sarafulton To be clear, I don't think you are being evasive or dishonest. I was just pointing out why some might get that impression from the way you have been responding.
Remember that a lot of users here don't speak English as their first language and often use automatic translation tools to help them read and write here so it is important to be direct and clear to ensure we can all understand each other.
Here are some suggestions for dealing with this, feel free to take them or leave them as you see fit:
If you just want to hear about others' experiences, several people have chronicled them on this very thread for the last 4 years. It's a lot of reading but also exactly what it sounds like you are looking for. I have only read a fraction of it myself but it has been very informative.
If you have questions for the users, I suggest trying to be more specific with the info you are looking for, be that specific questions or a broad overview of a topic.