Thighbands

Laura

Sasha but the added security of the bands and even bra feels right for me if I’ll be dating

Who will decide if you need these accessories for a date? Or you are going to lock yourself?

Sasha

Laura It’s likely going to become part of my rules for a date in general. Where we are at now is, accessories are worn while on the date and come off when I return home.
Simple enough and satisfy my desire for the extra security. But we are still discussing this, it’s not something we are taking lightly and trying to balance least amount of restriction with what I want them to provide for me.
Obviously getting the balance right will take some experimenting but we are both ok with making the effort. And the rules will be open to further discussion in the future once I get an idea how I feel and think I need.

Laura

Sasha and come off when I return home.

You are not supposed to have the keys from them. Or how would it work?

Elsa

Maija I have worn the bands almost 24/7 for multiple years now,

😮 this is hard!

Maija and still have some occasional problems

May I ask what the problems are after such a long time?

Bryan but even with regular single d-rings on your thighbands the block-piece would still be quite constricting

I'm not a designer, somehow it's hard for me to imagine right now, but if you think so. I've read here several times about just one padlock, I can imagine what it looks like and it's really bad.

Sasha Where we are at now is, accessories are worn while on the date and come off when I return home.

Exactly the opposite of most of what I've read here. most girls wear accessories at home.

I now had my first overnight with the bands. It was something like the first night with the belt. woke up several times and the leg position is also unusual.
I still have the bands on, later I want to go away, then they come off 🙂

Sasha

Laura You are not supposed to have the keys from them. Or how would it work?

As with my belt, mom would hold them for me. So there’s a slight possibility I may wear them a bit longer if say she was also out but I can live with that.
I agree with you that holding those keys myself would defeat their purpose. Admittedly I’m a bit unsure of things with dating again, so this seems like a good system for me to freely explore this without the fear of cheating in my mind.

Angelina

Sasha

so the decision for thighbands has already been made? have thighbands been ordered and also a bra? somehow i hope you will have many dates, it would be nice for you and the investment would be worth it, on the other hand it is of course quite restrictive which you would have to explain to your partner first. i hope it makes you happy 🙂

Sasha

Angelina Not ordered just yet, but likely will be. But we’ll see won’t we

Sasha

Angelina We placed the band and bra order last night, so we figure 3-4 weeks till we have them. Yes I hope I get to go on many exciting dates with them too lol.
So soon I’ll get to try and date again

Angelina

Sasha Not ordered just yet, but likely will be. But we’ll see won’t we

right, please keep us up to date on how things are going for you with bands and bra. 🙂

Elsa Yes i have! That was the reason why I said the triangle would be possible for me.
I have 3 D things.

if you have 3 D-rings, then they will certainly all be used soon. the variant of making the chain between 2 rings is certainly the most "pleasant" for the start. how did your sister wear the bands?

Elsa I now had my first overnight with the bands. It was something like the first night with the belt. woke up several times and the leg position is also unusual.

a big step, i hope you had enough pillows in the bed? 🙂

Elsa

Angelina Do you have a D-ring in the crotch plate?

Yes i have! That was the reason why I said the triangle would be possible for me.
I have 3 D things.

The block-piece would not be possible because there are no 4 D rings.

Bryan

Elsa I don't think you need 4 d-rings for the block-piece to work. Two on each band certainly make it more constricting, but even with regular single d-rings on your thighbands the block-piece would still be quite constricting

Ines

Bryan Two on each band certainly make it more constricting, but even with regular single d-rings on your thighbands the block-piece would still be quite constricting

Yes. I can talk with own, however few, experiences.

Maija

Elsa I just need a little bit to get used to all the restrictions.

It's unfortunately a thing that you never get completely used to. I have worn the bands almost 24/7 for multiple years now, and still have some occasional problems

Damien

Maija wearing thighbands for years does not seem to be an acceptable situation to me. Is there a way we can support you to get out of this? If it is about chastity, can you not just buy a better fitting, safer belt, for example?

Maija

Damien it's about other things as well. The bands provide multiple benefits.

Damien

Maija As a keyholder I can think of several appetizing thigh band benefits, but those would be within a consensual D/s relationship and not with my parents. So probably my thoughts go in the wrong direction here; would you kindly explain what are some of the multiple benefits of thighbands for you as a wearer?

Alena-CB

Elsa congratulation to 1st longer period with bands

Sasha

Angelina Of course. We have the rules set and are going to revisit them in a day or so to make sure we agree before placing the order. We agreed that I will get used to them at home, few hours a night with about 8cm length between them to start with.
I know they will affect my stride, walking speed, and climbing stairs, but wish me luck in this.

Elsa

Sasha That’s what we are discussing for training/ orientation,

I'm still a beginner when it comes to tight bands! However, I can now confirm what Ines has already told me !before!

A chain length of "only" 6cm still allows for everything you have to do.

I also found the restriction to be massive for the first few hours, but after a while it's just a habit to be so restricted. Or rather, it's more of a normal way of dealing with it than being too restricted.

Angelina a big step, i hope you had enough pillows in the bed? 🙂

You can hardly see the bed because of so many pillows 😃

Angelina if you have 3 D-rings, then they will certainly all be used soon.

There was a little foretaste of this yesterday!

yesterday we had a cheat day (I call it that at least). Just raining outside, lying lazily on the bed, watching TV and just doing nothing.

I was home alone with my mum! By the way, she has to wear the bands at home now too.
While we were watching TV, I asked her why the third D ring.
Then she told me about the triangle!

She then also said that this day would actually be good for going through all the other possibilities of the bands and adapting them.

I now know that I also have a 4cm chain. This is already very restrictive compared to the 6cm chain. Significantly smaller steps and stairs I have to go sideways with it.

Then the triangle, with stairs it's easy to notice. But when you sit down! Since the legs are pulled together directly! Sitting down with it takes a bit of practice, but it works.

At the end only the padlock was tried. The padlock alone is really bad, only the smallest steps are possible.

I had the padlock on for 30 minutes, the 4cm chain and the triangle for an hour each.

Mom said, that was just to show me things. It would be up to me whether things would come into use or not!

Ines

Sasha

With an adequate length you will not have troubles.
If you have problems after your training, then the length is not acceptable.
However 8 cm is huge, I guess it is for start the usage.

Angelina

Sasha I know they will affect my stride, walking speed, and climbing stairs, but wish me luck in this.

I wish you that in any case 🙂

Ines However 8 cm is huge, I guess it is for start the usage.

don't forget that unlike many here, @Sasha will be using the bands mostly on dates (outdoors), so I think a little more chain length is certainly in order.

Elsa I now know that I also have a 4cm chain. This is already very restrictive compared to the 6cm chain. Significantly smaller steps and stairs I have to go sideways with it.

i think then 4cm is too little or the bands are too low. with a chain it should always be possible to go forward up stairs ((even if it is not easy and very slow).

Sasha

Ines That’s what we are discussing for training/ orientation, if we feel a bit more restriction is needed the length will be shortened. It’s all still open to discussion as we see how my needs are being met.

Joh

Sasha

If you use chains it can make unpleasant noise when you walk or move your legs.
There are stainless steel ropes with loops at both ends as well as those with plastic coating. That would be an alternative. And if you cover the lock with heat shrink tubing or fabric tape, it can hardly make any noise when it hits the straps.

Elsa Are your bands position in the middle of your thighs or upper or lower?
Can you measure how high the stairs are?So we an compare with our usual stairs hight.

Ines

Obviously it will depend on the feeling of every girl, but in my opinion we can not talk of restrictions with those lengths and most important overall time of usage.

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