Value of virginity

Christine

Ines I think that is much more valuable what is protected

Valuable to whom?

Ines

Christine
Valuable for almost everyone.
Do you know of girls that do not appreciate her virginity.
Even my friends that lost it, for everyone was special when they gave it.

Renita

Ines Do you know of girls that do not appreciate her virginity.

Most girls try to get rid of her as soon as possible.

Angelina

Ines Do you know of girls that do not appreciate her virginity.

unfortunately yes, a few from my school

Vanessa

Ines for everyone was special when they gave it.

I agree.I waited until being truly in love with my boyfriend before I accepted to have sex and lose my virginity.Even if not waiting until marriage,I think it should be done only when in love.

Renita

I don't think it is the best choice,but each people have to decide it.

Ines

I agree.My twin were pretty happy and proud after his first time.

Ines

Even if I'm still against forced wearing,due to their behavior,they should not be allowed to came back until they wear a chastity belt.So,if she want to continue studying here,it would be with a chastity belt,or she would have to leave.I would apply it only to university and similar,as these studies are optional(but very useful if they want to have a good job),and as there is more "slutty behavior" during the years studying at university(as @Ines noticed recently).

And I agree,the one asking for money to give a blowjob is literally a hooker.

Christine

Ines Do you know of girls that do not appreciate her virginity.

Me. It was nothing, but troubles.

Ines

Renita
However, then it is important for them, even if it for lose

Tim

Ines That's sort of twisting the meaning of "important". You wouldn't say that about whether a guy is a virgin, but "Most try to get rid of [it] as soon as possible." works just as well for guys.

...or at least it's twisting how an English speaker understands virginity being important. An English speaker sees it as "A girl's virginity is important to her, but not a guy's. He wants to get rid of it as soon as possible."

Renita

Ines then it is important for them, even if it for lose

And it would add more frustration to a belt if she's still a virgin.

Ines

Tim
And for boys it is important too, but in the other sense.
It is a sort of shame.
Or in other way, for the boys important is the absence of it.
For the girls, I mean it even the girl that gave it, remember it, and was an important moment.
I think none girl ignore her virginity.
It is not twisted, is the true.

HHelen

Tim A girl's virginity is important to her, but not a guy's

But her virginity is important to a guy, if he is serious about her.

Tim

Ines I shouldn't have phrased it that way. You didn't "twist" the meaning of it, you were unaware of how native English speakers use the word and, because of that, you used it in a way which doesn't fit.

Like a less obvious equivalent to saying "She places great value on how chaste she is" but, because "not at all" is a degree of chastity, you actually mean "She places great value on how much sex she enjoys".

In English, there's usually an assumption that, if someone values something, they value having and keeping it, because valuable things are things to be treasured.

Ines

Angelina
A few, obviously , always there are some girls, you can not tell about universal trues.
But huge majority, even of not virgin girls remember her first time, because for, in general, all of us, it is important.

Max9

Angelina Oh yes, we also had such people in our school. We had a classmate who slept with littelry nearly every single person in our age - just apart from me and some guys who had a gf. She changed her voyfried about weeky!
And another one who has been a coupple with several boys and also once offered us to pay her for a blowjob.

Angelina

Ines

well, you asked the question, but in general you are right, for most girls virginity is something special and valuable

Max9

yes, i have made similar experiences. in a fair world these girls would wear a chastity belt, i would always be willing to give it to such girls 😉

Ines That kind of girls make me think again about my not forced wearing philosophy.

i agree with you, it makes me very angry and it is hard for me not to wish that these girls had to wear a chastity belt with thigh bands

Ines

Max9
That kind of girls make me think again about my not forced wearing philosophy.
They are not only 2 sluts, but at least one a true hooker.
A feminine school with a belt with bands would teach them a lesson...
Truly I hate those girls 😤

Michael

Ines That kind of girls make me think again about my not forced wearing philosophy.
They are not only 2 sluts, but at least one a true hooker.
A feminine school with a belt with bands would teach them a lesson...

I know a woman that was like these girls when she was younger.
However, I know that she isn't proud of her past. She did behave like that because she had low self-esteem and having a lot of sex with a lot of guys was making herself believe she was more liked and a more valuable person.
Therefore I would be careful to judge these girls if you do not know their motivation and background.
Even if they had no psychological problems it is their decision. Nobody has to like that but I believe we want others to respect out decision to wear chastity belts, so we should also accept some girls' decision to have as much sex as possible.

Ines

Vanessa Even if I'm still against forced wearing

You know here, you and I agree fully.

