I’m not going to vote on this one, at least not yet. I’m just putting the topic out there for discussion.
“Transvestite” is, I suppose, a somewhat out-of-date and pejorative term. The male who wears traditionally female attire would probably be described as “non-binary” in today’s lingo.
I should like to add that transvestites don’t seem to get a lot of love from the LGBTQ+ people. Apparently if you’re traveling to the other side merelyas a tourist, with no desire to emigrate, you’re not deemed worthy of inclusion in their tribe.
Back in the late nineties on Altairboy’s website, we had a document called “Reasons why people wear chastity belts”. The document was a collaborative effort, and some parts were contributed by yours truly. One of the reasons, which I believe was my own contribution, was “to get in touch with one’s feminine side.” To that I would like to add, “I wear my belt in solidarity with the historic oppression of women.”