fear of orgasm: why?

Saintprudence

Vanessa it has been apparent for a while that HHelen’s daughter will be belted through college at the very least, and she should enjoy her self-pleasure breaks while she still can.

Megan

Saintprudence it has been apparent for a while that HHelen’s daughter will be belted through college at the very least, and she should enjoy her self-pleasure breaks while she still can.

HHelen University time is coming.

HHelen Yes, as Megan said. She shouldn't be obsessed.

Why not make school easier than home right before leaving? I think that is what I might want although I am not certain???

HHelen The way you suggested, as soon as she starts her university.

Saintprudence

HHelen when did your daughter agree to this? Did you offer anything in return for the increase in fully locked time? As I recall it was initially allowed for self-pleasure releases, and now it’s a random die.

if you got her to agree to increased security and denial with nothing in return, I think many key holders would like to know your secret!

HHelen

Joh Why doesn't she knows?

Must be unpredictable for her.

Angelina so you can manipulate it however you like

No reason for me.

Vanessa You don't let her know the results?

No.

Vanessa .Free,than with a chastity belt on,then only able to relieve her urges at night,then locked most of the nights...

University time is coming.

Vanessa Do you plan to make it permanently wearing,with no release at all,until married?

We discussed it already.

RafaelGV Instead of using a dice why not use the arithmetic mean 3.5?

I use the simplest thing.

Saintprudence Did you offer anything in return for the increase in fully locked time?

I pay for her university.

Angelina

Vanessa She should discreetly exchange the dices with loaded ones,in her favor,of course!😉

😂

Vanessa You make it even and even harder..

this seems to be the case with many parents 🙁 (also yours)

Joh

HHelen Must be unpredictable for her.

It would be nice if you could answer with some more information.
What is the reason that is has to be unpredictable?
Is some of my assumption a reason of it?

Angelina

HHelen No.

so she doesn't know what you rolled. ?

HHelen We discussed it already.

so you plan to make her wear it permanently in exchange for paying her for everything she needs to study?

Vanessa

HHelen Must be unpredictable for her.

For what reason?

HHelen University time is coming.

Not very related.

HHelen We discussed it already.

Yes,but you seems to change your mind,and her rules,often.

Joh It would be nice if you could answer with some more information.

I agree.But @HHelen often answers by short answers,it is hard to get more information,except if we're ready to ask questions in several steps...

HHelen

Angelina so you plan to make her wear it permanently in exchange for paying her for everything she needs to study?

Not permanently, just fewer breaks.

Vanessa For what reason?

To not let her expect a relief "this night".

Vanessa Not very related.

Things are changing.

Vanessa Yes,but you seems to change your mind,and her rules,often.

I follow the initial plan.

Vanessa .But @HHelen often answers by short answers,it is hard to get more information

Because most things have already been said.

Angelina

Vanessa I agree.But @HHelen often answers by short answers,it is hard to get more information,except if we're ready to ask questions in several steps...

in germany we say "do i have to squeeze everything out of you"? 🤣

Foxies

Angelina

In Britain we say, "Its like getting blood from a stone!" 🤣

Joh

Angelina
Or "You have to pull the worms out of her nose" 🤣

Vanessa

Angelina

In France,we use "tirer les vers du nez"("pull the worms out of the nose",in english,I guess)!😉

Joh

Like in french,so!😉

HHelen Not permanently, just fewer breaks.

Already decided how many?

HHelen To not let her expect a relief "this night".

Do you think it would make her focus more on the studies instead of the upcoming break?

HHelen I follow the initial plan.

It seems way less strict at first.

HHelen Because most things have already been said.

Not truly the case.Many have(unanswered)questions after some of your posts.And sometimes you contradict some other of your posts,or are unclear.

Joh Not really. You avoid to answer some questions.

Right,I noticed it too.

Joh Or did you change step by step the situation and she couldn't go back because she agreed it at that time?

Based on her posts,it seems it is the case.

Angelina if she moves out the breaks will automatically be less, if she stays with you it is your own decision

Right.

Megan Maybe other people should try being supportive or at least less paranoid.

Many other here don't like much when the rules change without asking the wearer if he/she agree...

Angelina

Foxies In Britain we say, "Its like getting blood from a stone!" 🤣

I have never heard that before, but it makes sense. 😂

Joh Or "You have to pull the worms out of her nose" 🤣

Yes 😂

HHelen Not permanently, just fewer breaks.

if she moves out the breaks will automatically be less, if she stays with you it is your own decision

HHelen Because most things have already been said.

i (and many others here) would disagree and sometimes you very cleverly dodge questions 😉

Joh

HHelen Because most things have already been said.

Not really. You avoid to answer some questions.

HHelen I follow the initial plan.

What is the initial plan.
Did she knows the initial plan?
Did she agree to the plan at the time? Or did you change step by step the situation and she couldn't go back because she agreed it at that time?

Megan

HHelen To not let her expect a relief "this night".

I found it best not to spend all day obsessing or worrying over things... So makes sense.
I thought you were saying roll of the dice_ as an expression not an actual dice.

Sounds like she is doing well. Maybe other people should try being supportive or at least less paranoid.

HHelen

Megan I thought you were saying roll of the dice_ as an expression not an actual dice.

Initially it was an expression, but then I started using a real dice.

Vanessa Already decided how many?

Ideally, no breaks at all. But it's not possible and I must be reasonable.

Vanessa Do you think it would make her focus more on the studies instead of the upcoming break?

Yes, as Megan said. She shouldn't be obsessed.

Angelina

Vanessa In France,we use "tirer les vers du nez"("pull the worms out of the nose",in english,I guess)!😉

😂

Vanessa Not truly the case.Many have(unanswered)questions after some of your posts.And sometimes you contradict some other of your posts,or are unclear.

I agree, that's why I say from the beginning that I would like the daughter to write here too, she might be a little clearer.

HHelen Yes, as Megan said. She shouldn't be obsessed.

But then she should also have more frequent breaks, if she is to be completely chaste, it will ensure that she can concentrate less on her studies because she gets too little relief.

Jen

Vanessa pull the worms out of the nose

That's so weird I had to Google it - in 15th century there was a nose worms disease which people were ashamed to tell their doctor so he had to get the information out of them.

Vanessa

HHelen Initially it was an expression, but then I started using a real dice.

How did you do,before?

HHelen But it's not possible and I must be reasonable.

Sure!

HHelen She shouldn't be obsessed.

I think she would think less about it,if able to relieve her urges when needed...

And several wearers here have already written(me included)that they think more about sex while wearing a chastity belt.

Angelina I would like the daughter to write here too, she might be a little clearer.

I think so,too.

Angelina But then she should also have more frequent breaks, if she is to be completely chaste, it will ensure that she can concentrate less on her studies because she gets too little relief.

Sure.

Angelina

Jen

even though i would of course tell my doctor, i can understand that people were ashemed 🤣

Angelina

Vanessa I think she would think less about it,if able to relieve her urges when needed...

And several wearers here have already written(me included)that they think more about sex while wearing a chastity belt.

right, when it comes to performance at university it can also be counterproductive, but i myself have not noticed any particular changes in my school performance (neither positive nor negative).

HHelen

Vanessa How did you do,before?

Just random.

Vanessa they think more about sex while wearing a chastity belt.

I disagree.

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