Couples chastity

pestulens

Jonas I am inclined to agree, even in the cases hear where I think the parents are crossing the line there is nothing incestuous about chastity the way it is discussed hear. No more than a parents vetting who their teenagers can date at least.
However, when talking about a couple in chastity together, that is a little different. That implies a level of sexual involvement that would be more difficult to manage. Not impossible, but harder so I see why some find it off-putting.

MissBlossom

Jonas If chastity is considered sexual, then "Sex with parents wtf?! Eeew, gross!". However, where it's viewed as non-sexual then chastity could be viewed as a simple agreement between adults.

Thank you for spelling this out. It helps me to understand the other view better. I try not to judge, but sometimes I don't understand.

Jonas However, the world view is currently being set by the kink/fetish crowd who (as @MissBlossom quotes) see chastity as the ultimate sexual perversion and project that view onto all.

I had no idea that I was setting the world view! lol Just posting my thoughts.

I don't think that Huxley was entirely accurate. I am aware of other perversions that I think are more unnatural. (I won't list them here! lol) I also don't think he was talking about chastity belts, but I still love the quote and I think it was a clever way of making his point.

Sin

Ines a both members belted couple is very odd for me too

We tend to alternate... I wear a belt when he works away, and he wears a cage on the week when he's home. But there's been a few times recently where we were both locked at the same time, and I found it pretty intense.

Owl

I was wondering: @Saintprudence and @GoodyProctor : Haven't you started a phase of couple in chastity, recently? With a strongly catholic mother effectively succeeding in implementing the strictest doctrine?
(Plz, correct if I am wrong. Or if you want to elaborate bit more.)

Sin

Next question for the boys / couples... This might be a bit risque for the forum so feel free to delete if it's too much...

Do you and your partner ever try to have sex with the cage on? How does your partner tease you? What drives you nuts?

Asking strictly for research purposes of course!

Jonas

Sin What drives you nuts?

When she cums a bomb and I can't, ofc! 🤣

Kaja

Sin We do it.

Sin

Kaja I like it. His cage has the bars that run lengthways, so it feels nice. (For me. Him... not so much!).

I also like to sleep with a chain from the cage to a ring on my finger. (We use an old necklace). It's a little bit mean but I like to torment him when he's asleep!

Angelina

Sin

Ines

i try to remember that the belt is really just a tool. the belt can be anything, a sex toy, an educational tool etc. etc. it always depends on how you use it, in any case i wouldn't want to make any general statements.

Ines

Angelina i try to remember that the belt is really just a tool. the belt can be anything, a sex toy, an educational tool etc. etc. it always depends on how you use it, in any case i wouldn't want to make any general statements.

I do not make a general statement, and as I said, I respect every use further the forced usage. I accept every other even if this forum is not dedicated to those usages.
I gave my opinion. And yes, parents involved in the chastity belt of a wife, is a very strange situation for me.

Angelina

Ines

i didn't want to attack you, but the problem is that the belt can be used for different things. it can be an absolutely perverted toy, an educational tool, or a loving gesture. i just wanted to make that clear.

Josephine

There was a nice story in a german chastity forum. For all who understand or have a good translation software, this might be a way it could work. I like this idea, but my husband would not be so convinced, I think....

https://www.kgforum.org/display_5_2407_100477.html

Max9

Josephine Well, that's exactly what this community is not about - erotical chastity fetish- stories

Ines

Angelina

I did not feel attacked, do not worry.
I only say that parents having a role in the sexual life of a marriage is strange.
I could accept it if, for example, husband has to go abroad and someone is on charge of keyholding that time, but not more.

Angelina

Ines I only say that parents having a role in the sexual life of a marriage is strange.

isn't it the same with you, i mean who has the keys to your belt? your parents, right?

Andrew

Ines I only say that parents having a role in the sexual life of a marriage is strange.

Strange - is an understatement. It's a hard perversion.

Ines It is natural!

I am not convinced that parents' interference in the sexuality of their offspring is something "natural", although there is some logic in it.

Ines

Angelina

But I do not have a husband!
It is natural!

Angelina

Ines But I do not have a husband!

sorry i missed the word marriage, of course i agree with you in that case

Ines

Andrew I am not convinced that parents' interference in the sexuality of their offspring is something "natural", although there is some logic in it.

Well, if daughters are single is a very different situation, if it is a married couple, it is very odd.

Andrew Strange - is an understatement. It's a hard perversion.

🤣 Men are always very direct! But, however, yes, you are right in my opinion.

Angelina

Andrew I am not convinced that parents' interference in the sexuality of their offspring is something "natural", although there is some logic in it.

interfere maybe not, but i think an interest is nothing abnormal

Mithras

Sasha Who should, in your opinion hold the keys? Should it be a third person (maybe one mother) and how should he or she organize the chastity regime? Unlock for both once a week or a month? Or unlock only one who then can Service his/her partner? Interesting concept :-)

Sasha

Mithras Kind of hard to answer really. Because if the partners hold each other’s keys I can see a possibility for retaliation for things like an argument.
But would also be strange a third party being involved in my marriages sex life.
I’m sure both being locked could work, but would need some serious rules and such

Mithras

Sasha Maybe you could use a timer lockbox, one for each partner. And configure them so, that only only one key is available at a time, i.e. one of the partners can remove the belt but the other cannot. For example her key could then be available every Saturday morning, his key Sunday afternoon …

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