suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

Kaja

sarafulton Do you have breaks to self pleasure?

sarafulton

Kaja no self pleasure

Laura

sarafulton and a chastity belt was suggested by a relative

How did they know about modern chastity belts?

sarafulton

I believe it was just via internet search and they discovered it all and looked into it further and raised the matter

Laura

sarafulton I'm just wondering is the idea was inspired by this forum

Kaja

sarafulton why?

Angelina

sarafulton I started dating boys and was sexually active and had a pregnancy scare. This caused them alot of stress and concern and a chastity belt was suggested by a relative to ensure no repeat behavior. I agreed to the idea as it certainly reduced my parents anxiety.

sarafulton no self pleasure

as much as i understand the approach, i think that it is overshooting the mark. pregnancies can be prevented by contraception and too much casual sex by finding a partner who shares your values and maybe wants to wait until marriage, both are not reasons for the belt and neither is stopping masturbation.
Why don't you have breaks, why should masturbation be prevented?

sarafulton

Possibly, it was my older sister that suggested to my parents and I and showed us the links to belt manufacturers

youdontknowme

sarafulton because the family were not aware of chastity devices back when they were younger. Now my sisters are both married that would be their husbands concern and not my parents

sarafulton Possibly, it was my older sister that suggested to my parents and I

How nice of her to propose this after she knew she would no longer be affected by it.

Ines

Kaja

If the only issue is pregnancy, I think that Kaja is totally right.

sarafulton

Ines not at all. It was not the only issue but was the scariest part. My family does not believe in sex before marriage as are devout Catholic but I rebeled and headed down a dark path of promiscuity but thankfully chastity ended that for me

Andrew

sarafulton a dark path of promiscuity

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pestulens

Kaja probably because catholic.

sarafulton do you still practice?

Renita

sarafulton and headed down a dark path of promiscuity

How did they find out?

Sasha

sarafulton the reason you wear it sounds similar to me. Except I was out of control, slept with literally anyone, ruined relationships, took what ever I could get and masturbated constantly. So after my own pregnancy scare it made sense I wear it and have many things restricted.
But since it seems like you were simply behaving like a normal teenager I’d have to agree with the others that putting a belt on you was a overreaction, in my opinion

sarafulton

Renita I told them about it all

sarafulton

Angelina why do you wear yours or have other wear then?

Angelina

sarafulton why do you wear yours or have other wear then?

because my father wants it and pressures me to do it
that's why I'm trying to find out how high the degree of voluntariness is for you.

Sasha But since it seems like you were simply behaving like a normal teenager I’d have to agree with the others that putting a belt on you was a overreaction, in my opinion

@sarafulton That's exactly what I mean too

sarafulton

Sasha yes I have not done much different to many my age and in my friend group but my parents are much stricter than theirs. As I live with my parents still I follow their rules.

Sasha

sarafulton Likewise I live at home still.
It’s one thing to obey their rules as you should, but a 24/7 chastity belt just seems a bit excessive.

Renita

sarafulton And asked them about a chastity belt for you?
I was in the same situation and asked my mom to put a belt on me.

sarafulton

Sasha why is it excessive? I would prefer to wear it full time on and off as I find that my body adjusts better that way, if I wore it on and off and had time out then it would be difficult to get back into comfortably. It has become a lifestyle

sarafulton

Renita no I didn't ask for it. I didn't really know it existed, It was mt older sister that made the suggestion and the ideas was out forward to me and I agreed

Sasha

sarafulton If you want to wear it that’s a different thing, nothing wrong with that. I’m more referring to it being pushed is all.
Though despite why I’m in one I still get time out of it to work out, and a little play time when my grades come out. Well if it’s better than a B average anyway

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