Vanessa So,if she want to continue studying here,it would be with a chastity belt,or she would have to leave.I would apply it only to university and similar,as these studies are optional(but very useful if they want to have a good job),and as there is more "slutty behavior" during the years studying at university(as @Ines noticed recently).

I think that currently I think that wear a belt is highly advisable for the female students.
It is obvious you can not and maybe you should not make it forced... But lately I am thinking about advantages of make mandatory the belt in university students.
In fact, in my tale (I will resume it soon, I promise), the legal chastity is treated as a "negative" or something that allows me build a counterfactual reality. Lately I am thinking in change it and bring it to the reader as a desirable thing and let it to reader judgement.
But

Renita

Vanessa I don't think it is the best choice,but each people have to decide it.

Of course not everybody. In my opinion, virginity itself is not a big value.

Angelina

Vanessa I agree.My twin were pretty happy and proud after his first time.

i think this is also due to social pressure among men

Vanessa Even if I'm still against forced wearing,due to their behavior,they should not be allowed to came back until they wear a chastity belt.

I do not know such harsh words from you, but I agree with you 😉

Ines I am thinking about advantages of make mandatory the belt in university students.

then we would have many more female academics, the exemption from the belt is only available with a university degree 😂

Michael so we should also accept some girls' decision to have as much sex as possible.

that is completely ok for me, but these girls should not show it off in public, that bothers me a lot

Vanessa

Ines

Like not forcing students to wear one,but make some(every?)universities accept female students only if they accept to wear a chastity belt?

So not forcing them to wear one,but let them decide between not wearing one,and not be accepted in such university,or wear one and allowed to study in these universities?If yes,it would prevent slutty behavior,while letting the students choose to wear one or not,not a bad idea.

Renita

It is important to choose well the boyfriend/girlfriend with who we want to lose it(if he/she break-up with us right after our first time,it would not be a pleasant memory for us...),but except it,I don't think it is that important.

Michael

It would be better,and less risked to ask for psychological help,however.Even,if,in your example,it seems she managed to feel better,she's now a bit ashamed of how she acted...And if someone recognize her and tell people what she did,it could impact badly her work,her relationships...

Angelina i think this is also due to social pressure among men

I think so,too.

Angelina I do not know such harsh words from you, but I agree with you 😉

i don't like much this behavior too.I was sexually active,but not a slut.And,even for themselves,it is not very good.

Angelina then we would have many more female academics, the exemption from the belt is only available with a university degree 😂

🤣

HHelen

It depends,for some it would be important,for other,not much,or not at all.But the one she choose to lose her virginity with should understand he's very special for her(as long as she doesn't only want to get rid of it as soon as possible).

Max9

It's not very important for me.Knowing I'm his first one is romantic,and I feel special for him,but if he had several girlfriends,he's generally more skilled in bed.Both have pleasant parts.

Laura That's not true in my case 😂

Right.And same for me! 😉

It would be good to be free of it if we get married or if we get a good enough diploma.

Laura

They should not tell exactly how many girlfriends they had,their names,how often they had sex,etc...But simply hint they have some experience.

Angelina The important thing is that he doesn't sleep with anyone else after me 😉

😉

And that he is faithful.

Angelina now following this logic @Vanessa and you are already free of the belt, while i would probably have to wear the belt longer than planned 😂

Exactly,that's why having both options would be good!😉

Even if it is pretty rare to be married when still students(being engaged is a bit more common,however).

Ines

Michael Therefore I would be careful to judge these girls if you do not know their motivation and background.

I think we think different. A girl that ask money for sex is a hooker. I am not going to throw her stones, but I do not like. Background? Probably, but she chooses to be a hooker.
Here we have the same "song" with some criminals. He is a rapist of girls of 13 years old but... his parents bit him... his childhood was in a country in war... Sorry, but are nonsenses, and, anyway, for sure I do not have to pay his trauma.
Obviously, to be a hooker is not similar to it, but I used the other story to try to explain me better.
I am not quite good in English and I try to force me to do not use automatic translators.

Laura

I can also say that girl's virginity doesn't make any troubles for her

Angelina the exemption from the belt is only available with a university degree

That's not true in my case 😂

Valadar

Angelina i think this is also due to social pressure among men

I would have to agree there is a lot of social pressure for a man to lose his virginity.

Also judging from programs such as the Bachelor where a man contestant was ridiculed because he still was a virgin generally does gives the impression that it is expected for a man to be experienced sexually and usually with multiple sexual partners…