Angelina
I agree,some rules are harder to obey than other ones,and it depends on every people(like staying calm when arguing for me,yes).
But,if I know I should stop disobeying one or I would be in serious trouble(like a maintenance spanking,which happened a few times for me,but only for a decided duration,not like @Sara2001),I often manage to obey more the rule during the month following my last punishment for it,to avoid it would be considered as a "repeated offense".