Couples chastity

Angelina

that sounds like good plans, then i hope that you will soon be looking for a partner again with whom you can live all your wishes. 🙂

Sasha

Angelina As soon as my new gear arrives I plan to. Hopefully I find that person who accepts me, my chastity and decision to wait till I’ve graduated.

Angelina

Sasha

i really hope so for you, you are making such a great turn in your life and you deserve it 🙂

Andrew

As for me, a couple in chastity belts could only function sensibly if there was a third person who was their keyholder (so in practice it would be a kind of triangle). Holding each other's keys makes no sense to me, because sooner or later it will lead to "trading" on a quid pro quo basis.

Laura

Andrew so in practice it would be a kind of triangle

Or a parent of an engaged couple, for example

pestulens

Andrew sooner or later it will lead to "trading" on a quid pro quo basis.

Seems like that would be the point, certainly would strengthen the relationship which is presumably the gole.

Greatcornbow

Andrew As for me, a couple in chastity belts could only function sensibly if there was a third person who was their keyholder (so in practice it would be a kind of triangle).

This could be a really strong scenario. I've heard it actually happen but not often.

Sin

Laura Or a parent of an engaged couple, for example

Ewww no thanks. That's just weird.

Laura

Sin That's just weird

Why is it?
https://unwedchastity.org/d/87-does-emilie-should-wear-a-chastity-belt-opinion-only

Sin

Laura I can't imagine any situation where my parents would be involved in my sex life. I just find it gross and incestuous. Apparently that makes me a bit of an outlier on here, but I can't ever see a time where I am comfortable with the amount of parental involvement on this forum. It's just super weird where I'm from. That being said, I didn't grow up in a cult or a religion, and that appears to be a common thread on here. (Sadly it also seems to be a pretty common denominator when it comes to inappropriate sexual behaviour).

Angelina

Sin

Ines

i try to remember that the belt is really just a tool. the belt can be anything, a sex toy, an educational tool etc. etc. it always depends on how you use it, in any case i wouldn't want to make any general statements.

Ines

I think exactly as Sin in this part, a parent involved is odd, in the best of cases.
However, a both members belted couple is very odd for me too, it would ruin virtually every feeling that I have as wearer.

Sin

Ines a both members belted couple is very odd for me too

We tend to alternate... I wear a belt when he works away, and he wears a cage on the week when he's home. But there's been a few times recently where we were both locked at the same time, and I found it pretty intense.

Jonas

Jonas Where chastity is a sex game or fetish then no, parents can't really be involved, but where it's a pure personal development thing, help to enforce rules that you want to follow, parental authority is about the safest form of external control you could possibly find.

I put the best spin I could think of on parental involvement above. The question seems to hinge on whether those involved, and those viewing, consider chastity to always be a sexual activity.

If chastity is considered sexual, then "Sex with parents wtf?! Eeew, gross!". However, where it's viewed as non-sexual then chastity could be viewed as a simple agreement between adults.

Logically, chastity should be viewed as non-sexual endeavour, if an honest priest tells me to remain chaste he's not having sex with me. However, the world view is currently being set by the kink/fetish crowd who (as @MissBlossom quotes) see chastity as the ultimate sexual perversion and project that view onto all.

Not every situation is a scene. However, yeah, in general, I too am very sceptical of any and all parental involved reported on this forum.

pestulens

Jonas I am inclined to agree, even in the cases hear where I think the parents are crossing the line there is nothing incestuous about chastity the way it is discussed hear. No more than a parents vetting who their teenagers can date at least.
However, when talking about a couple in chastity together, that is a little different. That implies a level of sexual involvement that would be more difficult to manage. Not impossible, but harder so I see why some find it off-putting.

MissBlossom

Jonas If chastity is considered sexual, then "Sex with parents wtf?! Eeew, gross!". However, where it's viewed as non-sexual then chastity could be viewed as a simple agreement between adults.

Thank you for spelling this out. It helps me to understand the other view better. I try not to judge, but sometimes I don't understand.

Jonas However, the world view is currently being set by the kink/fetish crowd who (as @MissBlossom quotes) see chastity as the ultimate sexual perversion and project that view onto all.

I had no idea that I was setting the world view! lol Just posting my thoughts.

I don't think that Huxley was entirely accurate. I am aware of other perversions that I think are more unnatural. (I won't list them here! lol) I also don't think he was talking about chastity belts, but I still love the quote and I think it was a clever way of making his point.

Owl

I was wondering: @Saintprudence and @GoodyProctor : Haven't you started a phase of couple in chastity, recently? With a strongly catholic mother effectively succeeding in implementing the strictest doctrine?
(Plz, correct if I am wrong. Or if you want to elaborate bit more.)

Sin

Next question for the boys / couples... This might be a bit risque for the forum so feel free to delete if it's too much...

Do you and your partner ever try to have sex with the cage on? How does your partner tease you? What drives you nuts?

Asking strictly for research purposes of course!

Jonas

Sin What drives you nuts?

When she cums a bomb and I can't, ofc! 🤣

Kaja

Sin We do it.

Sin

Kaja I like it. His cage has the bars that run lengthways, so it feels nice. (For me. Him... not so much!).

I also like to sleep with a chain from the cage to a ring on my finger. (We use an old necklace). It's a little bit mean but I like to torment him when he's asleep!

Ines

Angelina i try to remember that the belt is really just a tool. the belt can be anything, a sex toy, an educational tool etc. etc. it always depends on how you use it, in any case i wouldn't want to make any general statements.

I do not make a general statement, and as I said, I respect every use further the forced usage. I accept every other even if this forum is not dedicated to those usages.
I gave my opinion. And yes, parents involved in the chastity belt of a wife, is a very strange situation for me.

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