Belt fighting: your escape and bypass trials

catherine98

What did you all try to outsmart you cb in frustrated moments?

I tried a lot (mostly not successful) and have to admit that i still try things sometimes.

Let‘s share some atempts!

I will wait a little to post mine, but you will read about it. First, i am courious about yours🙂

Renita

catherine98 I never tried to do this, because I could always ask to take off. Although I understand the girls who did it.

Laura I had the serious argument, when I was 25 to stop wearing the belt due the age.

That sounds reasonable. And what did they answer you with that?

Laura

Great topic 🙂 We discussed it a little at the misterpoll, but let's elaborate.

When I agreed to wear a belt, I was over-confident I was able to pick the lock and take the belt off and put back whenever I needed to. Obviously without any success. Have given up.

Sara2001

Very interesting topic, but we should mark it as adult, so it's not easily visible for parents who are not registered.

I would also suggest that we spare the details if it was successful, otherwise I fear some girls will not be allowed to read here anymore and/or will be restricted harder.

I don't want to risk that place because it becomes a place for cheating your parents. 🙁

I only searched the internet for options but I never was brave enough to really try something. I know the consequences would be VERY hard.

I verbally fighted a lot in the beginning, especially when I was ordered to wear the belt in school, the only success was that I hadn't to were it in sport class.

I also fighted for a chain for my new tightbands so I'm able to take stairs easily. I will see how it ends.

Nowadays my sister definitely fights more then I ever had. Look like she has much more against it then me.

Laura

Sara2001 Very interesting topic, but we should mark it as adult, so it's not easily visible for parents who are not registered.

That's up to @catherine98, but I would prefer to leave it public, since this topic is relevant to the forum. Parents reading the topic would be aware what their belted daughter (or potentially belted) can do to bypass the belt and prevent it in advance.

Sara2001 I verbally fighted a lot in the beginning, especially when I was ordered to wear the belt in school, the only success was that I hadn't to were it in sport class.

I had the serious argument, when I was 25 to stop wearing the belt due the age, but without any success in it.

Sara2001 I still hide this place from my sister

Bring her here 🙂 , because she will find it sooner or later.

Sara2001

I still hide this place from my sister, because I fear that in a moment of anger about her situation she tends to say things like "Why don't you not ... to me, wouldn't this be even better for you". And ... normally means something that is far more restrictive. If she knows in detail about chastity bra and things like that she may help my father getting new ideas.

She actually is in a very rebellish phase and fights against her situation almost everyday. My father even had to increase her weekly maintenance session, so mine is now the less hardest. 🙂

But still she didn't try it physically but with talking. The following arguments didn't work (and for sure a few more 🙂 )

I'm the only one.
I fear others can see me
It's to restrictive
It's painful
It's not the 18th century
I want to make my own descision/experiences
It's unfair, I want to be treated equally
I can take care of myself

and some more. Most of them also already discussed with my father by me a few years earlier.

His point of view is not manipulatable. No girl or woman should be in control of her ability of sexual pleasure, sexual pleasure has always to be organised by the man. Male family members have to take care of single women. Otherwise woman's get selfish.

Vanessa

I often pull or push the locks/belt/secondary shield,and still do it,even if it never worked.

I too tried,when very frustrated to pick the locks;even knowing if I suceed,I could get an orgasm,but would be in very big troubles when discovered.So not often,

A couple times,I was so frustrated than I even scratch it with my nails,but it was more to express my anger than to try to escape it...

I tried to put things under it,but never managed to get more than increased arousal,without being able to relieve it...So not a good idea!

Sara2001 I'm the only one.
I fear others can see me
It's to restrictive
It's painful
It's not the 18th century
I want to make my own descision/experiences
It's unfair, I want to be treated equally
I can take care of myself

I think most of us used these ones,or similar ones!

Laura Basically, she said I was going to have sex as soon as I stop wearing the belt, and she didn't let me do it.

Yes,if we've been able to wear it since some times without problem,it is difficult to ask them to take it off without them guessing it would be to masturbate or have sex...

Laura

Renita And what did they answer you with that?

Basically, she said I was going to have sex as soon as I stop wearing the belt, and she didn't let me do it.

Laura

Vanessa Yes,if we've been able to wear it since some times without problem,it is difficult to ask them to take it off without them guessing it would be to masturbate or have sex...

I still believe, age is the reason for it. Since some age, a girl becomes mature enough to decide what to do without asking her parents.

Vanessa

Laura I still believe, age is the reason for it. Since some age, a girl becomes mature enough to decide what to do without asking her parents.

Probably,but I think most parents doesn't think there is no other reason than sexual ones to ask for taking the chastity belt off...And if she takes it off without being allowed too,there will be some bad consequences for her,often.

Renita

Vanessa Probably,but I think most parents doesn't think there is no other reason than sexual ones to ask for taking the chastity belt off...

Therefore, your parents also do not consider you old enough?

Ines

Vanessa
Well, in this issue, I am lucky there are a lot of reasons to be excempted of the belt in my home, cleaning, make some sport, even go buy clothes with my mother.
Some time ago I would like be released when I was overwhelmed, but my parents said that that feeling is not a cause for being released, I had to learn to calm down myself when I have negative modos.
When I am swamped I can ask to be pampered but I agree, now ( cold mind and not belted), that pretend be released for mood is very bratty.
Anyway, there a lot of good reasons to ask parents to be released or or soften the wearing.

And probably, sexual motivation it is not the most freccuent to ask it.

Vanessa

Not a matter of age,they think I should wear it until married.No sexual pleasure until married.

