How to deal with the sexual frustration wearing chastity belt?

mcdull

Frankly speaking, I am a person easily getting sexually aroused. And when I get aroused but not released, my sleeping condition deteriorates (sleep deprivation) and mental health gets worst. So my question is how do people here deal with the awful frustration while staying in chase? And how long does it take for such situation to past and get really good sleep? I look forward to all hearing all you answers. Thank you!

P.S. I really like the atmosphere of this forum. Other forum use chastity as a a way of fetish, but not building a better self.

Angelina

mcdull

welcome to the forum, as the others have said we would appreciate a little introduction 🙂

to your question, it's hard. when we are in bed it's very hard, but it's no use if you wear a belt you can't do anything about it, every fight actually makes it worse (even though i admit i still fight at night even though i know it's actually pointless). i often do it this way, that i get up briefly, have a drink and/or try to concentrate on other things, only when the arousal decreases again i can go back to sleep

Ines It is the best question here in a long time.

that's right, a great relief after the strange questions of the last days 🙂

Vanessa

mcdull

As other people said,you should try to relax,concentrate on other things and not try to stimulate yourself before going to sleep,even if I know it can be hard.

Ines

As you know,I still think it is good to have some breaks!😉

But I think so,it is easier for you,as you don't know how it feels to get an orgasm,it probably helps you to manage the belt more easily.

Angelina even though i admit i still fight at night even though i know it's actually pointless

I do the same!😉

mcdull Porn, Orgasm, Masturbation

Porn is not necessary.

Max9

Hey and welcome, please intruduce ypurself i the inteoduction thread.

Well, you can watch TV series like "MAS*H" or "Ein Käfig voller Helden", if you're a man and tend to be rather bi you can stimulate the prostate (very healthy to prevent prostate cancer as it is said), or you can take a walk ... pr just get unlocked.

Ines

Max9 Hey and welcome, please intruduce ypurself i the inteoduction thread.

Yes. I never answer people that do not introduce themselves, but, I had written all when I realized of this 😅.
So, introduce yourself, please.

It is the best question here in a long time.
I think that the problems arise when you know that there is a way out called release.
In my case, obviously I have "arousing" sometimes, but the protection of the belt and thigh bands avoid I can achieve any little stimulation, so, urges always go down with the time.
It is true, that in my particular case, I have not experimented ever an orgasm, so probably my feelings are smaller than other girls here.
So, I think that thigh bands are key to avoid urges go out: simply, any stimulation is avoided and finally urges go out of the head. Even with a well fitted belt is impossible to get an orgasm, it is true that you can get a bit of little and forced stimulation and the urges grow up.

mcdull

Max9 Hi! From my opinion I don’t think stimulate the prostate is a not good thing. Since such act itself is quite addictive and is exactly the same to the fetish act (you know what I am talking about). And such act degrade you yourself and not focusing on idea of being pure. I also think this kinda make yourself to be a ‘gay’ person, since no straight male would permit to be penetrate from the back. Anyway, thank you for your reply.

Foxies

Ines So, I think that thigh bands are key to avoid urges go out: simply, any stimulation is avoided and finally urges go out of the head.

Thankfully, my situation is different from Ines and Angelina. However, the urges have always been a nuisance and any attempts at stimulation always make it worse. Thigh bands have been a big help in this regard and while they don't suppress the urges (unfortunately), they make attempts at stimulation far more difficult and thus it is easier not to even bother trying. Not trying makes the urges fade more quickly.

mcdull

Ines Hello! Thank you for your reply! Simply search the word ‘thigh band’ unfortunately aroused me. Anyway, what is the use of it? And how it can keep out ‘simulations’? Also will be difficult to walk when wearing that? And by wearing that and the belt how can you attending swimming lesson?

