curious Or did you actually not like it but accepteded the authority of the keyholder (probably parent?) over you and then limited resistance to complaining and arguing but eventually accepted to be belted when that did not change their mind?
i think that's more true, i wear the belt because the consequences would be bad if i didn't, yet i would call it involuntary because i wasn't asked and i'm not convinced of chastity as a lifestyle for me either
curious Has your perspective changed over time and if so, how?
I can accept it a little better now 🙂
i think the list is good, it shows that there is no black or white thinking, there are different gradations between voluntary and involuntary, i just prefer the simple separation to not make it too complicated 🙂