what if you suddently get access to your keys

strictfather

A day you are alone at home; you find the belt key lost by your parents on the floor (and you already know they will look for it as soon they return at home), what would you do? Open the belt for a while? Don't open the CB and leave the key untouched? in this last case: because you agree your parent chastity idea or because you feel fear to be found using it? what?
If your parents return and you give them the key telling "here it is! you forgot it there!", do you think they would trust you didn't open CB? i mean: how much do you parent trust you will not use the key? This "trust" question i think is a very important point to talk about...

Laura

strictfather It changes nothing if you are able to open your belt one time.
In my case I would let parents know about it and that's all.

Ines

If the holder lose the key, in my opinion It is very in respectful for the girl. The main responsibility of she of he is the girl, and firstly she has to maintain the key out of even our thinking. The belt always will be closed, and we can not do anything about this. If you put the key to the reach of the girl, you are neglecting.
Security feeling dissapear and that feeling is substituted for the idea of scape, Why? Because it is in our nature, which makes more necessary our belt. For that I dislike idea of have a key in my belt or in a box with a plastic lock. The girl wear the belt, the parents the key. For me is easy
Second I think I would not use, because I should not, and even I know that it would not suppose any punishment for me, my parents would be dissatisfied with me, and for sure they would think that all things that I said them were false. Even if I would take that key my guilty feeling will avoid me any satisfaction.
I dislike in think about this, but I recognize, @strictfather , that this is a good post
(dishwasher was not 😂).

strictfather

Ines (dishwasher was not

eeekkkkk again the dishwasher 😮 😂 . allright... i understand my nickname will be "strictfather the dishwasher" 😛

Ines Second I think I would not use, because I should not, and even it would no suppose any punishment for me, my parents would be dissatisfied with me

Also if they would never know you used it? infact the question is: if you give them back the key , are you sure they will not think "ah! she used it!"? sure? the doubt is a woodworm that digs. temptation generates woodworm ...

Ines

strictfather
I would be disappointed with myself.
And I am sure my parents trust me if I would back them the key.
But if a holder lose a key, I will lost my trust in her. For sure I will not allow her/him being my holder for more time.
I can do a lot of sacrifices as a girl I am, but I have right to feel me totally safe and caressed in change of my sacrifice.
And my parents know it.

BikelockFugitive

Fear. It's always fear. Not necessarly fear of punishment, but ruining the relationship.
I mean it's not like they cannot escape. There are always alternatives.
I know they weird.

reactionary69

BikelockFugitive Or alternatively traditional Western moral norms are utterly alien to you.

BikelockFugitive

reactionary69 Moral and norms are both alien to me.
Although I don't understand your answer in this context.
Please elaborate.

reactionary69

BikelockFugitive Well traditional values like staying chaste till wedlock.

reactionary69

BikelockFugitive Moral and norms are both alien to me.

So you are a lefty then?
😈

Ines

reactionary69
OMG First NeoconPanzerBatallion is charging!!!! 😂

Just joking! :😉

BikelockFugitive

reactionary69 Depends on what you are. For most leftys I am right. And for the most rightys I am left.
I just don't think that it is necessary to stick to every rule, even and especially Murder. Is its own topic tho. We can continue elsewhere.

I wouldn't have called it "traditional western Morals" rather something like "Abrahamic" since this is common in all
Abrahamic religions.

reactionary69

Ines NeoCons have never seen a war they do not like. They are war mongers.

One only goes to war if there is no other choice.

The common man is usually the loser in a war, not the generals.

Ines

reactionary69
I was only joking! I am Spanish!! Northern, Yes, but Spanish.
😂

Ines

reactionary69 One only goes to war if there is no other choice

Better a bad agreement than a good war. Napoleon

Renita

@strictfather Are you interested in what your daughter will do? Just don’t leave the key anywhere

catherine98

If I would get access to the key?
Quite easy to answer for me, because I thought about this a hundred times!

Case 1: Short, but unobserved access to the key:
I would just open the main lock and put the key back to where I found it. Then I would probably look for some privacy, take the belt off and take on long and covering clothes. I would take it back on in the evening, before my mom could recognize it. In the meantime, I would enjoy to take the opportunity to go out of the house FREE. I didn't do that since almost 3 years (except 3-4 doctor visits while closely accompanied by my mom)! And I would make sure to not get back into my belt unrelieved 😉.
Possibly, I would even try to find a replacement lock of the same type and use this until my frequent unlocking day. That would be even better! Depending of the point of time, this could mean to be able to let me out by myself for up to 2 weeks!

Case 2: Assured unobserved access to the key for at least a couple of hours:
I would go to a shop and make a copy of the key. This would allow me free access to my belt until my mom replaces the lock, which happens sporadic every few weeks to some months! Clearly my favorite case!
However, possibly it would be very hard for me, when I suddenly see my mom putting a new lock in place after some weeks or month of occasional personal freedom!

Angelina

catherine98

you have good ideas and if i am honest, i would do exactly the same, so i don't have an emergency key (because of imitating the key)

if there was this way, you may use it, but remember that if you get caught, your family will be destroyed.

with what you told me here and on misterpoll, it's probably still extremely difficult for you to wear your belt although it's been almost 3 years. i've had mine for 9 months and i'm getting more and more used to it, do you still have such feelings of hatred as on the first day ?

Laura

catherine98 which happens sporadic every few weeks to some months

She does? What's a reason for it?

Laura

Ines In general I am happy of being belted

Probably I'm the second, since I had bunch of chances for catherine98 Case 1 and Case 2, but never thought to use it.

Jen

catherine98 I vote this one, case 1. The getting out and just having some freedom - I hope you've had that since this was written. Sounds like you need it.

catherine98

Angelina do you still have such feelings of hatred as on the first day ?

Sure, happens from time to time. I guess similar to many others, here.

Laura She does? What's a reason for it?

Yes, she does. Possibly to complicate what I described above. She wore a cb for a long time, too, so she knows, what comes to a belt-wearing girl's mind when being frustrated.