Distancing serious use from fetish.

Max9

Angelina Can you actually remove them?

Angelina

Max9 Can you actually remove them?

no the chains are attached to the bra with 2 padlocks and to the belt with 2 more padlocks.

but i do not wear the chains permanently 🙂

Max9

Angelina so - if you can't take off the bra without them - why do you actually have to wear them?

Joh

Max9 so - if you can't take off the bra without them - why do you actually have to wear them?

Good question.

Angelina

Max9 why do you actually have to wear them?

oops, I wrote it before but apparently you didn't read it.

i have a break from bra once a month, the deal is that i get a break once a month where my girlfriend gets to play with my boobs, in return i wear these connecting chains for a week afterwards (but only at home)

Vanessa

Angelina i have a break from bra once a month, the deal is that i get a break once a month where my girlfriend gets to play with my boobs, in return i wear these connecting chains for a week afterwards (but only at home)

I still don't feel it very fair...A few hours at most without the chastity bra on meaning a week with connecting chains...

Joh

Angelina in return i wear these connecting chains for a week afterwards (but only at home)

What will it teach you if you wear the connecting chains for a week?

Max9

Angelina connecting chains for a week afterwards

So... why does he want you to wesr them in first place?
I mean ... if you can't take it off without them anyway... ok, wearing them gives you some freedom, but... what tge sense behind them? That you can't wear inviting tshirts?

Angelina

Vanessa I still don't feel it very fair...A few hours at most without the chastity bra on meaning a week with connecting chains...

no it's not fair either and i will definitely bring it up the next time i renegotiate our arrangements with my dad. but it's currently the only way my girlfriend can at least briefly see and touch my breasts.

Joh What will it teach you if you wear the connecting chains for a week?

the original reason for the connecting chains was different, but this is no longer current, so I will not repeat it again.

frankly, the connection chains don't make any sense to me, it's more about the lesson that if I want something, I have to give something in return.

Max9 what tge sense behind them?

see my reply to @Joh

Joh

Angelina frankly, the connection chains don't make any sense to me, it's more about the lesson that if I want something, I have to give something in return.

Do you belief it is fair?

Vanessa

Angelina i will definitely bring it up the next time i renegotiate our arrangements

I hope you would manage to cancel,or a least reduce,it...

Angelina frankly, the connection chains don't make any sense to me, it's more about the lesson that if I want something, I have to give something in return.

But it should be similar,not much longer/worse.

Angelina i have to provide alternatives

But he has to accept it.

Angelina

Joh

as i said to @Vanessa, it's not fair, but i'm already thinking about alternatives, so far i don't have any, but when i have an idea i'll write it here 😉

Joh

Angelina as i said to @Vanessa, it's not fair, but i'm already thinking about alternatives, so far i don't have any, but when i have an idea i'll write it here

What did you father say about this unfair request? Does he see it or is he not thinking about it?

Angelina

Joh Does he see it or is he not thinking about it?

he doesn't have to think about it, i do. if i want to make my rules fairer, i have to provide alternatives

Joh

Angelina he doesn't have to think about it

Why should he not think about it if his behaviour unfair? Do you think it is ok that he is standing outside the rules but force you to following it?

Angelina

Vanessa I hope you would manage to cancel,or a least reduce,it...

i hope so too

Vanessa But it should be similar,not much longer/worse.

that's right, that's why it's not a permanent solution but only until i find an alternative

Vanessa But he has to accept it.

of course, otherwise I could do what I want 😉

Max9

i will be 18 in july and my girlfriend is 2 years younger than me (she will be 16 in may) so we will have to wait.

besides, i wouldn't want to get married under the current conditions, it should be a nice big party 😃

Max9

Well, it's only until you marry, right? @Angelina ... and you have a gf who you want to marry ... so...
https://www.standesamt24.de/c/schnell-heiraten/

Max9

Angelina (she will be 16 in may) so we will have to wait

You can marry her as soon as she turns 16 if the parents agree to the marriage. You just actually musn't have sexual contact to her when you're full aged and she isn't.

Vanessa

Angelina i hope so too

Let us know how it went!

Angelina that's right, that's why it's not a permanent solution but only until i find an alternative

Let's hope you would find one quickly,so.

Angelina besides, i wouldn't want to get married under the current conditions, it should be a nice big party 😃

Would you delay it if the situation don't allow it?

Angelina

Max9

neither is true sexual contact only knows the age of consent of 14 and the constellation of under 16 and over 21.

marriage used to be allowed from 16, but that was changed because too many muslim girls in germany were married by their parents.

Max9

Angelina

oh, didn't know that. Sorry.

Angelina

Joh

no, that's not what i mean. the initial situation was that i really wear the bra permanently. after long negotiations i managed to get a break per month and in return i wear the connecting chains. i didn't have to agree to that, but then i wouldn't have gotten the break.

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