Guaranteed virginity until marriage

Angelina

do you have ideas for this? a chastity belt for the mouth

HHelen

Angelina a chastity belt for the mouth

The opposite is enough.

Tim

HHelen The opposite is enough.

What if she feels she needs to "put out" to keep her boyfriend interested, so she turns to oral sex because the alternative isn't possible?

Angelina

HHelen The opposite is enough.

i don't understand, what's the opposite?

Vanessa

Angelina as described i would distinguish between a "physical virgin" and a "head virgin"

What do you think is the most "important virginity"?In case of someone who want to marry a virgin woman,which virginity do you think he would care about the most?

Tim

In my opinion,I understand she would do it;however,if he is truly in love with her,he would not break-up because she doesn't do oral sex.

Angelina

Making her boyfriend use oral sex on her,to make her orgasm.So @HHelen think preventing it is enough.

HHelen

Angelina i don't understand, what's the opposite?

Receiving oral sex.

Vanessa .So @HHelen think preventing it is enough.

Right. Usually it's a pleasure for both.

Angelina but this is not possible because of the belt?

This is why the parents of a virgin should use a secondary shield.

Angelina

Vanessa In case of someone who want to marry a virgin woman,which virginity do you think he would care about the most?

i think it is a personal decision

for example (in my opinion) you are a head virgin but not a physical virgin and I think that a head virgin is more important

Vanessa Making her boyfriend use oral sex on her,to make her orgasm.So @HHelen think preventing it is enough.

but this is not possible because of the belt? or have I lost the thread of the discussion?

Tim

Vanessa In my opinion,I understand she would do it;however,if he is truly in love with her,he would not break-up because she doesn't do oral sex.

Ditto. If he's in love with her, he won't, but a lot of girls are insecure.

Vanessa

Angelina i think it is a personal decision

Sure;and I think most people would consider the behavior(no sex,but hymen broken)more important than the psychical part(often have sex,but intact hymen).

HHelen Right. Usually it's a pleasure for both.

It is frustrating if she can't get it;but she may do it to give pleasure to her boyfriend,even if she's prevented to get it.

Tim

Sure,they may do it because they think it is necessary to keep their boyfriend,even if he could wait without it.

Angelina

Sure,but it is not easy to be sure he/she would still date us and be faithful as we know we wouldn't be able to give him/her(and,generally during several years)what other women can...

Angelina

HHelen This is why the parents of a virgin should use a secondary shield.

well, but she wears it during the day anyway

HHelen

Angelina well, but she wears it during the day anyway

I'm not talking about my daughter only. Parents should mind oral sex.

Vanessa but she may do it to give pleasure to her boyfriend,

She can also rebel this way, but I doubt it would last too long.

Angelina

Tim but a lot of girls are insecure.

well, i can only agree with @Vanessa. maybe girls in general need to become a little braver, even girls with belt 🙂

Tim

Vanessa Exactly.

Angelina Everyone except dangerous lunatics can benefit from more self-confidence. Our instincts come from a time when we were all hunter-gatherers and, if you made a bad impression, there was no chance to meet new people.

Angelina

Vanessa Sure;and I think most people would consider the behavior(no sex,but hymen broken)more important than the psychical part(often have sex,but intact hymen).

Right, I think it too 🙂

Vanessa Sure,but it is not easy to be sure he/she would still date us and be faithful as we know we wouldn't be able to give him/her(and,generally during several years)what other women can...

of course there is no such thing as 100% certainty, but if we don't try we won't know

Tim

that's right, so it's important that the belt doesn't destroy our self-confidence

Vanessa

Angelina of course there is no such thing as 100% certainty, but if we don't try we won't know

Even more as,if he breaks-up or cheat on her due to it,it proves he didn't love her.

HHelen I'm not talking about my daughter only. Parents should mind oral sex.

Depends if they mainly want to protect her hymen and avoid unwanted pregnancies.

Angelina

HHelen Parents should mind oral sex.

i guess it depends on what the parents are worried about, an unwanted pregnancy will not result

Max9

Well, there are still cobdoms and copper spirals and so on...

Angelina

Max9

of course but (I think @Tobbe once said it) the chastity belt is an all in one solution from some parents point of view

Max9

Angelina That's right. Prevention of unwanted pregnancies, of rape, sexual assault, teenage pregnancy, and for some also as a prevention for masturbation

Angelina

Max9

this is exactly what i mean, it is an effective but of course very restrictive solution, because the belt does not allow the one and at the same time protects against the other. it must be both wanted

Vanessa Even more as,if he breaks-up or cheat on her due to it,it proves he didn't love her.

it is true, it is a bitter but also honest experience

HHelen

Vanessa Depends if they mainly want to protect her hymen and avoid unwanted pregnancies.

Even if that was their goal originally, a secondary shield is a bonus add-on.

Vanessa

Angelina it is true, it is a bitter but also honest experience

Yes,it is hard at first,but after some time,we can understand he/she wasn't in love,and so,it may not be a bad thing he/she decided to break-up.

HHelen

Only if they want to prevent oral sex and/or masturbation.If they don't care at all,there is no reason to add it.

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