Jen You are confusing me a lot.
Jen your recent posts give me more confidence about what is reasonable and I can stand up for myself but your older posts like above put a whole different perspective to it.
I understand your confusion, and I had to go back and check on the full context of my older post. That particular post was written shortly after I joined this forum. My comments specifically referred to some advantage of chastity, but only in the context of a happy, willing wearer. That post had nothing at all to do with the coercion of young adolescents into forced wearing of these devices.
I suspect that at that time I really wasnāt as aware to the extent of the problems for reluctant/unwilling wearers and the problems they face. I am truly sorry if I confused you.
A big plus of this forum is that it provides a lot of information of the wearing of chastity equipment based on actual experience and much of the information, though often difficult to find is quite useful. However, there is one glaring omission: there is no repository for good arguments that can be put to those coercing adolescents into wearing something they donāt want to do.
At the moment I am trying to draft a new thread that I hope would encourage others to suggest strategies to resist undue pressures place on members by people who provide them with shelter, sustenance and education in return for āagreementsā to wear something against their will. Perhaps my life experiences will be of use. It isnāt much, but at the moment it is the best help I can offer.