Natescage how long would you have to wear it for punishment? And was it alloways the belt or did your parents make you wear other gear too? I thought you said they spanked you too.
It depends,usually it was for two weeks to a month.I had to wear thigh bands as punishment for,most of the times,2 or 3 days,sometimes,but mainly for things like sneaking out.And yes,I was,and still get,spanked(but for almost all offenses,not only the ones related to sex and masturbation).
HHelen I hope to convince her, but let's talk about it later.
It would be better.
HHelen Therefore it should be on.
But,if you want to let her have some pleasure alone,you can take it off for a set period of time,when she's alone.
HHelen I forbid it explicitly.
Logical,as you want to prevent her to have sex.
HHelen If you mean thighbands or chastity bra, no. I tend to agree with many here, such devices are not so effective as a chastity belt.
I agree.I think the belt alone is secure enough.
You can be strict,but still not force her to wear it reluctantly.@strictfather seems strict,considering his name,but he finally give up the idea to make his oldest daughter wear a chastity belt.😉
HHelen I have read here that wearing a chastity belt without the secondary shield causes some inconvenience. Can you comment?
I can't.I've never been allowed to wear it without the secondary shield on...🙁
Natescage probably easier since she could masturbate.
I think too it would be more manageable for her if she can still masturbate.
Megan
Yes,they bought it on My-Steel website.
Megan The shield is truly in my opinion a safety device and not restricting.
However,it restricts several things...
Natescage Vanessa has a golden belt? That's actually really cool the power that a gold belt symbolises.
Only the lock are golden!😉
Natescage
I think it is mainly because they felt it is nicer,and not super-expensive.
HHelen Former can be acceptable, last no.
Accepting the first one would help her a lot to manage it.And maybe make her accept to wear a chastity belt more easily if she too think sex should not be done before being married.
Natescage and if she can't she will complain more
I think so too.
Ines It does not block ventilation. And for showers you can allow her open secondary shield and, without remove belt clean is much better.
Taking the belt off for showers at least 1 time a week is still important,I think.
Ines even if it was not main purpose, do not complain about their girls can not touch themselves, it is a nice "collateral" effect.
I agree;it seems it is often not the main purpose,but an appreciated addition(not for the wearers;of course,generally).
HHelen To ensure her virginity.
Not sure she would find the offer is worth it,except if she cares a lot too to still be virgin when married.
Yes,alone in her bedroom,for example.
HHelen That's because I'm not sure yet. I'm afraid to make things worse with full chastity.
It would be far worse for her if she can't get any orgasms anymore until married.And she would be more reluctant about wearing one.
Natescage
I've a cable one,and it is totally secure.I've no experiences with other sort of rear,but,generally,wearers think the cable one is the "less worst" one.
James If you're going to suggest serious restrictions, you have to be willing to make serious offers of things you'd oppose without it.
I agree.I remember that Ivana,on Misterpoll,convinced her daughters to wear one by giving more freedom if they accept it,like a later curfew and a private time when her and her daughters have a cleaning break,with chat and jokes(non-wearers not allowed to join).
Ines Exactly. It is a point that was discussed here a lot, and some here think that best way to accepted belting starts for see our mother wear it happily.
I guess it can helps.
Laura After this your post I start doubting you are really a father 😂
Notice that he knows this board and(pretty well,it seems)the My-Steel website,even if he never plan to buy one...
HHelen "And they are not virgin since 14. We both don't want it, do we?"
If your daughter and you start a talk like this,I think it's going to be a long one,and not sure it would lead to an agreement...
HHelen Because I'm not in the fertile age anymore.
It doesn't impact masturbation!😉
HHelen I will give her more freedom in relationships.
It could be a good offer.And related to the subject.
James Which is a limited approach that she'd buy I'd say.
I think she can accept it more "easily",yes.
No,she never wrote it.She wrote her daughter was over 16 and a bit younger that the age of @Laura when she had to start wearing it.Laura was 19 when she had to wear a chastity belt for the first time.So @HHelen's daughter can easily be 18(probably the case as she said she was an adult),and so,an adult,in many countries.
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