Kaja
No. There are two conflicting principal here.
1) The right of a society to set it's own rules, even if these rules impose limitations on the rights of individual people.
2) The right of an individual to make a free decision and not have anyrhing enforced.
The question now is: what do you do if 1 and 2 are in conflict with each other?
Correct me if I am wrong, but from the way you argue, it appears you set the right of the individual person over that of the society.
I see it the other way round, because if our society has no right to impose rules and set limitations on individual freedom, everything goes towards anarchy.
That does not make me less moral, it is just different priorities.
Just like you I would prefer for Afghan women to have equal rights and a chance to get good education. But even higher than that I want Afghanistan society to be able to function in whatever way they internally decide they want to create their rules.
And the 'do nothing' is exactly based on that Priority. If I want a society to be able to estsblish and enforce rules, I cannot at the same time help individual people to bypass these rules just because the actual rule is not to my likimg.