Buff, for me is not the same. For me is going against the property nature of men.
I think boys have in nature be protective, and in ours be protected, obviously all women are not equal, but I think It Is quite general, even in people that denegate it.
Chatting in class, there was a popular póster of Spanish Police, in which appeared a very attractive policeman, it was called "policía brazacos" in popular media (Sort of "Strongarms Agent"), well all of us joked about be handcuffed or arrested 😆, I am sure that it was viceverse, boys were joking about steal the handcuffs to the police woman.
I thing that a boy, (of course there are exceptions), must suffered so much, phisically and psicologically, he is impotent to develope the male that he is, and we are not in same position.
I do not like much talk about some girls experiences that I could read here, and I feel sorry in similar way about girls in enforced belting. It is a sort of torture, those histories make me feel anguish.
Sorry for the long post.
If you Google "policia brazacos" you can enjoy him 😈😜