should try to ask her if it would be ok for her,maybe she could accept.

Angelina

Christine I guess this is not what she wants.

but it would save a lot of discussion, maybe you should suggest it to your mother.

Christine

Angelina but it would save a lot of discussion, maybe you should suggest it to your mother.

She doesn't want rules likes this, but always her choice.

Vanessa You should try to ask her if it would be ok for her,maybe she could accept.

I tried and she left me in the waist belt.

Angelina

Vanessa 🤣

😉

lily

What's it hips belt?

Laura

lily With a waistband around the hips. Some parents(including mine) are skeptical about it

Angelina

lily What's it hips belt?

https://www.my-steel.de/hip-style-or-waist-style 😉

Christine She doesn't want rules likes this, but always her choice.

I think that is very selfish from your mother. 🙁

lily

Laura Do you mean a pelvis?

Vanessa

Laura

My parents doubt it is secure enough,too.Even if I guess it is totally secure too.

Christine I tried and she left me in the waist belt.

To "punish" you for asking?

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