Renita

Vanessa Not a matter of age,they think I should wear it until married.No sexual pleasure until married.

You are like @Laura. It’s time for both of you to grow up and speak differently with your parents

Vanessa

Ines Anyway, there a lot of good reasons to ask parents to be released or or soften the wearing.

But if won't be accepted for most of us.

Ines And probably, sexual motivation it is not the most freccuent to ask it.

In my case,it is not the only reason,but an important one.Of course,I don't say it to my parents...

strictfather

Firstly i would be spanked for having talked to them like this.And they would remind me I can stop it anymtime but have to accept the conequences(no financial help anymore,have to leave their home,break the relationship with them...).I think they knew too it would be hard,and probably impossible,for me,to never want sex,never want to fall in love(and we don't choose it,anyway),never want to be married,never want to have a family...So there would be no good changes if I did so.

And it would be illogical as I'm presently dating Emilie,since a pretty long time(for more than 1 and half year).

Renita It’s time for both of you to grow up and speak differently with your parents

Talks won't change much things for me.

strictfather

I don't hink it is a good idea.It would means a severe punishment,and much more restrictions until the new chastity belt is delivered and after it.In my case,in addition to a severe spanking and grounding,I would probably have to say "good bye" to Emilie and wouldn't be allowed to date anyone for a very long time...

And I think it can be dangerous,if we've to open it quickly....

Laura this forum is not a right place for such ideas.

I can understand it,but it was an extrene way to bypass it!Even if I don't advise anyone to do it.

strictfather

A question: what if you tell your parents
<<well, you closed me in this prison [chastity belt and/or thightbands and/or chastitybra] to prevent me to have sex and/or orgasm. well. I sometime had a fight with all this because i suffered and i continue to suffer inside me every day, every second. I am tired of all this: Well, i SURRENDER. Prepare yourself NOT to have grandchildren because i refuse the idea to have a boyfriend, an husband and sons. Closed with this metal i can't have as normal relationship, i can't meet a man without feeling myself not free, i am not free to be myself in affective and sexual life. In this situation i understood it is better to avoid sex forever. No sons. No husband. No sex. Nothing. You won. Are you happy NOW? Are yoiu happy to have crushed my future and the future of this family? for me is no more a problem. good luck.>>

This hard words would be an hard provocation to your parents not what you really think: how do you think your parents would respond? Do you think something would change with chastity belt / no orgasm / no sex matters?

Ines

strictfather

Referent to me, absolutely all your post is wrong.
1- It is not a prison
2- Intention of our parents, even stricter, is not destroy our live.
3- None of the parents I hace read search about make us nuns.
4- None of them search avoid that we become self-realized women, and deny us be mothers and wifes.
5- Parents, maybe, would prefeer a full acceptance of our status forma our side, but forma sure none search acceptance of being broken dolls.

I can not share anything of your post.

Angelina

strictfather

A really good question.

i think it's pretty hard to say that, but you're right, so you can put your parents under pressure. my father would probably talk to me about it for a very long time, but i don't think he'd be able to unlock me. you also have to keep in mind that none of us can exclude a sexual relationship. sex is in my opinion not wanted, but it happens when 2 people fall in love.

i think if you would address your parents like that, you would have managed to destroy your family completely. either your parents wouldn't believe it and treat you even harsher . or they would kick us out and expel us. it's a mixture of everything . furthermore everyone knows that you can't switch off sexual feelings, so this threat is rather bad.

Clearly some parents would probably panic about their family and get the lost chance to have grandchildren, but most would not go for it or feel hurt. they follow during ignorance, prohibitions, stricter rules, sadness, anger and many other negative emotions. the whole life of us and our parents would turn to bad and the relationship with our parents would be very tense.

my father would also think that i am still too young to think about such things. it is different with Vanessa and Laura they have been grown up for a long time, but still depend on their parents and in order not to destroy such statements should be better omitted.

Laura

strictfather how do you think your parents would respond?

They would answer like "Wearing a chastity belt doesn't prevent you to date and have relationship. You will have a lot of sex once you get married. And we can't wait you born grandchildren"

Sara2001

strictfather Do you think something would change with chastity belt / no orgasm / no sex matters?

Not in my family. Now I'm in a relationship but if I had told this before I started my relationship they would just have said that we talk again when I have met the right person.

For my father it's absolutely unquestionable that I should not be in control of my sexuality all the time for good.

strictfather

i understand (and i already know you think this way by reading your posts). but the question is not what you think about that. the question is what your parent would think (and do) if you tell them that. This topic is "belt fighting": blackmail and threat (no husband, no sons, i suffer,....) can be a way to escape from chastity belt and accessories?

Ines

strictfather
Well I f it would be my situation, if parents would did things such bad, and I would be so devastated, I agree with Angelina, these (not mine fortunately) parents would talking with me about meaning of chastity and belted status. And I gess that I could achieve softening of some rules. But I am afraid that release of belt would be out of sight with those parents.

strictfather

<<i think if you would address your parents like that, you would have managed to destroy your family completely. either your parents wouldn't believe it and treat you even harsher . or they would kick us out and expel us. it's a mixture of everything >>

in this way you are telling that chastity belt scope is not only "protect virginity" / " prevent sex" / "prevent orgasm" / etc etc" but really is "your parents can decide if and when you have to open your legs and get pregnant and you can't tell/think anything about it!". don't you think this 8if true) is not right? they can decide to keep you in chastity. ther can't impose their point of view on sex and procreation 😛 and here is the focus of blackmail and threat.

Angelina

strictfather

it's not necessarily blackmail, it's addiction and family coherence.

Angelina

Laura

my father would probably say the same thing 😉