Thighbands

Alena-CB

Elsa Depend not only on chain lenght, but on bands position too

Elsa

Alena-CB Yes, that's right, simple math in this case

I'm getting along with the bands slowly and better.

At the weekend I'm supposed to keep them on at night for the first time.

Angelina

Elsa More like the need to stretch in the morning. The need to be able to spread your legs just like that, that's what I mean.

yeah, well, as long as you're still wearing the bands, you can forget that, at least if it's going in a different direction than just forward 😂

Elsa With linked to the belt, is that the system where you have to close your legs when you want to sit down?
The chain pulls the tigh-bands together as it goes backwards when you sit down?

yes that's exactly how it works, i've had it for a while and still do now when i'm punished. it's not that uncomfortable when walking, but when you sit down you notice it immediately

Elsa

Angelina yeah, well, as long as you're still wearing the bands, you can forget that, at least if it's going in a different direction than just forward 😂

Yes forward is no problem 😃 I'm slowly coming to terms with the other directions 🙂

Angelina yes that's exactly how it works,

OK! Unlike with the block-piece, that would probably be possible for me.

Ines

Elsa OK! Unlike with the block-piece, that would probably be possible for me.

I do not understand you. Will you use a block piece?

Angelina

Elsa OK! Unlike with the block-piece, that would probably be possible for me.

Do you have a D-ring in the crotch plate?

Ines Some girls earned extra measures for that.

do you mean your cousins? there was something along those lines 🤔

Damien

In general, you're right, the chances of having an orgasm are sero even without thighbands, so at least that's how it is for me, since I hardly wear any more.
However, bands can prevent stimulation, which means increased security for the keyholder and lower fights for the wearer. I think it always depends on how they are used

Elsa

Ines Will you use a block piece?

Oh no!

Ines I do not understand you.

It's probably a translation error from me???

I mean a block-piece is not possible for me, but a triangle would be possible.

Ines

Elsa I mean a block-piece is not possible for me, but a triangle would be possible.

Ah, OK!

Has the topic been touched?

Elsa

Ines

Only that in the case of possible punishments other than the 6cm chain would also be possible.

Damien

Elsa Are you planning to do things that will lead to punishments if you're caught?

Elsa

Damien I don't plan anything, but I think there will definitely be such actions.

I can hardly imagine that there is anyone here who wouldn't even do that.

Ines

Damien

Anyway, a forum is not a good place to tell it.
Some girls earned extra measures for that.

Damien

Dear @Elsa Movement of your hand or hips in the night are normal. Your belt is well chosen and well adjusted, any concious or subconcious actions will not be fruitful.
You have made a big step, one that maybe one in a thousand girls agree to. Part of your body is now locked away from your touch in cold precision, your my-steel will be the iron guarantee of your chastity. Further punishment for straying hands is inhumane and not contributing to your goals.

Administering punishment like a block piece or short chains is sadism. This is hardware made for the bondage community and is used to humiliate persons whose explicitly stated sexual preference is to play the role of a slave within a consensual fantasy. It should not be used in a family setting, because it has little added security for your chastity, but an enormous impact on your quality of life. Please state the obvious to your relatives if necessary.

Ines

Damien It should not be used in a family setting, because it has little added security for your chastity

I tested it and improvement over a chain in thigh bands is close to 0. Very little.

Sasha

Angelina In general, you're right, the chances of having an orgasm are sero even without thighbands, so at least that's how it is for me, since I hardly wear any more.
However, bands can prevent stimulation, which means increased security for the keyholder and lower fights for the wearer. I think it always depends on how they are used

This is why I am considering them for dates. Less chances of any stimulation or cheating. I agreed the chances of orgasm without are not there, but the added security of the bands and even bra feels right for me if I’ll be dating

Elsa

Angelina Do you have a D-ring in the crotch plate?

Yes i have! That was the reason why I said the triangle would be possible for me.
I have 3 D things.

The block-piece would not be possible because there are no 4 D rings.

Angelina

Sasha

Generally speaking, if it feels right then do it. i just want to say again that bands and the bra are not cheap either, maybe you should talk to your parents about it

Laura

Sasha but the added security of the bands and even bra feels right for me if I’ll be dating

Who will decide if you need these accessories for a date? Or you are going to lock yourself?

Sasha

Angelina Yes we have discussed this at great length because as you mentioned, it’s an investment. But we both feel from my perspective on the matter that it’s the right thing for me.
Of course the chain length will be moderate, not to restrict so much as prevent access and possible cheating
Always appreciate input, more perspectives is always a good thing

Angelina

Sasha

so the decision for thighbands has already been made? have thighbands been ordered and also a bra? somehow i hope you will have many dates, it would be nice for you and the investment would be worth it, on the other hand it is of course quite restrictive which you would have to explain to your partner first. i hope it makes you happy 🙂

Sasha

Laura It’s likely going to become part of my rules for a date in general. Where we are at now is, accessories are worn while on the date and come off when I return home.
Simple enough and satisfy my desire for the extra security. But we are still discussing this, it’s not something we are taking lightly and trying to balance least amount of restriction with what I want them to provide for me.
Obviously getting the balance right will take some experimenting but we are both ok with making the effort. And the rules will be open to further discussion in the future once I get an idea how I feel and think I need.

Laura

Sasha and come off when I return home.

You are not supposed to have the keys from them. Or how would it work?

Elsa

Maija I have worn the bands almost 24/7 for multiple years now,

😮 this is hard!

Maija and still have some occasional problems

May I ask what the problems are after such a long time?

Bryan but even with regular single d-rings on your thighbands the block-piece would still be quite constricting

I'm not a designer, somehow it's hard for me to imagine right now, but if you think so. I've read here several times about just one padlock, I can imagine what it looks like and it's really bad.

Sasha Where we are at now is, accessories are worn while on the date and come off when I return home.

Exactly the opposite of most of what I've read here. most girls wear accessories at home.

I now had my first overnight with the bands. It was something like the first night with the belt. woke up several times and the leg position is also unusual.
I still have the bands on, later I want to go away, then they come off 🙂

Sasha

Laura You are not supposed to have the keys from them. Or how would it work?

As with my belt, mom would hold them for me. So there’s a slight possibility I may wear them a bit longer if say she was also out but I can live with that.
I agree with you that holding those keys myself would defeat their purpose. Admittedly I’m a bit unsure of things with dating again, so this seems like a good system for me to freely explore this without the fear of cheating in my mind.

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