Milord To be belted in a loving relationship where you can get out when you want is the same as being unbelted
What the actual blazes????
Is getting a spanking that you have the ability to stop if you need to the same as not getting a spanking?
Is a collar that you can take off the same as not wearing a collar?
Is being a submissive when you have the ability to stop the dynamic the same as not being a submissive?
Just because we can stop if we need to doesn't make it meaningless!