Btw when I read your bio, you are in Spain. So from my understanding Spain is quite open towards sexual relationship, how do you deal with that in school? And finally, you haven’t had any PMO is your entire life? If so how can you do that. Sorry with so many questions I ask. Hope to hear from you soon!

mcdull

Angelina Thank you! That’s exactly what I am doing. But it is still hard though. I just wake up because of those sexual thoughts and to be frank my bottom part is not feeling well at all. Hope this kind of awful times goes away soon!

mcdull

Foxies Foxies Thank you for your reply. Btw how do you wear it when you are at school? And wearing a jean is impossible when wearing thigh band as well? Thank you.

Max9

mcdull Like I said: if you are bi(sexual)

gwen

mcdull I also think this kinda make yourself to be a ‘gay’ person

Is being a gay person a bad thing? 😮

Ines

mcdull And how it can keep out ‘simulations’?

Simply they avoid you can use anything to slide behind the belt or even touch zones near most sensitive flesh.

mcdull Also will be difficult to walk when wearing that?

You should use shorter steps, but using a chain, in my case 6 centimeters it is all that a girl need in general.

mcdull So from my understanding Spain is quite open towards sexual relationship, how do you deal with that in school?

I am in University. And saddely Spain is so much open towards sexual relationships.

mcdull And by wearing that and the belt how can you attending swimming lesson?
I do a lot of sports at semi-profesional level, and you can not use the belt or bands. You can do a bit of sports with belt, a tennis game in the yard, but for being competitive, you can not wear it.

mcdull And finally, you haven’t had any PMO is your entire life? If so how can you do that

PMO???

Foxies

mcdull

Smiles. I am a little past school age so it is not an problem. (I am actually retired 🤣 ).

You are correct in that wearing thigh bands prohibits wearing of trousers or jeans. This isn't really an issue for me since my partner prefers that I only wear skirts or dresses anyway.
In answer to your other questions to Ines, I can say that on occasions where I swim (rare these days) my partner will temporarily remove the thigh bands.
When walking, my stride is a little shortened when using the connecting chain but they do not really prevent me from walking or even negotiating stairs. At night my partner will padlock my thigh bands together which makes walking more challenging and stairs become difficult in the extreme.

mcdull

Foxies Can I ask what is the purpose of thigh band except this makes walks in smaller steps? And how does it make you more effective in preventing masturbation comparing with only the belt on? Lastly, is the thigh band making you more feminine? Thank you.

P.S. It is good to talk to people from different age groups!

Foxies

mcdull Can I ask what is the purpose of thigh band except this makes walks in smaller steps? And how does it make you more effective in preventing masturbation comparing with only the belt on? Lastly, is the thigh band making you more feminine? Thank you.

The purpose of thigh bands is to prevent me spreading my thighs wide in an effort to allow some space between the shield of the chastity belt and my skin. Such space can permit finger insertion to provide some limited stimulation. It is uncomfortable and distracting to do and is insufficient to allow me to approach climax. Thigh bands with the connecting chain (or padlock) make this impossible and so the cycle of frustration is much shorter and less of a problem. So in answer t your question, yes, they make attempts at masturbation harder though even without them, my belt makes it impossible for me masturbate to completion.

The connecting chain alone is sufficient to prevent this while minimizing my normal stride very little. The padlock is more limiting but my partner appreciates the way I walk when it is in place and since I wear the belt for her, I am happy to do this. She only applies the padlock in the evening and it is removed first thing in the morning.

I personally do not believe the thigh bands add to my femininity. I believe I am 100% feminine in the first place 🤣

Laura

mcdull P.S. It is good to talk to people from different age groups!

Yes, a chastity belt is suitable for any age

mcdull

Ines PMO???

Porn, Orgasm, Masturbation

can I ask one more question, you haven’t PMO in your entire life?

Ines

mcdull can I ask one more question, you haven’t PMO in your entire life?

I think every person has watched some porn in some moments... Typical "surprise" message in wassup of a friend... Some video that friends are watching for laughing... But in purpose no, I have not watched porn in purpose never.
No masturbation and no orgasms. And I am proud of it.

Max9

gwen Well, that not, but doing sexual activities excludes being pure

Vanessa

gwen

Not at all.