Chastity belt under swimwear

George

Sabina In summer. But think it's end of August now. In September outdoor pools and outdoor temperatures as such will be much more moderate, one could argue "not heat".

And as you mentioned, Poland has sea beaches in rather "nordic" regions.

(And I refuse to acknowledge the reason why we tend to have a traffic jam in Vienna on weekends on the city Autobahn, that is totally random, has has nothing to do with half of Southern Europe going North and half of Northern Europe driving South. Absolutely random happenstance that all these non-Austrian licence plates are blocking the traffic.)

Sabina

George Of course, at lower temperatures neoprene may be OK. I was just talking about typical summer weather. By the way, this year we had a storm over the Baltic Sea in August, which is usually only in autumn/winter... 😉

Angelina

Sasha Have you had any experience on the beach in your gear?

yes i did and yes sand can get into the equipment, but you can of course shower after visiting the beach, so it feels a little uncomfortable, but nothing bad 🙂

MissBlossom If you have a strong relationship with your keyholder, based on trust and respect, maybe you could just ask to take the belt off when you go swimming?

becomes problematic as soon as i would have told my father, i have to go to the toilet etc.

Sasha

Angelina yes i did and yes sand can get into the equipment

Friend suggested I buy a neoprene bikini bottom and that might help, so tried that and a pair of my brothers board shorts and shirt on a beach outing and yeah seems to work pretty well keeping sand out.
Hid the bra and belt well, and accomplished the goal keeping the sand out, so that's a win.

WriterAlexis

I suppose one could always forego any swimsuit over the belt and claim it is a new type of bikini.
Julia Fox just wore a metal bikini for NYFW.

youdontknowme

WriterAlexis Probably a bad idea with the clear dome shield...

But yeah, most secondary shields I have seen look opaque enough that they would probably be as street-legal as any bikini from the front. The rear of course would be a bigger question depending on belt style, but swimming in just the belt might not actually be a matter of public indecency and more of standing out a bit too much.

WriterAlexis

youdontknowme

My family wears the church approved swimwear when we are at the beach and pool. They look egregiously awful. I think that could very well be the one issue I am more interested in busting out of here over.

Owl

youdontknowme Probably a bad idea with the clear dome shield...

The combination of heavily fortified underwear with transparency at one's most precious places still heavily confuses parts of my brain. 😅 FS, how dare you?! 🤦

Anyway, public nudity / clothing rules - plus how they are actually lived out - are sometimes quite confusing too, particularly in strongly federal jurisdictions. The ongoing process of "harmonizing" all the different views and moral approaches, maintaining justice (whatever this is for you) creates sometimes quite odd combinations.

Ines

WriterAlexis

Church approved? We are religious, -not radical-, and we use normal swimwear, even my cousins that have pretty stricter regime than us.

youdontknowme

Ines Different church. Some of those American churches make the Vatican look like Woodstock by comparison.

WriterAlexis

Ines

LDS is generally more strict on modesty standards than the Catholic church is. We even have to wear special underpants during a regular day.

But where I am currently living has a substantial orthodox Jewish population. The swimsuits the women wear are far more conservative than our requirements. I haven't encountered a Muslim population of swimmers yet.

George

Ines the Vatican is an oasis of liberal thought to the American bible belt.

As a cynic I'd say, it's the competition of so many different sects and cults, see I can be even holier than you.

Well, they mean "holier", it might look "crazier" to normal people looking in from the outside.

George

Ines You haven't seen some fundamentalist North American Catholics. I do have some of these in my family. I did have the privilege to act as their personal driver around Europe when I was a young student.

One on my fondest memory is my ground mother (which I was driving to "old friends") entertaining me with a private inquisition on the critical question why that crucifix had disappeared from my room since her last visit. 4 hours basically uninterrupted monologue about my soul. Till I was able to deliver to her friends and hide with my parents more secular friends. Shudder.

(Did I mention that in her case, my father explicitly forbade to ever explain to her about the EU and EU citizenship, just to make sure that his mother always thought that she is limited to staying 3 months in Europe on a tourist visa. He literally feared that she might learn how her dual citizenship might allow her to stay anywhere in the EU for unlimited times, just by showing the other passport at the airport. Funny how the mighty elephant fears the tiny mouse.)

So yes, North America seems to have something in the air, that brings out fundamentalism in humans.

Ines

youdontknowme

OK, OK.
I mean, I use bikini, and even my cousins have a cable belt to can use bikini and we are at certain point a conservative family, and anyone is against bikinis.

George

youdontknowme A same thought here. Geniuses seem to have the same thought patterns 😀

Avery

Ines I mean, I use bikini

Cool.

Laura

Ines and even my cousins have a cable belt to can use bikini

Btw, where are they? Haven't seen them on the forum for a while

Ines

Avery

Here is the most acceptable for a woman under 40. Please I do not want sound cruel, but if people watch a young woman wearing a one piece swimwear instantly they will think that she is hiding something.
Obviously sport context is different.

Avery

Ines Here is the most acceptable for a woman under 40.

I went through a period when I was in high school and first year of college when I actually had to model what I was going to wear on the beach for my father so he could see it on me. He was especially concerned about how much of my bottom showed. Now I no longer have to model though I would not wear anything I knew would disappoint him.

Ines

Laura Btw, where are they? Haven't seen them on the forum for a while

One of them is absolutely offline since she lives with her parents, they are very conservative ,- really I believe it is decided only for her father-, and do not approve internet chatting.
Raquel is OK, her family is becoming a bit more restrictive in some fields, but I will give her your greets and I will ask her that comes here sometimes.
In Discord she is active.

Avery

WriterAlexis LDS is generally more strict on modesty standards than the Catholic church is.

That's what the rules say but I don't actually see that. The BYU runners wear the same uniforms we do, do workouts and have pictures taken in sports bras and bun huggers. Pretty small sample though.

youdontknowme

Avery The BYU

Somehow I always read this as "Bring Your Own University" a lot, despite the fact that Brigham Young is perhaps one of the most reputable faith-centric tertiary schools. BYOU seems to be how Alexis is getting her secular education.

George

youdontknowme You do realize how "faith-centric tertiary school" sounds to an European?

I mean we educate our priests in Austria at state run universities. That have a catholic and protestant theological faculty. Take that for "faith-centric universities". A totally crazy concept.

Avery

youdontknowme Somehow I always read this as "Bring Your Own University" a lot, despite the fact that Brigham Young is perhaps one of the most reputable faith-centric tertiary schools.

The BYU girls I've seen have been very impressive, pretty with good bodies. Look great in their bun huggers. Maybe they'll end up in Mormon hell, tho, I don't know. Those BYU guys must be getting awfully horny looking at them but not being able to touch. At least down there.

WriterAlexis

Owl

The combination of heavily fortified underwear with transparency at one's most precious places still heavily confuses parts of my brain.

The only part I cared about was that the opening of the primary shield it came with was wider. Nobody except my mom is seeing me in the belt anyway, and she's already seen all of my stuff, so it really doesn't matter to me that much. And if it did bother me, it uses the same screws as the metal secondary shield and would just ask to swap them.

Owl

WriterAlexis

Wasn't meant as criticism towards you. It's rather the concept of these combinations I find funny, though I can generally conceive use cases.

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