suggestion for a chastity belt for my daughter

James

Laura That simply means everywhere, but at home

How is that not a lot of the time?

Laura

James How is that not a lot of the time?

My case, for example. I'm home most of my time

Ines

Natescage
I usually misstrust of dramas.

Natescage in the us these kids often end up in a group home or boarding school at this age till 18 and with no financial support many I knew in the us ended up homeless at 18.

I think "social care" works different in EU than US.

Natescage

Ines yes but I was trying to illustrate for @a_father that he should not be telling the younger girls here to rebellion and go to the police.

Renita

HHelen That might be an option if our discussion comes to it.

Can you imagine yourself wearing a chastity belt?

BikelockFugitive One more Sherlock? 😃

HHelen

James That's a lot of the time...

it will depend on the level of her relationship.

Laura That simply means everywhere, but at home

She might have visitors.

Christine Just curious, since when did you have this chastity "dream"?

Good question. As early as I had to start worrying about her. Probably you understand what I mean.

Renita Can you imagine yourself wearing a chastity belt?

In 18 or now?

a_father What would your reaction have been like if your parents had put a chastity belt on you when you were 18?

You probably remember it was a little different at that time. And if it happened, I would ask for a reasonable explanation and my question could be if they trusted me.

a_father

HHelen
There are other ways to prevent pregnancy. That's why you shouldn't take personal freedom in such an area. Are you sure you are worried about your daughter and not just jealous of her youth? I think we both are of a similar age. Of course you can get jealous of the youth (I know). What would your reaction have been like if your parents had put a chastity belt on you when you were 18? A long time ago you were young too. Just give her her life.

Renita

HHelen In 18 or now?

Both.

Vanessa

Ines

Not a bad thing,if it is possible.

Ines

I agree.It is not necessary to use a chastity belt to prevent it(even if it is a common reason).

a_father

There was a few cases,told here or on Misterpoll,in which the chastity belt was a mother's idea,and the daughters accepted it and are not unhappy.But in these cases,the wearer have accepted it willingly(sometimes in exchange to get some advantages).

HHelen Not for dates only, but ever times a boy is around.

Even is they're not alone?

HHelen At least she shares my opinion about it or says so.

It could be possible to convince her,so,and would make it easier for her(and better for your relationship).

HHelen Honestly I waited until she turned 18 before discuss a chastity belt for her.

It was the case for several of us here.

HHelen That's more about sexual drive than possible pregnancy .

Self control can be enough!😉

HHelen That might be an option if our discussion comes to it.

If you accept to wear one too,she would probably be more willingly to accept it too.And it would be fair.Be ready to propose it if she hesitates.

HHelen it will depend on the level of her relationship.

So,more need to wear it with a friend than with an acquaintance?

Ines

I agree with you,a talk with her daughter is necessary.

But I strongly disagree about being better to prevent a woman to touch herself.It is a natural and healthy activity,if not excessively,and should be allowed.It is why I suggest more an abstinence belt than a chastity belt.And it would be way easier for her daughter to accept and manage it if she knows it doesn't mean she would have to wait several years before getting an orgasm again.

But you know my opinion about it!😉

Christine

HHelen Probably you understand what I mean.

You think like my mom.

a_father

HHelen And you don't trust your daughter and you want to give her a gift of distrust. You will be amazed. Have you ever tried talking? Incidentally, you can no longer give her freedom, you can only take it. She's grown up and doesn't have to do anything you ask for. What do you want to do if she rightly refuses? Imagine she just moves because of this to one of the guys you want to protect her from. You can't hold her. With the belt, every little argument can escalate if the mood is bad.

Ines

Well, and just in my opinion:
If all the approach is correct, I think you are going too fast and too long since you have not talked with your girl yet.
Talk with her, convince her, agree terms and conditions, and then purchase the not secure belt for those terms.
We are all girls, and we know that it is not so simple, "happy birthday, darling, I bought this skirt for you. I want you wear it"... we know it does not work with a blouse and less with a chastity belt.

And please, do not think that I am discouraging you, because I think that you have good idea, and every girl is a good candidate to your proposal, but I think you are making the things complicated and badly.

As I am more or less the age of your daughter (1 year more or less) I can asure you that pregnancy risk is small and it can be defeated with anticonceptive.

If you want protect fully to your daughter and you do not like she can have sex or touch herself, what is pretty correct in my opinion due I do not like the concept of a girl touching herself, then chastity belt is the option.

Chastity belt is huge demanding in psychological aspect, so, better talk with her before. And think that if she agrees, she become in very dependent of you. You will have to be there, even for unlock her for a shower, or sorry for unladylike, for release her if something in toilet was wrong and she need a "deeper clean".

Helen, in my home there are 3 girls wearing a belt, but I think I can not help you, since the terms of your daughter are in the air. Talk with her, build a frame of conditions, and then we can advise you to achieve the objectives on the most safe of ways.

The key in belting is the girl, not the belt.

HHelen

Ines f all the approach is correct, I think you are going too fast and too long since you have not talked with your girl yet.
Talk with her, convince her, agree terms and conditions, and then purchase the not secure belt for those terms.

That's right, but I would like to be in position before I start talking to her, e.g. to have answers for all possible question. That's why I'm here.

Renita Both.

It could be reasonable in 18, but would look at least strange now.

Vanessa Even is they're not alone?

But it can happen anytime.

Vanessa Self control can be enough!

Yes, that's why I don't worry about it.

Vanessa If you accept to wear one too,she would probably be more willingly to accept it too

I'm afraid to look stupid.

Vanessa So,more need to wear it with a friend than with an acquaintance?

Basically how much time she spends with a guy(s).

Daphne i have to agree with you ines, chastity belts are always needed

Especially for my daughter. 🙂

a_father

Natescage Why not? It is what it is. Abuses (at least if it is more or less forced).

Daphne

Vanessa

I agree, it has to be discussed and be agreed upon that she willingly wears it only then can she understand why a being in chastity is so important

Ines

Vanessa
Yes I know, Vanessa, and you know that in this point we do not agree. I much more traditional than you 😁.
For my concept of chastity, in civilization world there is not place for abstinence belts.

Vanessa

Daphne

We can't know it until they talked together about it...And it could easily require more than a single talk...

Ines Yes I know, Vanessa, and you know that in this point we do not agree. I much more traditional than you 😁.

😉

Daphne

Or abstinence ones!😉

Daphne

Ines i have to agree with you ines, chastity belts are always needed

Ines

Daphne
But we can not make see to the blinds.... 😂

Daphne

Ines

they will see eventually,all in due time

Daphne

Vanessa We can't know it until they talked together about it...And it could easily require more than a single talk...

yes, lets hope she wears her belt voluntarily and with pride

Daphne

HHelen Especially for my daughter

As long as she's happy with it, she must see the joy of it. Speaking of, what belt will you get her?

James

HHelen I'm afraid to look stupid.

To who? I’m sure she would have the same fear, though.

Who are you afraid of looking stupid to?

Renita

HHelen but would look at least strange now.

Not stranger than chastity belt for your daughter. I don't see big difference.

a_father

HHelen Be careful. Not all you read here is true. Where are all the girls who refused to wear a belt? Not a single one here, although I think they are in the majority? The normal reaction is: Mom, I will never wear that! "End of the discussion. So talk to her like a loving mother talks to her child and forget this fantasy. Even @Ines obviously has doubts that this is the right way is for you both.

HHelen

Daphne Speaking of, what belt will you get her?

No sure yet, still need to discuss.

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