Jenna Thank you Angelina for your input. I have seen your posts on other topics and appreciate your input.
with pleasure, i would say that the most important thing is that you come to an amicable solution. an open discussion is certainly the best measure, we can also talk about everything else here later.
Jenna The older one will be 18 soon so we can discuss on a more adult level.
I don't really want to say anything about it, but somehow I doubt that the younger one doesn't masturbate. 15 is already in the middle of puberty
Avery Jenna, I suggest you keep in mind that Angelina is only 18 and as such you probably should not trust her judgement in these matters any more than you trust your elder daughter's.
i ask you if you have a problem with my opinion to write to me personally and not to discredit my opinion as a response to other users' posts
Jenna Fair point, but I would like some suggestions on how to proceed. I am sure she can help with both my approach and what are surely going to be some difficult times ahead.
I will try to help you, but of course I will not tolerate everything.
Joh Get your own belt and wear it several weeks or month and than think about again if you still like to suggest it to your nieces.
i agree, i think that would be the best solution and after a few weeks we can discuss again
Avery Understandably she needs to rationalize that her situation is OK therefore she is going to be much more lenient with you than everybody else here.
sorry but this is nonsense, i have only made the experience that hitting someone with a hammer does not help anyone.
PS: I will not be censored by you.
Laura Clothing sizes are not enough. You must measure few things when the girls are naked
zhat's right, that also surprises me
Jenna I agree it is unfair, but for my oldest niece, the one caught masturbating, it is a must. She was clear about the rules of living with me and she broke them. The important thing now is to get her into a belt so she, and I can restore our relationship and I can be confident that this won't happen again.
at this point i disagree with you, a belt is not a solution to restore a relationship, it would only work if your niece also thinks it was wrong, otherwise the tensions only mount. if you want to restore the relationship you should talk to her and tell her why you don't want that, that's the only way you can convince her