Single again chastity

Vanessa

Not a good incentive,if you're financially independant at this time,possible to avoid it! 😉

Angelina

it will be hard, i will probably work with my father later, so he can put me under pressure. i could also work somewhere else, but probably i would earn much less somewhere else 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

My parents may not think the same.Especially as we never suggested to get married before being financially independent(even if we've considered it with Emilie).But,for now,it is not what is planned.

HHelen No rush with it, anyway.

Better to do it slowly than not doing it!😉

Max9

It depends on people;I've no problem with this,but she wanted to prevent it for her single daughter,so it should apply to her too(as she's single too).

Angelina

I agree with you.It was maybe a valid opinion decades ago,but now,it is better known than men and women aren't that much different about sex,masturbation,etc...

Angelina

Vanessa .Especially as we never suggested to get married before being financially independent

things can change, your parents should know that too 😉

Vanessa than men and women aren't that much different about sex,masturbation,etc...

in general yes, but I think that not all men and not all women are equal (at least on this topic)

Vanessa

Angelina

Right,if you work with him,it would be harder to avoid it...

Do you hope to work with him later,or somewhere else?

Vanessa

Angelina things can change, your parents should know that too 😉

If we want to discuss it,they would probably be open to talk about it with us,I don't think it would be a clear "No!" as soon as we would suggest it.

Angelina in general yes, but I think that not all men and not all women are equal (at least on this topic)

It depends on each people,more than on gender,I think.Even if I think men tend to masturbate more often than women.

HHelen But a girl can and supposed to abstain.

Which is not much more easier for us than it is for a man.

HHelen

Max9 well, as a boy you are definitely horny all the time and want to be free till you get used to it by time

But a girl can and supposed to abstain.

aslan_asena

HHelen But a girl can and supposed to abstain.

Do you think that occasional masturbation is okay?

Angelina

Vanessa Do you hope to work with him later,or somewhere else?

no i want to work together with my father. on the one hand it has financial advantages because i earn much more money, on the other hand i don't like to be ordered by strangers 😉

Angelina

Vanessa If we want to discuss it,they would probably be open to talk about it with us,I don't think it would be a clear "No!" as soon as we would suggest it.

well, as long as your parents can talk sensibly about it, you should at least keep this option in mind 🙂

Vanessa It depends on each people,more than on gender,I think.Even if I think men tend to masturbate more often than women.

that's what i meant, it's more a tendency that men are sexually more active, but not every man is the equal and not every woman is equal

Vanessa

Angelina

It makes sense.

Even if,in this case,yes,he could put you under pressure about chastity/abstinence belt.

Vanessa

Angelina well, as long as your parents can talk sensibly about it, you should at least keep this option in mind 🙂

Yes,it isn't our first choice,but not totally excluded.

Angelina that's what i meant, it's more a tendency that men are sexually more active, but not every man is the equal and not every woman is equal

I agree with you.

Angelina

Vanessa

yes he could put me under pressure, but I hope that will never be necessary 🙂

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,it isn't our first choice,but not totally excluded.

with thoughts of the near future i would think a lot about it 🙂

but it is your decision or your choice

Vanessa

Angelina

It seems he tends more to discuss, and not put you under pressure generally(even if there is no way to get out of the chastity devices by discussing)...

But yes,let's hope it would not be necessary!

Vanessa

Angelina

For now,it is not necessary to think too much about it.But if it seems it would be very hard and long to follow our initial plans,we would consider it more seriously.

Presently,as there is a risk the pandemic increase again soon,and as I still work from home,we managed to make my parents allow Emilie to stay at their home(after being sure her parents agree),and it is not too bad(even if we haven't the same intimacy as if we were living alone together,and more rules to follow,of course),so if we can't do as planned it would be a useful possibility.

Angelina

Vanessa

there are a few things we don't discuss (including my chastity equipment) but most of the time we decide rules after very thorough discussion

i'm curious if after my birthday in july my equipment can be renegotiated. the belt will stay 100% but i hope for small loosenings 😉

Laura

Angelina probable financial support

A very popular and probably the only reason for the topic. Failure in a relationship + shortage of money lead to chastity belt.

Angelina

Laura

yes a simple mathematical equation 😃

Vanessa

Laura Failure in a relationship + shortage of money lead to chastity belt.

Depends on the family.

Angelina

Vanessa Depends on the family.

I think (hope) that @Laura is being sarcastic 😃

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