Why me?

Max

Okay. Will sound like a lot of mimimimimi (any translation for this, or is it understandable?).

My parents make me wear chastity belt for 3 years now and I am no longer consent to this!
I do not see any reason, I hate my cage and cannot wait turning 18! I need to get our and off!

Chastity is a rather unnatural thing. In other cultures people are married aged 14 and earlier. No ideas of „no sex till marriage“.

how do other boys deal with their natural urges? I read some posts here and most of them seem to wear chastity gear unwillingly but obeying.

where arenthe rebels, the mavericks?

Laura

Max My parents make me wear chastity belt
Max I hate my cage

Belt or cage?

Angelina

Max how do other boys deal with their natural urges? I read some posts here and most of them seem to wear chastity gear unwillingly but obeying.

where arenthe rebels, the mavericks?

i am not a boy and as much as i can understand your situation, i don't like the fact that you only want to include boys.

to the actual topic: difficult, you write "where are the rebels", but detach yourself from your parents force. if you want to rebel, then take the first step, for that you have my respect 😉

hornyaspie2

Max
Report them to Police and screw all that crap that you should not report Parents!
From what country you're and why they put it on you?

Nate

Important to say in the beginning: It was already mentioned many times on this forum, but parents forcing their children to wear a chastity cage would be lawfully considered abuse. I see from your profile that you're located in Germany; I'm no expert on German law, but it should be way similar to what we have here in the Czech republic.

Secondly, what do you mean by "no longer consent"? By this, I imagine that you were completely fine and agreed to wear the cage, but now you have changed your mind. Why did you reconsider? (Or is this just a communication mistake ...?)

Now, to finally answer your questions: I'm locked since I was 15, reluctantly, in the beginning, to be honest. I tried to remove the cage myself a few times (yeah, it's hard, but still possible), but I was always caught and punished for it. During the first months without release, you'll learn fast to put up with the urges and that you can't really do anything in your boxer briefs. My advice, which I told my brother Jake numerous times: "Everytime you're horny, workout"; for me, it helps.

Max

Nate i was consent and completely fine with wearing a chastity belt at the age of 14. yes. So I really do not know anymore why I shut down my brain theses days. But now I rebooted and thinking about ways to get out.
a side effect of this way of life is that I get a lot financial support from my parents. But must live their rules. Their house - their rules.
Btw i am doing a lot of workout.

I am not locked and bound. I can leave, if I want! But the pricing for a hard exit would be more than I am willingly to pay right now.

Joh

Max
You can find the information which law applies in Germany here
From my point of view your situation counts as abused children have a look at https://nina-info.de/ for further help. As far as I know they offer an anonymous hotline.

youdontknowme

Nate already brought up the abuse aspect. Age and relationship aside, consent in sexual matters (and regulating the ability to get sexual relief is one, even if it is not a sexual act) can always be revoked under any form of right to sexual self-determination. The fact that your ability to consent was compromised in the first place by your age and status as a dependent just adds to that.

I want to add that as a dependent, your parents have a duty to provide for your well-being, and they cannot legally cut you off if you refuse chastity. That said, insisting on your rights might be a bit of a struggle unless you find good support for it - still worth knowing your rights in a negotiation with your parents though, so read up on family law.

As for your situation, you have not told us much about yourself yet. These questions may be a bit inappropriately invasive, particularly considering your age, so do not feel guilty for not answering questions that make you uncomfortable:

Was there a specific reason for the locking, or just an immediate response to your ... development?
Do you get relief breaks, or at least have wet dreams? It is unhealthy to not ejaculate for several months, let alone years.
Does anyone other than your parents know about your locked state? You might be able to confide your unhappiness about your arrangement in them.
What device and lock are you subject to - you might be able to "sneak out", so to say, but it requires a lot of privacy to not get caught immediately.

Ines

Only response that you can obtain is the next:
your parents have to open the belt. If you do not want wear it, ask for help to authority. If you need help, you only need ask for it.

Ines

Joh
Thanks.

Joh

Ines Thanks.

You are welcome.

Max

Laura cage, sry.

Laura

Max Then break it. It's easier than a belt

Max9

Laura when problem about breaking a cage is that you very likely will injure your genitals what will hurt a lot... it only works when you have a cage witha padlock, then you can cut the padlock... judt like you can cut the padlock of a belt. Cages with inserted locks can't be cut open.

youdontknowme

Max9 Those inserted locks are usually fairly soft brass, so you are likely able to drill them open without risking too much injury. That said, power tools near your genitals are always something you need to be very careful about, even if you can align the drill with the lock fairly well.

As for breaking the cage itself, a plastic cage should be breakable with fairly minimal risk of injury by pulling the cage up and holding the ring down. Might take a lot of effort, though, and some superficial scratches are still possible. And as for metal cages, most are designed so compact that, if they have an integrated locking cylinder, you can put your hands on the tail piece, in which case unlocking them without the key gets so easy, you cannot even really call it lockpicking anymore.

Angelina

Max9

i would think it would work with a strong pair of pliers. in an emergency just go to the doctor, there are always ways to remove the cage.

Max9

youdontknowme As for breaking the cage itself, a plastic cage should be breakable with fairly minimal risk

Well, that depends on the quality of the plastic of course. Still, I wouldn't risk doing that.
Sure, you can drill the inserted lock open, but it's difficlult to hold the cage while drilling ... too dangerous.

Max9

Angelina the thing is that the penis is usually very sensitive ... when the plastic breaks it will hurt because it's pressed into the skin and when your penis discovers the freedom and wants to grow it will put even more pressure on the sharp edge. You also need to break the ring, because if you only break the tube and your penis grows then your testicles won't be supplied with enough blood anymore what is extremely painful and dangerous. You also need to break the ring (you actually only need to break the ring to take the tube off), but that is being held up by the ball sacks and there the skin is even more sensitive ... breaking sharp plastic there that will ding in them ... have you ever laid down on a bed of nails with your tits on the nail side? That's how it will probably feel if it goes wrong... what is pretty likely.

Angelina

Max9 have you ever laid down on a bed of nails with your tits on the nail side?

with my chastity bra this should not be a problem 🤣

no seriously: if it is not possible to free yourself with simple methods and harmless tools, you should contact a doctor. yes it is very embarrassing, but demolished genetals are worse

youdontknowme

Max9 Unless your ring is harmfully tight, getting the bottom of the cage out of the way should allow the testicles to slip through one by one after the penis is threaded out the back, which is also easy enough with the cage out of the way. That is how you put on and take off solid rings in the first place.

There might be a few edges around the lock mount after the cage is broken, but the penis does not stay in contact with them long enough to matter, because the first thing you do after you have cleared the way is to take the rest off. And most of these edges would have the sharpness of lego bricks, not nails.

Vanessa

Angelina with my chastity bra this should not be a problem 🤣

🤣

Max9

youdontknowme There might be a few edges around the lock mount after the cage is broken

depending on how it breaks. It might have a break among the line where both sides of the cage are set together (weak spot) ... the the whole length of the tube will have a sharp edge). And if the ring breaks but you still can't remove the tube you will definitely have a problem.