Waist vs. hips

Vanessa

Angelina comfort is much more important to me than my choice of clothes

For me too,but having a hip style one to use when I want to have more choice of clothes would be pleasant...

Angelina

Similar for my parents.

Angelina

Michael

this could be due to the mostly different body shape

Vanessa For me too,but having a hip style one to use when I want to have more choice of clothes would be pleasant..

for parties or other events it might be better, on the other hand the limitation of the choice of clothes is a nice side effect for my father, even if it is not the main reason

Verrouille

[unknown] If you can pull it up, your cable is not short enough. I have a rear cable and I cannot pull it up. If it was possible, then I could slip out my penis.

Michael

Angelina this could be due to the mostly different body shape

I assume that women cannot push the belt up or down much as at the waist the belt sits where the circumference around the body is smallest whereas this would not be true for men to the same extend.
However they can probably wear a hipstyle belt more comfortably because the hip bones are less shaped and offer less space for chaffing?!
I can at least say that my hipstyle belt is very tight and although there is some redness after wearing the belt for many hours it is not too bad and the belt feels very secure.

Vanessa

Angelina for parties or other events it might be better, on the other hand the limitation of the choice of clothes is a nice side effect for my father, even if it is not the main reason

Similar for my parents.They like it prevents me to wear some sort of clothes as low-cut pants or top showing my belly(and those with "too much"(in their opirnion)cleavage when I've my chastity bra on),for example.

Angelina

Michael push the belt up or down much as at the waist

that is exactly what it is

Michael However they can probably wear a hipstyle belt more comfortably

i have no experience with hipstyle belts, others can judge that better

Renita

Michael as at the waist the belt sits where the circumference around the body is smallest whereas this would not be true for men

Yes, female body has this advantage, e.g "8" shape. This is the best position for waistband.

Angelina

Vanessa those with "too much"(in their opirnion)cleavage when I've my chastity bra on)

well, from the point of view of our parents this is certainly also a advantage of the chastity bra

Christine

Vanessa They like it prevents me to wear some sort of clothes as low-cut pants or top showing my belly

My hips style for chosen to not prevent it.

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes,they like this side effect for the chastity belt from the start,and they like too my chastity bra prevent me to wear even more clothes they don't like me to wear.

Angelina

Vanessa

yes this is true, especially in summer it is very difficult and my father unfortunately thinks it is very good that I cannot dress as "permissive" as I sometimes like to

HHelen

Vanessa Yes,they like this side effect for the chastity belt from the start

I like this side effect too.

Vanessa my chastity bra prevent me to wear even more clothes they don't like me to wear.

What kind of clothes does it prevent to wear?

Vanessa

Angelina

My parents think similar.

And yes,it it is way more limiting in Summer...

Max9

My parents thinks it is vulgar,maybe sometimes a bit slutty and not ladylike to dress like this.And that,if someone is truly interested by me,they would date me,no matter how I dress(and if they only date women who are dressed more sexily,they're not "good" boyfriends/girlfriends,and they would probably only want sex).

Angelina

Yes,I hate to be limited about my clothes because I must hide my chastity devices.

When single,it is easier to date someone if our clothes are a bit sexy(My parents are not totally wrong,but I think that,before being "truly interested by me",we should date to let him/her know me better,and it is easier to get a date if we're attractive(especially if other women are sexy,we should be able to be sexy too)).

And,if in relationship we may want to dress this way for our boyfriend/girlfriend.

Max9

What is actually so bad about wearing clothes that invite you to take a looks at your ... areas ... I mean sure - more people will look at these parts of your body and you can't wear them at any opportunity because sometimes they are just not adequate ... but wearing them in general ... what's so bad about that?

Angelina

Max9

for me it is not even soo bad, @Vanessa for example finds it a little worse. but it is not nice when I want to dress sexy for my girlfriend and she looks at a padlock 😂

Max9

Angelina I want to dress sexy for my girlfriend and she looks at a padlock 😂

Yes, I can uderstand that. It is sometimes really anmoying. When you qear a cadge of that sort that uses a padlock it's really annoying because every damn step you make the lock does make a klicking sound. You need tp use a rubber band or so on that.

Or when you go to the bathroom while you still chat with a friend and can't use the urinal because of the device.

Therefore it's usefull to prevent erections in public ...

Christine

Mom wants me to wear a waist belt and going to order one soon.

Angelina

Christine

did you have a hipstyle belt actuelly?

does your mother want to order it as a supplement or to replace the old belt? and if so, why?

Vanessa

Christine

You've a hip style one?

Why does she want you to get a waist style one?She find it is more secure?

How do you feel about it?

Jonas

It seems hip style belts are very secure for women too,if well made.

Jonas

Angelina It must be to increase security...

I'd always recommend a waist-belt for women, though for men it's not so clear - for example my Neosteel Arch rides lower on the hips than any belt I've ever had, but it's the most secure by far.

Christine

Angelina did you have a hipstyle belt actuelly?

Yes

Angelina does your mother want to order it as a supplement or to replace the old belt?

idk yet

Vanessa Why does she want you to get a waist style one?She find it is more secure?

She has read all of you about security concerns of the hips style.

Vanessa How do you feel about it?

I think I will have less chance to get rid of it.

Angelina

Jonas It must be to increase security...

well, as far as i have read, the difference in safety is not very high.

Jonas I've heard it said too, but am not yet convinced.

I don't know either, but because I don't know, I trust what others who use it say here.

Jonas

Vanessa Jonas

It seems hip style belts are very secure for women too,if well made.

I've heard it said too, but am not yet convinced. I'd err on the side of safety...if a waist belt is narrower than the hip bones it really isn't coming down.

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